21, The Story of Reluctance (3)

After talking to Fang Lingzi on the phone, Dong Chunjiao, who was beside me, calmed down.

At this time, Xu Gezi, Shen Xiaofu and Zhang Lili entered my room.

Dong Chunjiao was very polite, and greeted Xu Gezi and Shen Xiaofu, I quickly introduced her and Zhang Lili, and the two of them also exchanged pleasantries.

Dong Chunjiao is familiar with Xu Gezi and Shen Xiaofu, Xu Gezi walked to Dong Chunjiao's side, and said to Dong Chunjiao in his moving tone, "Chunjiao, I see that you and Teacher Jiang are almost inseparable, the two of you played here for a night yesterday, why did you come here so late today?" ”

I hurriedly covered up for Dong Chunjiao and said, "Dong Chunjiao has two questions, and I want to come and discuss them." ”

Dong Chunjiao looked at me instead, and said to Xu Gezi sincerely, "I came to discuss with Teacher Jiang because of my mother's matter, and asked Teacher Jiang to help me get an idea." ”

Seeing that Dong Chunjiao didn't want to hide it, I knew that he already had a correct attitude towards this matter in his heart, and he didn't want to hide it from these few friends, so he simply told Dong Chunjiao and her mother about it.

Shen Xiaofu was eager to say something, but was robbed of the conversation by Xu Gezi, Xu Gezi said, "Chunjiao, it seems that you have really grown up, you should discuss it with Teacher Jiang, your mother's affairs are indeed difficult for you to make up your mind, between your father and your mother, it's a bit of a dilemma." ”

Zhang Lili had already heard what had happened clearly, and looked at Dong Chunjiao with pity, "Chunjiao, I advise you to think less about this matter recently, and still focus on preparing for the college entrance examination. ”

Dong Chunjiao nodded solemnly, "I believe in Teacher Jiang, so I came to discuss with her and ask her for help." ”

Xu Gezi said euphemistically, "After all, blood is thicker than water, and it is more prudent to deal with this matter softly, so that you can protect you, neither your father nor your mother." ”

I took Xu Pigeon's words, "But it's hard to understand Chunjiao's age, it is when life is at a crossroads, such a big problem is in front of him, it is unrealistic to say that he doesn't want to do it at all, but it is the right way to deal with this matter as soon as possible, tomorrow I will meet with his mother, understand the situation, and then decide what to do next." ”

Shen Xiaofu said bluntly, "What's so difficult about this? After all, it is a biological mother-daughter relationship, understand the situation clearly, the two sides shake hands and make peace, the mother gets the daughter, and the daughter gets the mother's love, isn't this the best of both worlds? ”

Zhang Lili said, "How can it be as simple as you said, although life is given by my mother, but I have been living with my father for 20 years, and I have nothing to do with this mother emotionally, and now I suddenly came, there must be a process, Chunjiao, follow your heart, if you think your mother is still cute, then you boldly recognize each other, if you can't turn this corner emotionally, then politely meet, please let your mother hurry up and leave, don't hurt you and your father, this is also a good way to deal with it." , but no matter which way you deal with it, you need to communicate first, don't be emotional, so that no matter what the result, you will not regret it in the future. ”

Dong Chunjiao said, "A few teachers don't have to worry about it anymore, my mind has turned a corner now, Mr. Jiang just explained all the truths to me thoroughly, I have also figured out this matter, I have figured it out, and when Mr. Jiang and my mother meet tomorrow, I will understand the situation clearly, figure out his thoughts, and I am deciding what to do next." ”

Xu Gezi nodded, and said melodiously, "What an open-minded good girl, it seems that your father's education is successful for you, and we are also proud of you, in the face of such a big right and wrong, you can be so calm, what you say, so reasonable, I believe that you just don't recognize this mother, seeing your performance, she can also leave with confidence." ”

Dong Chunjiao said a little thoughtfully, "Look at my little thing, I am a little embarrassed to alarm so many of you, thank you teachers for your concern." ”

I asked Dong Chunjiao, "This Teacher Zhang is also a tutor like me, in addition to you, the other two of my three students are helping to tutor foreign languages, he is a very good person, and the relationship between the two of us is also very good, if you have any problems in foreign languages in the future, you can ask this Teacher Zhang, you don't mind letting me and this Teacher Zhang go to see your mother together tomorrow, because of the next tutoring, the two of us are going to Wang Wenli's house together, so let's go to do your mother's work first, do you see it?" ”

When Dong Chunjiao saw me ask her like this, she showed full respect for her, and said to me sincerely, "I am very happy that you two teachers went to see her together." ”

I said to Dong Chunjiao, "I think you don't want to go home tonight, I'll call your father, don't toss anymore when it's so late, stay here with us, you can have a good chat with this Teacher Zhang for a while, and let her understand your thoughts, let's transfer a large suite in a while, how about the three of us live together?" ”

Dong Chunjiao looked at me and smiled, "Teacher Jiang, I will listen to your arrangement." ”

I said to Xu Gezi and Shen Xiaofu, "Eldest sister and second sister, those two international students just now, you two have a good reception, Lili and I are here, chatting with Dong Chunjiao for a while, and we will go to see her mother together tomorrow." ”

Xu Gezi understood, said hello to us, and pulled Shen Xiaofu to accompany the two female students.

There were only three of us left in the room, and Zhang Lili said to Dong Chunjiao, "Girl, thank you for your trust, when we met for the first time, you agreed that I would accompany Teacher Jiang to meet your mother." ”

Dong Chunjiao looked at Zhang Lili and said, "Teacher Zhang, in fact, Teacher Jiang talked to me about the Chinese New Year before, Wang Wenli and Yang Jiajia are also good friends of mine, I also know about you tutoring them in foreign languages, so I have long trusted you from the bottom of my heart, but we only met today, not to mention that Teacher Jiang is your good friend, the two of you cooperate to do my mother's work, it may be more thoughtful, I know Teacher Jiang's intentions." ”

It seems that Dong Chunjiao still understands my arrangement, Zhang Lili is a mentor and helpful friend to me, this time I went to see Dong Chunjiao's mother, let Zhang Lili, a very thoughtful and knowledgeable person, go together, observe words and feelings, she is much stronger than me, and the two of us are more able to understand the real situation in place.

Zhang Lili said to Dong Chunjiao sincerely, "Chunjiao, I know that you still hate your mother in your heart, don't you really want to win back your mother's love?" ”

Dong Chunjiao was a little indifferent, suddenly raised her head, her eyes flashed with tears, and said softly, "Who in the world does not want a daughter to be a mother, and who in the world does not want to have maternal love?" But when I was so young, she abandoned me, and completely abandoned our family, and let my father raise me alone, can I still trust her? Shall I not hate her in my heart? ”

Zhang Lili said to Dong Chunjiao sincerely, "Jiaojiao, what you said is not wrong at all, in fact, you are answering me rationally, what you say is human nature, I am not there." In fact, what I want to ask you is your own heart, in your inner world, your mother has no room at all, in the depths of your heart, is there an ideal mother? If this mother was different from what you imagined to be, how would you deal with it? Will you recognize him, will you love him? ”

Dong Chunjiao said categorically, "Teacher Zhang, I have always been dependent on my father, as a big man, he raised me as an adult, and I have seen the hardships and efforts in my heart, and where is my so-called mother?" In contrast, between the two of them, I don't have to move my scales, you should know which way to tilt. Isn't this a manifestation of humanity? Isn't this the truest feeling? ”

I smiled and said to Dong Chunjiao, "In fact, the more protective you are now, the more it means that you care about your mother, and you care about the maternal love you deserve, but in the face of the fact that you have been for more than ten years, you are unwilling to admit that you care, your sense of self-protection is too strong, which is a good thing as a girl, but as your life, it is not a good thing, a person's life is decades or hundreds of years, time is like flowing water, it will soon pass, for the people you have experienced and the things you have experienced, It will become a memory of your old age, and when you look back on your life, will you feel sorry for neglecting your mother? ”

Zhang Lili looked at Dong Chunjiao's so-called reasonableness, but because she was in the stage of the college entrance examination, in order not to distract herself, and in order not to hurt her father's heart, she wanted to settle this matter hastily. If from the perspective of the heart, your father and mother are irreplaceable by others, as a girl, how important is the role of mother, although you lost your mother's love in childhood and adolescence, but from now on you have mother's love, what kind of wealth will it be for you?

Zhang Lili said to Dong Chunjiao from the bottom of her heart, "Jiaojiao, in fact, Teacher Jiang and I are not saying that you have to recognize your mother, but we all hope that you will start from your own heart, don't have so many scruples, let yourself have no regrets in your life, can't let the restlessness of adolescence ruin your decision, and can't be perfunctory about this matter, that will hurt yourself, hurt your father and hurt your mother, to truly achieve spiritual communication, whether it is love or hate, you must come from the heart, Rather than a formality, a meeting or a meal. ”

Under the sincere persuasion of Zhang Lili and me, Dong Chunjiao seems to have realized some truths, he knows that it is impossible to fall in love with his mother all at once, and the hatred in his heart is still so strong, although in order to calm the situation, he has changed, and it is unimaginable to let himself fall in love with her from the bottom of his heart and forgive her.

Dong Chunjiao said to the two of us, "Two teachers, I really understand what you mean, don't let your life leave the biggest regrets, you are also for my good, but I really find it difficult to accept it in my heart now, it is already my best effort to be perfunctory with her, even if I face my father like this, I am also guilty, because she hurt my father more than me, she almost ruined my father's life, do you think I can easily forgive her?" ”

Zhang Lili said to her again, "We can understand what you say, but what we hope is that you don't pay attention to the firewall in your heart, just obey on the surface, and resist in your heart, and the final result is painful for yourself, if you want to be emotionally and psychologically comfortable, then use a snack on this matter, let yourself follow your heart, no matter what decision you make, our two teachers are sincerely supporting you." ”

Seeing that although the two of us patiently did her work, she did not let her choose according to our specific goals, she was excited again, Dong Chunjiao said to us sincerely, "Two teachers, please rest assured, I will definitely live up to your hopes, I will let my heart call the shots." ”

In order to ease Dong Chunjiao's mood, I said to Zhang Lili, "The three of us should go out and take a look at those two international students, after all, we invited them over, so it's good to sit with them." ”

Zhang Lili understood what I meant, and said to Dong Chunjiao, "Jiaojiao, come with us to meet our foreign friends, two very interesting foreign girls." ”

The three of us found them in a private room in a small restaurant.

Seeing Mary Liu and the butterflies flying, it must be the rose mud project that has increased their passion, and the rose spa has made them glow again.

Mary Liu came over and said to Zhang Lili, "Zhang Lili, you are not interesting enough, you quit the fight ring so early, and you don't know where to run all of a sudden, why don't you stick to us to the end?" ”

Zhang Lili smiled, "Mary. My physical strength is really not as good as yours, you two have beaten me to exhaustion, so I have to run away." I'm going to introduce you two to a new friend, this is Miss Dong Chunjiao, these two are my friends, Mary Liu and Butterfly. ”

Butterfly greeted Dong Chunjiao warmly, "Hi. Beautiful Miss Dong, it's a pleasure to meet you." Then she stretched out her strong arms and suddenly hugged Dong Chunjiao in her arms.

Dong Chunjiao was a little embarrassed to be hugged by her, and when she heard them speak fluent Chinese, she also had a good impression of this enthusiastic black girl, "It's nice to meet you, Miss Butterfly, your hug is so powerful." ”

The butterfly realized that her strength was too fierce, and it might have frightened the young lady she had just met, and hurriedly said, "Miss Dong, don't mind, I'm so happy to see you, so I can greet you with our highest etiquette, and you can be a little more elegant." After speaking, she kissed the back of Dong Chunjiao's hand with her rich lips, and then held the skirt in one hand and made a squatting motion, elegant and chic, completely ancient French etiquette.

Mary Liu didn't let him continue to perform, but leaned in front of Dong Chunjiao, kissed him lightly on the forehead, and said happily, "Miss Dong, I'm Mary Liu, German, it's a pleasure to meet you." ”

Dong Chunjiao also said to her politely, "Thank you, Miss Liu, please take care of me." ”

Zhang Lili saw the three of them being so polite, and said with a smile, "We are all friends, girlfriends of the same age, why are they polite all of a sudden?" It's like a formal diplomatic occasion, it's all diplomatic rhetoric. ”

One sentence made everyone in the room laugh, and the atmosphere became harmonious at once.

Shen Xiaofu also said happily, "I'm so happy tonight, I have friends from afar, and I'm very happy." Today, two foreign friends also come to us to experience, it is a great honor, and special thanks to Teacher Zhang Lili, please her friends to come, since we are all friends, I will do my best to be the landlord, tonight we have a supper, is a special preparation of wontons for everyone, as well as a few small cold dishes, a few sweets? Let's take what we need. ”

Zhang Lili said with a smile, "Mary Liu and Butterfly, you two eat more, when you were fighting freely just now, you two worked so hard, you must have consumed a lot of physical strength, you don't eat at this time, you can't sleep at night, you wake up hungry in the middle of the night, but there is nowhere to find food." Boss Shen has prepared so many snacks for you today, each of which has to be a little longer, and you can appreciate our Chinese food. ”

Mary Liu said boldly, "Don't you say, tossing for so long a day, it's fighting, it's spa, and digesting all the things you eat at night, it's really timely rain, not to mention so many delicious things, I must have a good taste, the long-standing Chinese culture, food culture is the most beautiful and let us enjoy the most, thank you for the boss." The little woman was polite. Mary Liu said as she made a gesture to say goodbye.

Everyone laughed again.

Xu Gezi said, "There is no food and no wine, it is not a social, I am from the hometown of Kweichow Moutai, I heard that Miss Butterfly can drink it very well, is it not that the two of us can drink some Moutai together?" ”

Butterfly hurriedly waved her hand and said, "Sister, I only drink red wine, Moutai's strength is too great, I really can't stand it, you can spare me." ”

Instead, Mary Liu walked up to Xu Gezi and said, "Sister, I like to drink Moutai, so let me accompany you to drink two glasses." ”

Xu Gezi brought Moutai wine, and the two of them filled a glass, and after clashing glasses, they drank it all, and the people around responded with warm applause.

I watched this warm scene next to me, looking at Dong Chunjiao's happy face, social activities really have the function of relieving emotions, if a person encounters something that he can't think of, then don't be alone anymore, walk out of his legs, walk among people, get together happily with everyone, put those troubles in the back of his mind, use happiness to dispel loneliness, and usher in friendship with gatherings, the wider the social surface, the less troubles, and all things will be thought of.

Dong Chunjiao, a little girl who is still in high school, as soon as she comes into contact with all kinds of people, her depressed mood is dispelled at once, everyone eats together, plays together, chats together, the atmosphere is so warm, do you still have time to take care of those trivial troubles? Especially the two foreign girls, their elegant momentum, bold personality, and enthusiastic and unrestrained appearance infected this girl who was still very entangled just now, and her thoughts have become so peaceful, and she has integrated herself into this ocean of joy.

Outside the window, the cold wind in the middle of the night was still howling, and the sky suddenly changed, and there were scattered snowflakes, making the vast sky crystal clear, and the mountains and rivers were covered with a thin veil.

People in the midst of joy didn't feel that the weather had changed.