226 Small-mindedness and gentleness
So now I don't have that good temper anymore to be gentle with him.
During the special period, you can't hit him, especially his face, but if you crush him in terms of EQ and IQ, you can still do it, otherwise you will suffocate yourself!
Hell, this man is speechless.
Threaten yourself at every turn to send yourself back to your parents' home?
Your sister, you still think I'm afraid? Do you think I haven't been back to my parents' house?
When my mother's family saw me go home, they were all distressed and welcomed, and they were never like other people's mothers, and they felt that it was a shame for their daughter to send her back to her parents' house!
Chen Mingdong, if it weren't for a special period today, I would definitely take my third son and go back to my parents' house overnight!
The nurse didn't look uncomfortable when she saw Zhang Yurong smiling, so she left without asking too much, and let the mother and son talk well.
"If Shihao is sleepy, my mother will sleep with you, and if you are not sleepy, I will prick up my ears and listen to the conversation between my mother and your eldest brother.
What you can understand and what you can't understand can only be remembered in your heart, and you can't discuss it with anyone, including your father, and you can't say it, this is the secret of the three of us, you know? ”
After Zhang Yurong saw Chen Mingdong's innocence, she made a decision to educate her three sons in blackening.
Let them see the predictions of people's hearts early, and see how many calculations and even persecution are hidden under the hypocritical and peaceful appearance between adults.
The overall situation of the world, the sophistication of people, history and geography, these Zhang Yurong will pay attention to teaching in her usual conversations with children.
Ancient children were precocious, and they also started a family earlier than modern people.
Zhang Yurong doesn't want her three sons to start a family in the future, and they are still so stupid and sweet, ignorant and fearless who laugh when they are sold.
Shi Hao suddenly came to his senses, staring at his mother with wide eyes, and then staring at his eldest brother, with a look of expectation, at this moment, Shi Hao was no longer afraid.
"Mother, why are you so sure that your uncle had such an accident in the Cao family compound?"
Chen Shimei saw her mother sitting on the bed with her younger brother in her arms, and wanted to hear what she meant to speak first, so she asked her most doubtful question.
"Based on the deception under the two understandings, two understandings, one is that my mother saw the personality of Uncle Shihao clearly, and the second realization is that your father dragged back in good health at this moment.
Based on these two understandings, when I deceived him for the first sentence, I paid attention to his eyes, and he didn't dare to look at me with his eyes.
Immediately following my absolute certainty, and interspersed with a cascade of other questions, he skipped the question, indicating that he subconsciously wanted to skip the question as soon as possible. As long as I don't hold on to it. ”
Zhang Yurong explained the key points to her son very seriously, and she was reasonable, well-founded, and judged.
Chen Shimei's amazement was followed by worry.
"What if the uncle really wants to take a concubine? Mother, did you just say that you were scaring my uncle? ”
After all, Chen Shimei still didn't want her mother to be separated from her uncle.
"Marriage is the best of two surnames, two surnames are two families, in this era, manpower is weak, and usually people have to hold together to survive and develop.
Some come together with the same surname and clan, some come together with geographical neighbors, and some come together with in-laws.
It is good for husbands and wives to like each other, but there are also people who respect each other like guests, or even turn against each other.
Uncle Shihao and your uncle, the relationship between husband and wife is now a turn against each other, the Cao family took the lead in running out of Bishan County, and openly crusaded against the Chen family, so they were naturally cut off from the relationship between husband and wife, and they became enemies.
The relationship between your mother and your father used to be said to be respectful and respectful, with etiquette and family affection, but there was no affection for each other.
Many families in this world don't care about the relationship between young couples, and the elders of the family want the long-term interests of the family to keep the family alive and developing.
Although Niang also attaches great importance to the family, Niang has her own understanding.
In the critical period of life and death, the mother first cares about the life and death of the family, and personal feelings can be left behind.
But in the peaceful and prosperous world, my mother doesn't want to be aggrieved for a lifetime, and my mother also wants to live comfortably and treat herself well.
In the future, when the three brothers grow up, try to become stronger yourself, the more powerful the person and the stronger the family, the greater the choice.
The better you are in the future, the more you will have a say in the family.
When the family relies on you to survive and develop, no one will easily question what you say, even if it is your own uncle, he will not dare to despise you, this is the benefit of being powerful.
If you are strong, you can choose the wife you want, and if you are strong, you can push away the wives and concubines you don't want.
If you are weak, if you think that you don't care about the world and close the door to live a small life, my mother will definitely and definitely tell you that in this era, you can't do it.
Countless small families in the world are desperately clinging to the big ones, in order not to be bullied by the gangsters and bullies, in order to reward the big families with a full meal, and in case of natural disasters and man-made disasters, they can have a place to take refuge.
If it's far away, Niang can guarantee that Niang will not propose to leave the Chen family first.
But if you are forced to go back to Zhang's house, your mother can't let yourself lose her dignity, and one day, your mother will definitely take away your three brothers and train you to grow up.
This is my mother's bottom line, and I can't tolerate your father not agreeing.
Another bottom line, if the three of you are willing to leave with me, I promise and promise that I will never marry another person for the rest of my life, and I will cultivate you wholeheartedly.
And if you have your own opinions, and you are unwilling to leave the Chen family and let your mother go alone, then your mother can tell you frankly that she will marry another person for the rest of her life.
Not only will you marry another, but you will also have another son, there is no way, how can your mother raise a child to prevent old age, not to scare the three of you, but the bottom line of your mother, my mother told your brothers today.
It's good that you know about this matter yourself, and no one else can say it, including your father, learning to keep secrets is the key to growth! ”
There is no way, if it were in modern society, Zhang Yurong would not draw a bottom line for her son like this, her parents are divorced, and it is not impossible for her children to be with her father, and it is not impossible for her to leave one or two of her three sons with her father.
But Zhang Yurong knows this ancient society too well.
The dispute between Dishu and the Emperor is often a battle of life and death.
Sons who have no mother to rely on, expect this silly and sweet father to protect them from growing up?
Hehe, Zhang Yurong didn't even dare to think about it, just a scheming concubine, with a touch of her fingers, she could design to kill her son and break the stumbling block like her sister-in-law.
If you leave your son to a man like the eldest brother, to be honest, Zhang Yurong really doesn't have much to worry about, the eldest brother is just like herself, everyone can see it clearly, so it gives people the illusion of ruthlessness and unrighteousness.