After Xue Langjing finished speaking, there was only silence around, these things, they had never thought about it, and no one had ever said it to them, and even after thinking about her words a few times, some of them didn't completely understand, how could it be like this or that.

But in short, the life of the woman she described was undoubtedly terrifying, and it was definitely not what they wanted to experience.

They find it incredible that there are so many unheard of opinions that are different from ordinary people, but when they want to refute it in their hearts, they can't say that they are wrong. I think she is alarmist, but every sentence seems to make sense.

Originally, it was just a worry, at this time, grandma and they found their in-laws for them, afraid that they would not be able to endure a hard life, but when she said this, it seemed that marrying someone was like entering the abyss.

But this abyss is not groundless, it is her alarmist nonsense, look at the grandmother, mother-in-law, and the surrounding daughters-in-law, mothers-in-law, and grandmothers, it seems that few of them can escape the situation she said, and they all go as she says.

The girls around me who are waiting to be married seem to be in a similar situation to them, some are better than them, but they are not much better. There are those who are better, but they can be seen with a clear eye, and they are not comparable to their brothers.

Is there anything more terrible than these girls who hate their grandmothers and mothers who treat them harshly, but in the future, they will become the people they once hated and hated?

"Then, Eighth Sister, you said that marrying someone is so terrifying, what about getting rich? Isn't there also a husband, a son, a daughter-in-law, a daughter-in-law, and even a grandchild? ”

Xue Xuanjing was a little puzzled, even if she was in trouble, didn't these identities still exist?

The sisters also nodded, obviously in deep opinion.

Xue Langjing had long expected them to ask such a question, so he continued to explain to them the difference between recruiting and marrying.

These identities will indeed exist, but if they are recruited, everyone will not have to get married, the woman still lives in her own home, here are your sisters, parents, grandparents, and all of them are your blood relatives.

You don't have to reintegrate into a strange family like a new daughter-in-law who marries into a mother-in-law's family, and treat your husband as your only support.

This is your own home, no matter what grievances you have suffered, everyone can make decisions for you, you don't have to be like in your in-law's house, you can only swallow it dumbly like coptis if you are wronged, and no one will tell you, because they are a family.

At home, your husband is no longer your only one, no longer your heaven, he is just one more person in your life to maintain an intimate relationship with you and accompany you.

You are equal, you don't have to please him, let alone your father-in-law, mother-in-law, brother-in-law, sister-in-law and other big families, because you don't have to live with them, you don't have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and concubine.

At this point, they are going to ask again.

Isn't there still a question of how to treat children and daughters-in-law in the future?

This is indeed going through.

But it's different.

In your in-law's family, your sons and grandchildren are your future and your everything.

But in your own family, not only they are your future, everyone in this family, all the younger generations, are all your blood relatives, and when you are old, you don't just rely on your son, the east is not bright and the west is bright.

You know, even if your children are not filial, there are all the other juniors who can support you, even if they don't support you, you still have sisters, sisters are their elders, even if they don't listen to you, they have to listen to their direct elders, unless the family is all disobedient.

On the issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son is no longer your only support, you don't have to pin your future on him, he is just one of your children, so you naturally don't have to rob your daughter-in-law of this son.

As for the difference between treating children, it is simpler, the daughter does not marry, and she can also be recruited, then she will continue to be by your side, and her children are also your grandchildren, and they will also provide for you in the future.

In this way, your children are the same, they are all your dependents, and your grandchildren are the same, and you will naturally not discriminate against these people who are equally important to you.

Well, it seems to be true that the daughters are not married, and they will provide for you as your descendants, so naturally there is no such thing as the water spilled by the married daughter.

"But, in this way, isn't it just as unfair to the son-in-law who comes to the door, they want to leave home and enter another strange family, just like the daughter-in-law who marries into the in-law's family."

This is what the empathetic Xue Zhujing said, since it is unfair for her daughter-in-law to marry into her in-law's family, wouldn't it be the same for them to let a man be recruited?

Xue Langjing was naturally reluctant to agree with her words, "Look at what the fourth sister said, our women have been married to their in-laws' families as daughters-in-law from generation to generation for thousands of years, and I haven't seen any men who feel that this world is unfair to them. ”

Her doubts seemed to have been solved.

But, but, is it really that easy?

"Xiaoba, as you said, as long as you get into it, all the troubles seem to be solved, but the most direct problem now is that our family doesn't have so much money. Grandma will never agree not to say it, even if they agree, they will solve the follow-up troubles you said, and in the future, their daughters and granddaughters will all be rich, how can you guarantee that our family will definitely have so much money, and all the girls will be recruited", Xue Shanjing directly pointed out the key points.

"That's it, that's it, that's what I mean, eighth sister, we don't have any money, and grandma won't agree, and it will cost a lot of silver in the future", Xiao Jiu, who was told by the second sister, hurriedly responded.

Unexpectedly, Xue Langjing waved his hand boldly, "Didn't I say it before, I will let you live a good life, I have a way to solve the money matter, and I also have a way to get them to agree to grandma, as for the future, do you know why a man marries a woman?" Because every family of our people needs to farm and need labor, it is indeed a man's advantage in this regard, but after you recruit a man, there is also an adult man in the family. When you all recruit money, there will be eight more adult men in our family who are in their strongest period, and the labor force will be no worse than that of other families. And when your sons and daughters got married, I felt that my hunting ability should still be there at that time, and I could solve this problem in terms of money. As for the grandchildren, by that time, how many people have bred in our family, haven't you heard of it, there is a lot of power in people, there is nothing that can't be solved, right? ”

At this time, she naturally didn't mind drawing a big pie for her sisters to let them know the benefits of recruitment.

She said it so boldly, and she directly made the sisters happy.

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