Zhang Yurong will not blindly belittle Shimei's father, and symbolically find her own reasons.

Of course, he also had to give Shimei a signal to encourage his father, let go of his arms, and go outside to pick flowers.

How can a rabbit bite the grass next to the nest? Aren't you afraid of a litter of rabbits?

"Mother, don't you really have a little idea about your father? Dad is still extremely good? ”

Shimei doesn't know if it's a worrying question, or a regretful question.

This means, even Shimei herself can't tell it!

If there is no worldly gaze, it is good that my father and mother can be together!

"Son, an ordinary person, when he sees something good, the first thing he wants to have.

It is understandable that ordinary people think so!

However, as an unusual person, when you see something good, you will praise it with a good mood, take a short time, and then decisively turn around and leave.

Whether he is good or not, he has nothing to do with you, such good, you can only praise it for a while, and then you have to turn around and leave.

This is called restraining greed.

Restraining greed is the ability of every child to learn passively during the period of ignorance.

Some learn well, have strong self-restraint, and can self-restraint, such a person usually plans every step of his life rationally.

Such a person can easily become a master, become a patriarch, and become an important minister in the court, and in the eyes of this kind of person, reason will always come first.

People who do not have enough restraint will inevitably lose something to varying degrees on the road of life.

For example, your uncle's emotional restraint collapsed when he met Bingqian last week, so he gave up his marriage and children to fulfill his feelings. Gains and losses coexist!

Of course, restraint, this thing, must also be done according to one's ability.

For example, a person always restrains himself deeply and cannot vent, and in the end, he may die of depression.

When you had a high fever last year, you actually restrained your feelings for your mother too much.

Tonight, my mother hugged you like this, and didn't tell you about family etiquette, just to let you relax and have a good talk with my mother.

No matter how old or young people are, they must always have close relatives who can talk to each other.

Your father, the restraint is very strong, but it's a pity that it's been suppressed for too long.

When I went back to Kyoto, my mother gave you a holiday, so that you could go to his side every day after your father went to see some of his handling of political affairs, and if you could, take Shimin with you.

Coursework is not much delayed, studying books can increase knowledge, but personal experience is the longest insight.

That, by the way, pull your dad more, talk to your heart, make friends with your dad, and let him focus on cultivating you and Shimin.

Isn't it a bit messy that my mother said? How did you talk about making friends with your dad from self-control? ”

Zhang Yurong laughed as she spoke.

Talking to my son is still easy and stress-free, and I follow wherever I think.

Fortunately, this son is not an ordinary person!

The body of a seven-year-old child, the adult mind of more than seventeen years old.

The key, this child's heart, towards himself, hehehe!

Then let's deal with Chen Mingyi together!

Soon King Yan will leave with him, and Chen Mingyi is very likely to leave with him, and when he arrives in Kyoto, he has the intention to avoid him, but he can't deprive the child of his desire for his father.

What's more, Zhang Yurong has to admit that Chen Mingyi, the father, is still very competent and good at teaching children.

The boy who has been following his mother, Zhang Yurong is still a little worried, the child lacks masculinity, and it is indeed difficult for a woman in the back house to get in touch with the specific events of government affairs.

Teaching these things, Chen Mingyi has obvious advantages.

The key is to let Chen Mingyi divert his attention and let his son break Chen Mingyi's thoughts for himself, saving his brain from being paranoid, which is also very fatal!

"Well, mother, I understand, but can I go back to sleep if I want to?"

Shimei feels very good tonight, there is no expected embarrassment and difficulty, but she has one more task to enlighten her father.

Regardless of whether he can achieve his goal or not, at least on his mother's side, he is completely relieved.

"No, sleeping with my mother tonight is my mother's punishment for you.

At the age of six, you restrained yourself deeply and suppressed your emotions, and almost hung up on the heat.

At the age of seven this year, you restrained yourself again, and found that your father and mother only knew how to suppress yourself with such a serious privacy problem, and your mother reminded you several times that you had to play dead for me.

Then I couldn't eat well, I couldn't sleep well, and I could only barely read a book.

Tonight, my mother not only wants to have a good talk with you, but also punishes you once, punishing you for sleeping with your mother when you are seven years old.

Being punished for this at the age of seven, you can barely say that you are only seven years old, and you are still a child.

Hehe, when you are seventeen, twenty-seven, thirty-seven, or forty-seven, if you still suppress yourself so deeply, don't blame your mother for dragging you to sleep with me when you are old!

Mother gives you two suggestions!

First, in the future, whenever you encounter such a difficult problem, you will either find your father to reveal your heart, or find your mother, and you must find one of them.

Second, it is that you can completely control your emotions and resolve such repression, rather than being suppressed and trapped in your emotions.

If you can't do the above two points, my mother's eyes are sharp, and if I turn around and pull you to sleep with me, you will be done! ”

Zhang Yurong said while deliberately holding the seven-year-old Shimei.

Shimei's face was flushed, she was shy, and she was secretly happy, if her younger brothers knew about such a punishment, would they not be envious to death?

But when you envy yourself to death, you will definitely laugh at yourself to death!

"Mother, I don't dare anymore, I will definitely reveal it to my mother in the future, Dad, intellectually it doesn't look like you're as good as your mother!

That is, mother, can you keep it secret tonight, just, just when I am here with my mother, I was taught a lesson all night? ”

Shimei also needs to save face!

Such a big boy, he was punished for sleeping with his mother all night?

If you commit it again in the future, you will have to be punished like this, do you want to save face?

If you're really going to be punished by your mother like this when you're old, that's really heheda!

It's better to fight hard!

"Well, yes, good attitude, that's right! This punishment is called a sweet punishment, but a sweet one! Hahaha! ”

Zhang Yurong smiled happily, she got the eldest son of the little adult, she is really well-intentioned to be a mother!

This trick is a sweet punishment, but I learned it from Ah Yong.

Use similar tricks to deal with this kind of face-saving child, hehe, it works!

"Then, if my mother finds out that her two younger brothers have made serious mistakes in the future, will she punish them like this?"

Shimei was hugged by her mother, and after the two talked quietly for a while, Shimei suddenly asked such a question.

I wanted not to open my mouth, but in the end, I couldn't bear it, and I wasn't afraid of being laughed at by my mother!

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