Just say, he doesn't care about the affairs of his elders? Give a standard answer to a mother?

Zhang Yurong saw that her eldest son Shimei really had a big problem, you see, didn't he just arrange for him to talk to him tonight and sleep together, and he looked preoccupied?

"Why don't you come in quickly, don't you have to come in if you are grinding?"

Zhang Yurong washed herself, put on a cotton comfortable two-piece set of pajamas, and in her own room, Zhang Yurong tried to make herself as comfortable as possible.

The children's pajamas, which she also designed herself, are slightly different from the ancient ones, but they are also similar, in short, mainly comfortable.

"Get to bed!"

Zhang Yurong saw that the child was squirming and pinching, and her face was red and reluctant, and she immediately scolded with a serious face.

She will not use the style of the ancient patriarch to manage her children.

During the day, when she teaches in person, the class is serious, and the homework correction is also serious.

In addition, she is very lenient about the problems in life, and the children know about them.

Only this time, Zhang Yurong suddenly stretched her face and scolded Shimei to go to bed, making Shimei stand in front of her mother even more twistedly, refusing to take another step.

He's seven years old!

Seven-year-old men and women don't sit at the same table, let alone go to his mother's bed, he can't!

Zhang Yurong hugged Shimei all of a sudden, and Shimei was stunned? His face was even more red.

"You kid, what are you pretending to be in front of your mother?

I told you a long time ago, my mother can pretend to be a daughter of a family in front of outsiders, but at home, she can come at will.

The family still pays attention to so many etiquette, isn't it tiring?

If your mother really talks to you about etiquette in everything, then you should cry, which means that in your mother's heart, you are already an outsider, understand? ”

"Mother, when feelings and etiquette and reason have diametrically opposite conflicts and are irreconcilable, how to choose?"

was suddenly hugged to bed by her mother, and still hugged in her arms, Chen Shimei's heart was suddenly touched, and she finally spoke.

Although it is not directly revealing the problem, it is very tactful to explore the mother's attitude.

"Have you broken the law?" After Zhang Yurong was stunned for a while, she asked Shimei, this kid's heart is so big?

Is it about himself and Chen Mingdong, or about himself and Chen Mingyi?

It's nothing more than these two, otherwise this kid can't be allowed to ask such a question!

Chen Shimei shook her head: "The law is not violated, but it is against the world!" ”

The younger siblings are with the former uncle, which is not considered a violation of the law, but it is against the world.

"Does the person have children?"

Zhang Yurong pretended to be dead and continued to ask, as if she didn't know that the person the child asked was actually herself.

"Yes, three!"

Shimi lowered her head, not daring to look at her mother's eyes.

"If you have three children, if you are a mother, there will definitely be no problem.

Because my mother has decided since the day of separation, I will guard your three sons for the rest of my life, do not marry another, and will not have any ambiguities with any man, this is my mother's responsibility, and it is also what my mother has planned in her heart! ”

"What about Daddy? Dad refuses to let go, what should you do if you can't earn it? ”

Chen Shimei finally popped out the most depressed inner words, and was embraced by his mother, and he finally let go.

Kiss!

After Zhang Yurong was stunned, she happily kissed her son!

I grass!

My son is really smart!

At this point, he realized that his father was entangled with him, and he was still the one who broke free.

Such a great observation!

I also have to be ruthless tonight to force out such a secret anxiety in the child's heart, otherwise if I suppress it, I'm afraid something will really go wrong!

"Where did Shimei find out that your father wanted to entangle his mother?"

Now that it has been stabbed, Zhang Yurong is not ashamed of ordinary women at all, but is enthusiastic to accompany her son to discuss this hidden issue.

Because she heard from her son's tone, her son didn't seem to want his father to entangle him, which was good!

Take the opportunity to win a firm and weighty ally, and Shimei is the best ally.

In the future, whenever his father comes to harass him again, he will directly let his son come out to pay his father!

"On the day of my mother's departure, my father also announced that he would leave Mrs. Chen, dismiss Tan Wan, and then announce that the family property earned for the rest of his life will be handed over to you to dispose of, and I didn't have the slightest doubt at that time.

But I woke up the other night and found my dad coming.

As a result, I saw that in the kitchen, my father was hugging my mother hard, and my mother didn't seem to be willing? ”

Chen Shimei saw that her mother wanted to talk to him frankly, so she opened her mind even more and talked deeply with her mother.

The implication is that in fact, my father was pestering my mother, and it was obvious on the day of the separation, but at that time, he didn't think so at all.

Looking back now, I know that this is the truth!

"Your father, he had a hard time when he was a child, and when he was an adult, he was already burdened with debts, and he had no way to pay them back, so he could only pay off the debts with his body.

That's why Cao Weijun married your father, and since then, the two have been out of tune in their thinking, especially once they encounter external problems, it will be even more prominent.

Your father is just like you, he has no close friends since he was a child, his mother can't make friends, and his teacher even uses his mind to suppress it for many years, causing him to be a little stubborn in his thinking.

I also blame my mother for being careless, and talking to your father in private is a little too much.

Whether it's a family affair or a state affair, your father thinks he has found someone to talk to, because we are still very close in thought.

In fact, your father is too closed to his heart, if he has many friends, it is naturally impossible to suppress himself for too many years.

Men in this era are actually very dominant.

Because the future is earned by men, and the glory is also earned by men, men are born with an advantage in the way of husband and wife.

When you meet a wife you like, Qin Se and Ming, and if you don't like it, you can not only divorce your wife, but also take a concubine to find someone who is likable.

As long as your father is open-minded, he will soon be able to find other wives and concubines, and there will be more people in his relationship, so he will naturally be able to find what he says.

Mother, no!

Niang knows that this world is still a little restrictive for women.

Because the world's general outlook on life is what it requires of women.

Ask a woman to try to start from the beginning.

Even if you marry someone else, you can only marry another man, and I haven't heard of any woman who can find a male pet at home, right?

This is the asymmetry between men and women.

I know all these things, can I still do it knowingly?

Private indulgence doesn't work, you know?

What's more, my mother doesn't have that kind of affection for your father, and the biggest emotion, that is, trusting and relying on him as a big brother, the kind of affection that your father hopes for does not exist.

So, my mother was reluctant to be held by him that night, and later persuaded him away, and my mother must try to avoid him in the future.

Now that you know, you have to be responsible for protecting your mother in the future.

Otherwise, under your father's indulgence of feelings, he can only harm himself and affect our family. ”

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