Conan saw his mother-in-law washing dishes, a job that had been done by his mother-in-law since Conan and his wife were married.

The father-in-law rarely does it, and I don't know why. Conan speculated that it might be related to his father-in-law's low self-esteem. He knew that he was sick and was afraid of contagion, so he automatically avoided it. However, there are some things that cannot be avoided. It may also be that the idea of male superiority and inferiority of women is making trouble, because even a useless woman will lose three points in front of her husband, which is due to the general social environment. Very consciously, the mother-in-law gave the father-in-law a look, and without speaking, the father-in-law understood and immediately did whatever he wanted.

It's not that his father-in-law is lazy, since he was transferred from the company and didn't go to the public institution, he devoted himself to taking care of his family at home. This is a manifestation of his love for his family, he is too responsible for his family, he is inevitably anxious, and he speaks straightforwardly in all aspects, and he will not be tactful or soft-spoken.

The family affairs are bigger than the sky, and the wife is Sai Wanjin. The love of youth will not fade with age, but will become more and more pure, more refined, and better and better! It is this that Conan values this, being faithful to his family and loving his family is the duty of a man, don't think that women say big things, and they completely trust women. When women are at their most vulnerable, they often like to brag, which is what Conan observed, tried and tested. Ji Conan learned a lot from his father-in-law. This is something that is not available in school or in books.

He is not lazy, and he is ashamed of being lazy, and the advantage he gets is that he can stay in the company for ten years, protect his beloved wife at home, raise children, and although he does not train college students, he surpasses his peers in terms of moral level. Strict discipline of children, poor academic performance, many reasons, poor moral level, unforgivable. Ji Conan's father-in-law grasped this aspect tightly and early. Nurturing children as human beings is not enough to learn knowledge. Ji Conan's wife is not highly educated, because her family education is good and she has a certain education, which attracted Ji Conan's attention. If it weren't for that, Ji Conan might not be married.

When it comes to college, Ji Conan thinks to himself, college students are more bitter than anyone else. The reputation is good, but the reality is just false. He was at ease, because he had done his filial piety by sending the old man away, and that he was willing to give up the opportunity to work in the city for the sake of his family, which is worth learning. Besides, he is a family lover, and he knows how to be humorous in front of his neighbors, so that everyone likes to play with him, talk and chat together, and pass the time plainly. There are no shortcomings. As for cultivating college students, some people are cultivating, and when they are cultivated, they will not come back, leaving lonely old people, and no matter how much they regret it, they can't do anything, because they all hope that their children will jump out of the farm and aim to be good men. However, fame is there, but there is no benefit. Many elderly people are trying their best to let their children come back to play during the New Year's holidays, even if they look at their children, it is worth doing.

Of course, college students with backgrounds will rise smoothly and smoothly. The bitter ones are those college students who study hard and want to change their fate by reading and jumping out of the farm. It is never knowledge that changes fate, but relationships that change fate. Reading is not the only way out, but reading exams are the only way to select talents.

Conan knew that if a case was in the hands of the judge, then he would have discretion, and a case could be judged this way or that, in short, left and right, depending on whether the relationship was good or bad, and if the relationship was good, he would take care of it, and if the relationship was not good, he would leave it aside and ignore it. Let the losing party go through the next step of the process.

In addition, taking poverty alleviation as an example, it also depends on relationships, and if the relationship is good, projects can be implemented in the places where the households are related; If the relationship is not good, go somewhere else to do it, and finally settle down, still in the relationship household, and will not go to an irrelevant place.

Because of this, Miss Liu relied on Feng Feifei in particular, because Feng Feifei is a mainlander, a teacher, a large number of students, and a wide range of connections, so there is no problem in maintaining one side, and in this way, some projects are implemented in the villages they want the foundation to implement, and whether the villages are in need depends on how those villagers answer.

Conan admires his father-in-law very much, this person is interesting, hanging the portrait of a great man in the middle of the hall, but he is always unaccustomed to the phenomenon of today's world, and he also cares about social affairs, and he also expresses his opinion in his speech, that is, all this is the first creation of a generation of great men, of course, this statement is only said in front of Conan, in front of outsiders, he still keeps silent.

If you talk about love, but he really loves, it is the great man who made him turn over from a poor man, it was effortless to be a soldier, he was demobilized to the village, and he also had a good thing to do, and there was no wind and waves in his life, and it was quite stable. It's good to take care of the family. A man always has to do something in his life, he can't do big things, he can do small things, he can't do things. Do things meaningfully and be worthy of time. If you don't waste time, it's good. Even if you do something wrong, it doesn't matter, because right or wrong is a feeling, and there is no right answer.

In addition, in front of his children, he never mentions sensitive topics such as important matters, which is very strange, in front of other sons-in-law, he doesn't mention it, just in front of Conan, mention this, Conan is engaged in social work, and has not joined any social groups, he trusts Conan so much, it seems that it is a good thing. Ji Conan didn't know if it was a good thing, in short, his father-in-law always looked at him with slanted eyes, spoke ugly, and didn't want to see him. Ji Conan was only cautious, for fear of offending his father-in-law. Offending his father-in-law is tantamount to offending his wife, and returning home is guilty. For example, if you don't wash your clothes or cook your meals, you can find a way to go by yourself. This really embarrassed Ji Conan.

Maybe, Conan was born to be engaged in management work, but, by mistake, he was born an official, but he didn't have the heart to serve the community, he wouldn't be deceitful to people, he wouldn't deceive, he wouldn't tie up with leaders, he wouldn't give gifts, in short, Conan's gift was almost non-existent, and he needed to make up for it, and the IQ of his boss was close to zero. Emotional intelligence is not high, the person in charge of the agency is a woman, Ji Conan is handsome, a flattering eye, maybe you can get started, as a result, Ji Conan doesn't understand the amorous feelings, doesn't throw flattery, doesn't do anything sorry for his wife, doesn't look at his eyes randomly, naturally looks dull, and over time, the female person in charge is cold-hearted, so she will give up. Ji Conan didn't know what was going on, and he thought that he didn't work hard, his grades were not obvious, or he had a lot of problems, all of which were in the heart of the female person in charge.

Conan's father-in-law is far away in the countryside, relying only on outdoor antennas to receive local TV programs, but he is only interested in the changes in the person in charge and the world's major events, and he is dispensable with TV series. If you are interested, you are also interested in military theme army life, and you have a choice, not to see everything.

However, Conan's mother-in-law is not tired of it, watching two episodes a day, sometimes three episodes, the comrades in charge of broadcasting are sometimes out socializing, coming back to work, the power of alcohol is still working, one more episode or one less episode, it's not nothing, fortunately, his mother-in-law doesn't know how to complain, otherwise, the letters from the TV station can be piled up. It is a habit to form a habit, as if eating, it is always inseparable. Of course, this is Ji Conan's idea, he is just imagining and analyzing it based on his own experience, why did he play it wrong?

Conan's mother-in-law also doesn't play with the computer, doesn't post complaints, and it's useless to complain. It may be deleted. TV stations are not afraid of falling, broadcasting advertisements, broadcasting bloody dramas, and they will not fall, because this is why they exist, because they exist. To exist is to be reasonable. There are no problems, and there are problems.

Anyway, Conan doesn't like to watch local TV shows, especially news, and has to keep asking "yes?" Thinking from the opposite side is not the same as reaction, doubt can promote progress, that is interesting. Otherwise, it is easy to be deceived and deceived by too much false information, which will affect the right judgment and over time, people will become stupid or become numb.

Therefore, Ji Conan observed that the longer people watch TV, not only are they close to potatoes in appearance, but also close to potatoes in intelligence, and fat pigs are not, which is an insult to the IQ of fat pigs, and even inferior to fat pigs, fat pigs are just limited, and their intelligence is not bad.

Conan wasn't like that before.

He also watches TV, but he likes to watch the news, or movie channels, and fashion models. Occasionally watch a show on scientific exploration. It seems that the program of scientific exploration never knows the answer, and the later answers often overturn the previous ones, and the answers that need to be updated overturn the current ones, so TV stations produce such programs that will never be outdated, and there will always be curious viewers.

As for TV programs, there were few advertisements in the past, the content of TV programs was okay, and I could watch a TV series in its entirety, but later I found that there were more and more advertising programs, and interstitial advertisements became commonplace, and there were advertisements at the beginning, middle, and end of the main drama, and there were sometimes several advertisements in the middle, and an episode of a TV series was originally forty-five minutes, but it turned out to be more than an hour. This increases the chance of people going to the toilet, making people more and more frequent and urgent. After a long time, it really made people sick.

In Conan's heart, the status of TV shows is declining day by day, and he loves to watch some online videos, a large number of videos, which can completely make people have no time to watch TV, Conan doesn't like to use his brain to think, people are old, they have to think, they are still happy to discover and master knowledge, and they are willing to discover the real thing from knowledge.

At Conan's parents-in-law's house, he can't help, he basically can't do farm work, and it's good to talk to his parents-in-law. Sometimes, however, it was evident that Conan's parents-in-law deliberately avoided their children because of the depth of their love, and they were willing to let their children work outside the home, not wanting them to come back and break their peaceful life.

Such an attitude is somewhat Westernized, unlike traditional parents, who are willing to accompany their children at home, and the son says, "Parents are here, not far away." "If your children can't start a business at home and don't want to engage in agriculture, it's better to travel.

Conan appreciated this approach. Conan looked at his child who couldn't walk yet, and suddenly thought, if one day, his son was lazy and became a gnawing old man, would he beat him out with a stick?

may be unbearable, but if you connive like this, it will be tantamount to harming your son.

Under normal circumstances, parents have to pass away their children first, if the son does not leave the gnawing old clan, after the death of his parents, what will he do? Sometimes, the experience of foreign countries is still worth learning, and if family education brings other colors, it is difficult for children to keep it in mind, which is difficult for strong people and increases the burden on children. Enroll in tutorial classes, education starts from a child, starts from a very young age, and cannot lose at the starting line. In fact, it is the result of the joint efforts of educators and advocates.

Education has become industrialized, and training courses are a link. If you have learned and mastered it during class, you don't need to attend tutorial classes. In tutorial classes, you can learn things that you can't learn in class. So, why is there some content left in class? This is worth pondering.

Conan spent three days at his parents-in-law's house, and then took his children home, his home in Xiangyang, about sixty miles from his parents-in-law's house, but the driving time was about two hours. The reason is that in the land of the reservoir, when the water is detoured, there are many curves, which naturally prolongs the time, and if you straighten the straight line, it will save time and effort. Or take a boat and you can get home quickly. Because the waterway is more convenient and faster than the road, it is a pity that there is no boat to his father-in-law's house. For the time being, you can only take a bus from the road.

Conan returned home, began to consolidate the results, continued to look for any mouse remnants, carefully checked, gone, Conan was relieved, quickly undressed, bathed, washed clothes, used the washing machine that he bought seven years ago, double barrels, you need to pick up the washed clothes, one by one into the dryer cabin, in addition, when it is almost the scheduled number of minutes, there is a beep to remind the kind.

For washing clothes, Ji Conan likes to use water and electricity, his wife is reluctant to use it, she thinks that there are not many clothes, just wash them by hand, you don't have to use a washing machine, Ji Conan doesn't think so, the washing machine is a machine that serves people, and if you buy it, you can free your hands, and you can do other things when you free it. I bought a washing machine and didn't use it, and I washed my clothes by hand, so I might as well not buy it. The point is that time is precious, and when you have time, you can do more things and not have to spend too much time on doing laundry. This affects work efficiency. Ji Conan's wife said, "What can you do?" Is a monk a Taoist? Isn't it still playing? Don't come to this set, lazy people find a lot of reasons, just admit laziness, nothing, don't admit it, it's hypocrisy. It's lazy, and it's pretending to be. Are you right? ”

Ji Conan smiled and said, "It's right, it's not right." ”

His wife asked, "What's wrong?" Where's right? ”

"That's half right, yes, I'm a little lazy, but I don't want to waste my time. No, it's you who wronged me. Don't understand. I am the only one in our family who gets the salary, you take care of the children, take the opportunity to make more money, why spend time on washing clothes? Ji Conan said with a smile.