His three sons must not be educated according to innocence and beauty, with a stupid and sweet father like them as a model, Zhang Yurong doesn't mind giving them blackening education at the time of the child's age.

"Mother, then I'll follow you, I'll take my younger brother with my mother, what about you, big brother?"

Five-year-old Shihao immediately stood in line without the slightest hesitation.

"Mother, will there really be that day? What if it's just my uncle talking angrily today? Or do you want to keep your head down? ”

Chen Shimei has experienced life and death after all, the precocious and stable eldest son did not stand in line on the spot, but expected that her mother was also talking angrily at this moment.

Chen Shimei could feel that her uncle's words just now were angry and asked her mother to go back to Zhang's house, which was angry words.

But what his mother said, he couldn't be sure, his mother was cold, rational and insightful, unlike his uncle, who was sometimes emotional.

Emotional decisions will change quickly as the mood improves, while rational decisions are difficult to change.

"What you said makes sense, if he just talked, my mother wouldn't have the same knowledge as him, after all, taking the three of you in the Chen Mansion would be more beneficial to you.

Niang will not make rash decisions because of anger, Niang will only make the most appropriate decision according to the situation at the time, of course, no matter when, Niang will put the three of you brothers in the first place in weighing the pros and cons.

Generally, when a husband and wife are separated, the woman usually has no way to take the heirs from the man, especially the man, which is even more impossible.

If you leave your three brothers at your uncle's knees, maybe your mother can rest assured that you can go alone.

But if the three of you, or just the two of Shihao Shirui, are left under their father's knees, my mother will never be at ease.

He is so naïve and calculating, and he can't take care of your safety at all, and the last time Shirui was infected with a fever, it was an example of his naivety.

His backward wife or concubine or whatever, any of them form a natural opposition to you.

Your presence will be a stumbling block for his younger siblings from the rest of the women later, which is a natural opposing position.

But in the eyes of your father, this is definitely not a problem, and he naively thinks that this is a family, and it is all the Chen family.

However, my mother wants you to keep in mind that if they are geographically separated by 108,000 miles and there is no connection, it doesn't matter.

But if there is a family under one roof, there must be a hostile position in the struggle for assets.

Even if you don't have assets, there is definitely a hostile stance to compete for the favor of your parents and elders.

There is also your father, uncle's politics, and the competition for network resources in the future is also an absolute reality.

Even if you say that you are excellent and do not need to be given by your family, you can earn your own future and family property.

But often people are like this, the better people are, the easier it is to be envied and hated, especially the most easily envied and hated by those close to them.

Shimei, do you know why your uncle raised the issue of the Zhang family's upbringing when he repeatedly had conflicts with his mother?

Subconsciously, he was jealous that his mother had a good family upbringing.

Criticizing others is sometimes exactly what he cares about but can't have.

You see, as close as between husband and wife, jealousy will involuntarily arise, let alone between brothers and sisters? ”

Shi Hao understands a lot, looking at his mother and looking at his eldest brother, and wants to ask, will there be competition between brothers?

But on second thought, there won't be, the eldest brother won't fight, and he won't fight, so it's all left to the youngest brother.

"Mother, suppose, when our three brothers become adults and each has their own needs, will you be embarrassed to give more to whom and who to give less?"

Chen Shimei is talking about things and wants to discuss such a problem with her mother.

"Good question, for the average parents and elders, the usual practice is that the eldest son accounts for the majority, and the rest is given to other siblings.

Or there are some elders who will divide the family property according to their own preferences, and give more to whoever they prefer.

But these are not considerations for mothers.

In fact, since you were born, you have been trying her best to spend assets on you.

I think the best distribution is to try to cultivate your own strength during your growth, and cultivate each of you enough to support the door independently to achieve the ultimate goal of motherhood.

As for the mother herself, if she still has a surplus of family property, she will never give it to you who have already started a family.

The mother will use these surplus family property to support herself, tease her grandchildren in her spare time, and provide relief to the poor people in the world. The mother also wants to have a happy attitude.

My mother can live for the three of you before you get married, but after that, my mother will live for herself.

So, you three brothers are here with your mother, and you don't have half a point to fight for.

Remember, once you get married, you won't be able to eat your mother's free lunch.

Mother suggests that you get married a few years later, more than ordinary people in the past few years, you can accumulate more yourself, and eat a few more years of mother's free lunch, hehe! ”

Zhang Yurong's last words finally eased the atmosphere, but made Shihao laugh first, and Shimei couldn't help but grin at the corners of her mouth.

What my mother said was really extraordinary, but she made herself reverent.

My mother really has a wise mind, how fortunate I am!

"Hehe, then I'll really eat my mother's free lunch for a few more years!"

Shi Hao smiled and accompanied his mother to tell him what he planned at this time, what he really wanted at this time was that it was good to be by his mother's side for a few years, so that he didn't get married so early.

Look at the father and mother, they are still quarreling!

"Well, my mother will let you eat for a few more years, and then let's talk about business, Shimei, tell your mother, what are the considerations for tonight, waiting for your uncle alone so late, and what did he say that made him so excited?"

It wasn't until this time that Zhang Yurong really touched on the core topic to talk about with Shimei tonight.

Shimei talked with her mother before, and she would not hide it at this time, but told her mother her thoughts and practices with great trust.

Although Shimei has not been harmed by his stepmother, he is precocious, and he is even more sensitive than adults, so he naturally feels what Cao Weijun's feelings are like for him.

It is precisely because of this that he will be depressed until the onset of the disease after the adoptive.

And after the onset of the disease, the comparison between his stepmother and his own mother made him feel more clearly, what attitude Cao Weijun had towards him.

It was a gesture of robbing her mother's heart, and when she was dying or dying, she easily gave up on herself.

Therefore, he deeply understands that in this world, the only one who really feels sorry for himself and protects himself is his own mother.

So when he agreed to grow up with his mother, he didn't care at all.

His current father is the head of the Chen family, and it is understandable for him to listen to everyone's growth.

Before, he was concerned about this and considerate of that, but what was the result?

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