"That's what you're talking about. As a woman, it's really not easy to live in the moment. Conan's wife said.

"It's hard for men, it's always hard. None of us have a background. If one had, wouldn't have stayed in this place. The current atmosphere is very bad. Conan said.

She said: "Didn't you say that for the sake of faith, for the interests of the majority of people, sacrifice your own interests and the interests of your family, and give up your small family for everyone!" How do you explain that? ”

"People are very good at finding a big hat to button up and look radiant, but in fact, it is another thing in the heart, it is difficult to say it, and what is ashamed to say is often the most real. There are many inconsistencies between what is said and what is done. You say, don't you? Conan said.

She said, "yes." I know you're having a hard time too. But you are passive in nature, and in order not to offend others, you often go against the grain, preferring to suffer your own losses and satisfy the other party. Therefore, I am worried that when others want to use you, you will not hesitate to give it to others, and when others run out of use, you will kick it away, and you will not complain. Why do I want to ask you about your situation at home Sanguan, because I am worried that there is something wrong with your personality, and when she looks for you, of course, you are reluctant to pay, and I know that you don't have much money. However, you are young now, good-looking, handsome and powerful, and some women are willing to stick it upside down. Don't be tough with me, I'm a woman, I understand women. It is only when they attack the opponent's position that they understand the situation of the other side. ”

"Okay, okay, here we go again, I'm not that kind of person, what's worried about me? You don't have to look at people with tinted glasses. I'm not afraid of you looking at me, and I'm not afraid of shadows. Conan said, and as he spoke, he felt his face burn.

"Men use their eyes to sin. When we went shopping, I observed that when you see a beautiful woman passing by on the street, you will look, not looking away, but staring, right? Have you been wronged? My husband I have eyes to see, I can see very clearly, a few pounds and a few taels I have weighed, not the slightest difference, you have to be careful, don't be caught by me, otherwise, you can't eat and walk around. She said.

"That's a number of times, isn't it just once or twice? You should know what kind of virtue I have, right? Conan said.

"With the beginning, it is not easy to brake the car, and if you say it well in person, you don't necessarily do it well behind it. I'm not by your side, you are in need, young and vigorous, full of energy, when you see a beautiful woman, you don't react, you don't believe it if you kill me. You probably don't even believe in yourself, do you? She said.

"Alright, let's wash and sleep. How can there be so many words! Is it that women who are married and have babies talk a lot? Conan said.

"Don't bother me, you are my husband, I am your wife, wife, wife, always verbose, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, I don't love you, I don't talk about you, say that you are all for your good, don't be kind to be a donkey's liver and lungs. If you are a donkey's liver and lungs, I can disobey you! Do you understand? She said.

"Okay, my wife, the liver and lungs of donkeys are still good things now, and most people eat hormone meat, water-infused meat, and their bodies are devastated. As the saying goes, 'dragon meat in the sky, donkey meat on the ground', that's a good thing! Who has ever eaten dragon meat? But donkey meat has a lot to eat. Donkey liver and lungs are the essence of the donkey's body, and only the most distinguished guests are qualified to eat it. Conan said.

"My husband is giving me a lesson again. Tonight, can you talk more about the "Physiology and Hygiene" class, make up for it, I haven't learned, learned, studied thoroughly, and there is no internship, are you willing to use it as my internship material? She said.

Conan thought about it, and after only a few hours, he had a good idea again, and said, "Okay, wife, no problem, let you study enough." To learn from each other, I also want to understand the knowledge of physiology and hygiene, pay attention to hygiene, and develop good habits. ”

"You're so bad!" She said.

Conan smiled and said, "Don't talk about me, each other!" If it's not bad, how can you give birth to a baby? We are all descendants of bandits, that's right, who is civilized? Nobody, you're not, I'm not, he's not, whoever says they're civilized, everyone is a person who has a problem with his brain and has a donkey kicking his head. You say, don't you? In general, bandits say that they are civilized people, and civilized people do not say that they are bandits. A truly civilized person calls himself a bandit. ”

"You're confusing me, are we civilized or bandits, you make it clear? If we are bandits, then it is you, not me, I am a civilized person, you are a bandit, I am not, do you understand? She said.

"We are all savages, we look like bandits, but we don't actually look like bandits, because we can pretend, we can act, we can put on makeup, and outsiders can't see what we are. It looks good on the outside, but in fact it is not, and on the outside it looks like a civilized person, but in fact it is a bandit and a barbarian. We have gone through thousands of years from barbarians to bandits to civilized people, some are still, some are not, some look from the outside, some are not, what it is, we know it in our hearts, and the people outside do not know. Ji Conan said.

Conan looked at the child with a smile, and the little one fell asleep, the corners of his mouth moved, and he fell asleep again. Maybe he was dreaming about eating just now, this little guy even dreams of eating when he sleeps, it seems that he will be a typical foodie in the future. Conan looked at the child's pink face, thin, faint eyebrows, sweet mouth, and couldn't help but kiss the child's tender little face, his heart was full of love and pity, how could there be this miracle of life? It's this little thing, which makes people dream, and suddenly grows up a lot, the ignorant teenager and hot-blooded young man before is gone, replaced by a young father, the role is changing, the identity is changing, and all the things of the past no longer exist.

Conan thought, he has children, and he still has relationships with those passionate women, and has he crossed the thunder pool? If you cross the thunder pool, it seems that you are going to brake, and if you don't brake in time, you may have to overturn, or there are other dangers.

If you are not married, you can still say that you have the right to find the other half, and now that you are not only married, but also have children, you have to live a good life, you can't be half-hearted, you have to converge and converge. This is self-vigilance, self-warning, don't mess up, do something wrong, sorry for people, sorry for your conscience, and more importantly, sorry for your future generations.

There are so many women in the world, it is impossible for everyone you meet in your life to be your third party in your previous life, and when you meet occasionally, you think that you are destined to go through this life with her, how long this life is, how long the road is, no one knows.

It seems that the cooperation of marriage is not something that people can control, and it is clear that people look very compatible, but the result is not white; It seems that they are very different, but they are close to each other and go through their lives. This matter, not a course or professor or scholar such as "Psychology" and "Marriage and Family Studies" can explain this matter clearly, perhaps, those who write or teach books are wishful thinking and dreams.

It didn't take long for Conan's wife to finish washing, exuding a faint fragrance, and in her pajamas, she saw Conan and glanced at it. Conan understood and immediately turned off the TV.

Somehow, Conan's mood didn't come back.

"What's the matter, I just said you, you have emotions? What's wrong? She asked.

"I don't know."

"Aren't you sick?"

"No, it won't. It's healthy, it can't be sick. ”

"It's okay, maybe I've been too tired for the past two days. Lie down for a while, and we'll do it again later. Isn't there a song called "All Over Again"? Don't be discouraged, believe you, you will do it! ”

Ji Conan was encouraged by his wife, who felt that the arguments that "domestic flowers do not have the fragrance of wild flowers" were unreliable!

It is also said that "what cannot be stolen" is more attractive. These worldly grotesque theories are full of magazines and books, and Conan does not know when he was affected by this, and unknowingly strayed into such a theoretical circle, which affected his life.

Thinking like this, Conan fell asleep.

His wife said a word next to him, all of which were innocuous words, Ji Conan sometimes responded to a sentence, sometimes he didn't speak, which is also good, unlike the pomegranate in June, it is a chrysanthemum in September, light but fragrant, delicate in shape and with ** after the autumn frost.

In late summer and early autumn, the nights are not as hot as before, and there is basically no need for electric fans at night in the mountains, and cool air blows in through the windows. Very pleasant. Conan blew the breeze and gradually fell asleep.

In the middle of the night, I heard the sound of the violin in the distance, and now I no longer play "Liang Zhu", but "Flowers and Boys", Conan listened to such a sensational tune, imagined the beautiful girl on the grassland, or was moved by the tune, he patted her gently, she opened her eyes, and asked, "Why don't you sleep?" ”

"I slept, and now I'm awake, and I've dreamed, and I want to ask you." Ji Conan said.

"What did you dream about?" She asked.

"I dreamed that my son went to college." Ji Conan said.

"Nonsense, how old is my son, he will go to college! You dream. She laughs.

"yes, wasn't I talking about dreaming?"

"That's right, how did I forget this. Sleeping in a daze. ”

"You say, we won't go on like this forever, when will we go back to our hometown to develop, the children will grow up and need their father by their side, the conditions in the mountains will definitely not be good, you have to think clearly."

"Isn't that nice?"

"What a fart. You don't want to think about the back road? She asked rhetorically.

"What's the use of thinking about it? One step at a time. Things work themselves out. Ji Conan said, looking full of confidence.

"Have you not heard others say that people who have no long-term concerns must have near-term worries? What if you don't think about the long term? She asked.

Ji Conan was silent.

After a while, Conan's wife laughed "poof", which frightened Conan and asked, "What's the matter, have you eaten bee poop?" ”

"You looked stupid just now, but it's pretty cute!"

Conan said, "Go to sleep, didn't you think I was stupid and would marry me?" There are so many handsome guys in the city, so many rich second generations, contractors, you don't want them, but you want me to be such a poor bastard, so poor that only the balls are left, why? ”

"Women don't want you to be handsome, how rich, women just want to have a happy marriage, a lifelong partner who can stay with each other, a husband who can bring security, a father who can discipline his children, and a tolerant heart that can accept each other's shortcomings, it is enough, money cannot buy happiness, nor can it buy health, money is not everything. Besides, a person's face will change, and a person's heart will change. A woman's external beauty is only a few years, if when beauty and youth are gone, men can still maintain the temperature of love with women, and often rely on each other, that is true happiness. ”

"Yes, what you said makes a lot of sense, if a poor husband has a third party outside, what should I do, do you still love him?"

"Love, of course love, if a wife lets her husband have a third party outside, it proves two things."

Conan asked, "Which two?" ”

She said: "First, it proves that women's vision is good, the men they have tried have become children and their fathers, and women come to love, just like choosing clothes, the clothes that women fancy must be good clothes, grab them, cherish them, and can't be discarded casually; Second, it proves that men are attractive and energetic, lack of strength, no women like them, what do women want men, for rich people, people look down on her, for rich people, and look down on him, women are willing to associate with a poor man, in addition to heart-to-heart, that is, to make friends. If one of them cannot be satisfied, in the eyes of a woman, this man is not a complete man, but an incompetent man. ”

"And what if I have it?" Conan asked.

"You have, I like it better. If you want to live with me, I welcome you; You don't want to come with me, whatever. However, if there is a divorce in the future, you will live with that woman, and I will live with the children. ”

"I'm afraid it's not good, I prefer children." Conan said.

"It's not good, and it can't be helped. Anyway, kid, I'm going to decide. No matter how difficult it is and how unpredictable the future is, I have to raise my children. She said that she seemed very sure, confident, courageous, in short, with a resolute attitude, very strong.

"Forget it, you don't have to take it seriously." As soon as Ji Conan saw it, he admitted defeat, until the dispute continued like this, and there was no result until dawn, so he had to admit defeat by himself. Admit defeat early, settle down early, admit defeat later, later, it will be late, you will have to sacrifice a lot of brain cells.

She smiled and said, "What's it?" Fortune tellers generally ask, what are you? I don't believe in fortunes, and I don't go to fortune telling. Poor and pedantic men, few women like. When people reach this age and have children, they have no hope, just raise the child as an adult, and don't have to think about anything else, it's better to do something down-to-earth. You say, don't you? ”

Conan asked, "Actually, I agree with you, but we don't know what the road ahead is?" I can only pray to God. You can't rely on people. Rely on everyone to fall, rely on the mountains to fall. It's all the same truth, I don't know if you agree with what I said? ”