"Look at your own heart?" Xiao Ruotong chewed on these words and couldn't help but be stunned.

No one had ever tried to persuade her from this point of view.

"Yes, your heart." Zhao Ruxi said, "If you are a poor girl and have no life after leaving, then I naturally advise you to endure this breath." But you're not. Even if you come back with you, the prince and the princess will still support you, and you can eat by yourself, without looking at other people's faces. That's why I advise you, look at your heart, see how you look at these issues. Life is short, and you must have a happy life. ”

"You're right." Xiao Ruotong thought for a while and nodded, "If I still have expectations for him, then believe in him again and give myself a chance; If not, it's a big deal to reconcile and leave. If there is no expectation, it is better to let each other live. I live my own life; He can also go and marry again. ”

"It's good that you figured it out. Just a little, don't spoil your body. Leave others alone, you have to love yourself. ”

These chicken soups are tired of being said on the modern Internet, but in this ancient period, they are very fresh, and for Xiao Ruotong, it hits her heart directly, making her feel like an initiation.

"Xiaoxi, thank you."

Zhao Ruxi bowed his head and stood up: "It's too late, I'll go back first." I still go to the academy to study, and I have time at this time in the evening. If you want to talk to me, just ask someone to go to Suipingbo's Mansion and say it, and I'll come over after dinner. ”

"Okay."

Zhao Ruxi went out and summoned Mama Yun and others to come in, and then left.

Back at the Chuan Ping Bo Mansion, Zhao Ruxi was about to return to Pinmingju, and Mama Zhou said: "Girl, they have moved everything to Xiuzhu Courtyard for you today." ”

"Yes, girl, the slave has always wanted to tell you about it." Qingfeng said busily.

Zhao Ruxi nodded, turned around and walked towards the bamboo cultivation courtyard, and said, "Mama Zhou, go back." ”

"Yes, girl."

When Zhao Ruxi entered the bamboo cultivation courtyard and was brought to her bedroom by Mama Yuan and others, the eldest lady also came in.

"Mother, why haven't you rested?" Zhao Ruxi asked.

"I'm not at ease, come and see you." The eldest lady turned her head and instructed Dian Jiang and the others to prepare things for bathing, and then asked, "Lord Qingyang County...... You okay? ”

In the noble circle, it is said that it is not big, but it is not small. Xiao Ruotong can't hide these things, and it will definitely be known to everyone in the future.

Zhao Ruxi didn't hide it from her mother, and told Xiao Ruotong about it.

She also wanted to see what the Zhu family thought through this matter.

Although at the beginning, the old lady and the eldest lady promised her that she would make her own decisions about her marriage. But time has passed, and now that the eldest lady is her own mother, who knows if she will change her mind?

Since ancient times, in the name of "for your good", there are still fewer parents who interfere in their children's marriages? The depth of love makes it more desirable for his children's relatives to be under his control. No one wants an unclear future.

But the child didn't think so.

What's more, the generation gap between her and the old lady and the eldest lady is thousands of years apart from a galaxy.

"Mother, what do you say, what should I do about Master Xiao?"

The eldest lady frowned and did not speak.

After a while, she sighed: "This matter has to be decided by Princess Zhennan." However, the county lord can't give birth to a child, so I'm afraid I have to swallow this breath. What else would you do? And when you go home, you can't die alone. But what good family can you marry if you remarry? Wan is just a stepmother. As a stepmother, it is better to stay in the British Mansion as the original partner. It's good that the British prince went to his mother to keep his son, and he didn't call the biological mother a concubine. ”

Zhao Ruxi pouted: "It's not that their family is good, it's just because the Zhennan Wangfu is powerful." In other words, the momentum of the British government will not be so cowardly. ”

The eldest lady nodded: "That's right. She touched her daughter's head and looked sad, "Sister Xi, my mother only hopes that you will have a smooth life in the future and will not suffer at all." ”

Knowing that Zhao Ruxi might be her own child, the eldest lady panicked every time she thought about it. If she hadn't been cautious enough to do things back then, she let the Wei family take advantage of the loophole, how could she have let this child live a hard life for so many years? Now, she can only find a good family affair for her daughter to make up for her mistakes.

Feeling the eldest lady's mood, Zhao Ruxi could vaguely guess what she meant.

But there are some words, she still has to pick the front.

"Mother, when I came back, you and my grandmother promised me that I would be the master of my own affairs, and now I can't go back." She said.

The eldest lady was stunned for a moment, looked at Zhao Ruxi and didn't speak for a long time.

Zhao Ruxi was upset, raised his eyes and asked, "What, can't it?" ”

The eldest lady lowered her eyes and showed a sad look on her face: "No. It's just that Wei didn't treat you well at the beginning, and I can understand your request. But now that I'm your mother, are you still so worried? Mother is just eager to take out her heart for you, how can she harm you in marriage? As she spoke, her eyes reddened.

"Mother, it's not like this." Zhao Ruxi hurriedly said, "Of course you love me, and everything is planned for me." But what I want may not be what you have arranged for me. ”

"For example, Master Xiao, maybe Princess Zhennan, like you, thinks it is for the good of Master Xiao and persuades her to endure this breath. But how do you know what Xiao Fuzi himself thinks? At the beginning, the British prince swore an alliance to her, but when he turned his head, he hid that she had a child with the maid. Maybe in her heart, she will feel dirty at the glance of the British prince. She would rather remarry someone she doesn't care about and be a stepmother to someone else, rather than be with the son again. What is pain and what is happiness, only she knows. ”

"Everybody cares about different things. Some people feel satisfied when they wear gold and silver, and it doesn't matter to her whether her husband is faithful or not; But some people regard their husband's friendship and respect for themselves as more important than anything else. Xiao Fuzi was born noble, and the word money and power were born to her, so she didn't value it. What she values is her husband's friendship with her. ”

She really wanted to tell the Zhu family that she also valued friendship more like Xiao Fuzi. Especially the question of whether to accept concubines and whether she is faithful to her marriage, she puts it in the first place in marriage.

For modern women, there is nothing more important than this question when traveling back to ancient times to face marriage.

But it's really hard for her to say these words too clearly to the Zhu family, otherwise it will poke her heart.

After all, Zhao Yuanxun also has an aunt and a concubine. Zhu's marriage seems to be quite happy on the outside, but after she gave birth to two daughters, her husband began to sleep in the same room as an aunt, even when she was pregnant and needed her husband's considerate care the most.

Even if this is a last resort, it is for the sake of the heirs and the future of the Hou Mansion. But if the husband asks other women to accompany him every day, the eldest lady must still have a thorn in her heart, right?