"But you can't just let my mother take care of five people at home alone, you don't know how tired we are doing together today.

Otherwise, let's hold on for two more days, maybe in two days the eldest brother or the younger sister will not be able to hold on first, or we will spend some money and ask someone to come and help take care of the elderly.

It may be a bit expensive to hire a professional, but there are not many old men and women in our village who are relatively old and have nothing to do, and if you ask them to help take care of them, maybe it can be cheaper. ”

Liu Qianghai himself obviously doesn't want to stay and take care of his grandparents and his great-grandparents, but some things are really hard to say.

So I can only persuade my daughter-in-law euphemistically.

While making suggestions that he thinks are feasible.

"You can pull it down, what a bad idea.

You don't look at how old these left-behind old people in your village are, they are all seventy or eighty years old, do you invite them to come over to take care of your grandparents, or your grandparents to take care of them, in case something happens accidentally.

If you fall and break your leg or have some other accident, we won't have to pay for it.

Bad ideas all day long.

Besides, how much money do you have, your son's 30-year mortgage has not been paid off for five years, your grandson is about to buy a house again, and the down payment is still tens of thousands, and the mortgage is 25 years later.

Which side doesn't cost money?

Plus next year's eldest grandson's wedding.

What do you get every month, if you hire professional nursing, your monthly money is not enough for half a month's salary of professional nursing, you can't bury your neck for a few people, and even people who are about to be covered up, regardless of the small ones at home, don't you say?

Forget it, I won't talk nonsense with you.

Let's look back.

See how your big brother reacts.

I don't believe that your sister-in-law can insist, she is pampered, she doesn't even cook at home, and she lets her daughter-in-law cook, and lives like an old lady, sleep, turn off the light and sleep. ”

After scolding her husband a few more words and completely rejecting his suggestion, Concubine Li didn't bother to continue, she decided to follow her husband's first idea to see what the eldest brother's reaction would be tomorrow, and then improvised.

With that, she lifted the quilt.

Covered his head and went to sleep.

Liu Qianghai hesitated for a while and fell asleep.

Although they went to bed a little earlier today, they were indeed tired, so there was no situation where they couldn't sleep, and not long after lying down, they quickly fell asleep, and were called up by Qiao Mu in the middle of the night and asked them to take the old man to the toilet.

The old family and the little girl over there are the same, they were all called by the arbor in the middle of the night, since it is to let them experience their own hardship, then naturally let them experience it thoroughly, and they can't ignore the situation of getting up in the middle of the night and more than two times.

This operation of the arbor.

It undoubtedly made their mood worse.

The next morning, the alarm clock at more than five o'clock woke them up, and they took them to change into adult diapers for the four old people.

After changing diapers.

Not long after breakfast.

Liu Qianghai and Liu Qiangliang, two couples, pulled Qiao Mu to the backyard, avoiding the four old men and the paralyzed father in bed, and wanted to talk to Qiao Mu.

Liu Fang saw it and followed.

She also wanted to talk to Qiao Mu here.

"Mom, don't toss us.

After so many years before, you haven't said anything, haven't you survived?

Now you suddenly call us over, and then toss us like this, I think there must be something you want to talk to us or discuss, if there is something you want to say, what do you want for money, you say directly, don't toss us around the bend like this.

Okay, really, please! ”

After being pulled up twice in the middle of the night last night, Liu Qiangliang discussed with his daughter-in-law for a while.

I think there must be something I want to say if my mother is so abnormal, but I'm embarrassed to say it directly, so I pulled Qiao Mu over, and wanted to spread out the matter with Qiao Mu and explain it.

Liu Qianghai and his daughter-in-law on the side obviously thought differently from his eldest brother, but when he heard his eldest brother say this, he also felt a little reasonable.

So he hurriedly echoed his daughter-in-law.

"That's what you all think?

Do you really think that tossing you so much is just to ask you for money, I really hope that you will come back and take care of them and practice in advance.

Strong Volume, Strong Sea, do you still remember, when did your grandparents start Alzheimer's? Do you remember when your grandfather and grandmother started to get confused? ”

Qiao Mu endured the discomfort in the heart of the original body, looked at them with red eyes, and asked.

"This ......"

Liu Qianghai and Liu Qiang, the two brothers, were stunned for a moment, looked at each other again, and then hesitated to reply: "Grandpa seems to have been for many years, right?"

I remember when my grandson Xiaowen was born.

Grandpa and grandma's brains are a little unclear, if you want to say confused, it will probably be nearly thirty years, twenty-five or six years must be, grandparents should have started to be confused more than ten years ago, Mom, you ......"

"No, they're all in their eighties, I think about it, they're all in their eighties and start to get confused, and they basically don't know anyone in their early nineties, Mom, you're worried about your own ......"

Well, the two of them recalled.

I finally understood the key to what Qiao Mu said.

The grandparents of the two of them, the grandparents and grandparents, basically began to slowly get confused after the age of eighty-five or sixteen, and basically from that time, they gradually changed from mild Alzheimer's disease to severe Alzheimer's disease, and Qiao Mu is eighty-six this year, and her paralyzed husband is also eighty-four.

Even if the original body is not poisoned.

It is estimated that it will not be sober for a few years.

"yes, I'm worried I'm going to get confused too.

I've started to forget about it a lot, have you seen the calendar at home, the calendar is full of memorization.

I'm afraid I'll forget something.

Do you think I can still take care of your grandparents, grandparents, and your fathers for a long time, I am not a god, and I have no way to control the disease of Alzheimer's disease.

And you don't want to think about how old I am, how many more years do you think I can move.

Now I can't move you, then I can't move for two years, will you just let the six of us old guys wait at home to die, and then come back to collect our bodies?

Do you know, how many times have your grandparents been lost, it is because our village is relatively closed, everyone is an acquaintance, so that we can find it smoothly every time, if I go into the city with you, then I really don't know if I can find it, I can't tie your grandparents to the house with a rope, is that like a word?

That's all I have to say.

What are your thoughts now?

Do you just want to care about it, or do you want to do something? ”

Qiao Mu really didn't lie this time, the original body did have some preliminary symptoms of Alzheimer's disease, but it is not obvious at present, and the initial manifestation is that memory begins to deteriorate, but because of age, memory will decline.

So the original didn't care too much.

The original body didn't understand it and didn't care, how could Qiao Mu not understand and not care, although she had a way to control the initial symptoms, but at this time, it was no problem to take it out and tell her son.

Even if they take her for a check-up.

That's also the conclusion.