72 School Bullying
72 School Bullying
According to what Wang Xiuyan and Qingfeng discussed, a batch of small videos with positive energy caused heated discussions on the Internet, and the students left messages on the Internet, praising those righteous actions, and the popularity of the student forum was increased at once, and there were many social websites that reprinted the essence of these small videos, and they all distributed very positive comments, and also reprinted some classic comments, and on the webpage of the student union, the interaction between students was also more enthusiastic.
Because of the in-depth development of the campus forum, two more sensitive issues have emerged on campus, one is the problem of students' early love, and the other is school bullying.
is also a coincidence, a news of a school bullying incident has just been uploaded on the Internet, a junior high school girl, bullied by a girl in the same dormitory, and finally caused her to commit suicide. Such news has been spread on the Internet, and it immediately exploded, all kinds of opinions are deeply fried on the Internet, teachers, parents, school police, and relevant responsible persons have appeared, only the parties do not admit this bullying, the school and the teacher quickly clear up the relationship, the parents of the parties can only use the media with the help of the Internet, which has attracted the attention of the police, after a period of careful investigation by the police, the truth of the world has been restored, and one of the videos of bullying is even more shocking. Although this incident occurred in a junior college, this phenomenon has aroused reflection in the whole society and has also been highly valued by the relevant departments.
Qingfeng has been following the development of this matter and has made several posts at different stages, all of which have been well received. With his spicy brushstrokes, he lashes out mercilessly at this act. Because it's not just something he feels, it's something he empathizes. When he was in junior high school, he was often looked down upon by his classmates around him because of his poor family, and it was his self-improvement and self-reliance that allowed him to survive the most difficult period. A poor student, who is so outstanding in his studies, and the isolation of his classmates around him is completely a kind of cold violence, which makes him feel very uncomfortable in many things, especially in his heart. At that time, he was only a junior high school student, and he still survived in the face of strong cold violence.
But when he was in the second grade of junior high school, there was finally a handful of local relatively rich children, because their studies could never keep up with him, jealousy prevailed, so one day after school, these people got tangled together and surrounded it, not only verbally humiliating, but also wanting to do something with him. At that time, Qingfeng, who was already tall in the whole grade, faced the siege of these people, and did not pay attention to it, because he had learned a few tricks from Uncle Feng since he was a child, and he was not losing his strength, so he quickly taught these people a lesson with his fists and feet.
These people are also very interesting, through this contest, they are convinced from the bottom of their hearts, and they no longer isolate him as before, but ask him for advice if they don't understand something, and these little overlords slowly become his friends. Qingfeng has the air of a man, and generosity is also a kind of character of his, so he didn't care about them, but when every classmate came to him to ask questions, he would tell them without reservation, help them study, improve their grades, win their respect, and resolve the crisis.
After going to high school, I also faced this embarrassing atmosphere, those students who have good living conditions, or live in the city, still have some contempt for him, and they are really jealous of his academic performance, so what is expressed on the surface is indifference and isolation, which is a kind of bullying on campus. Among them, there were also a few people who were the kings and hegemons of the original school, trying to provoke Qingfeng in their efforts, but looking at his tall stature, he was so good at every move, which scared these people back. This kind of person has always been a bully and afraid of the hard, seeing that Qingfeng's strength is insufficient, they can only be a tree down Hu Sun San, one of the most typical classmates, can be said to be a rich second generation, he from a convener, soon became a fan of Qingfeng, worship in academic performance It is self-evident, see him is modest, actively participate in various work-study activities, in the reputation of teachers and classmates, have great authority, so he quickly established a friendship with Qingfeng, and with the help of Qingfeng, has greatly improved his academic performance, and the people around him have become very kind.
Qingfeng's two experiences made him feel that bullying on campus existed, although it didn't happen to him, it definitely existed among other classmates. Because this is a provincial key high school and the learning atmosphere is very good, these contradictions and problems are covered up. In fact, there are two groups on campus, one is a group of students with family difficulties, and the other is a group of weak people, both of which are very weak, and are isolated and bullied by the corresponding advantageous groups, although they have not yet reached the level of campus bullying, but this kind of cold violence is also very unfair to the students of the two vulnerable groups.
With the discussion of the older age incident on campus, some students also used the examples around them to issue a strong criticism of this kind of behavior, so that those students who usually show off their martial arts have to reflect on their behavior, especially in the learning atmosphere of this kind of school, this kind of behavior is even more shameful. A good school must have a good school spirit, which is the inheritance of key schools. Although the online discussion does not have real names, the enthusiasm and attention of the students are unprecedented, so Qingfeng used the position of the forum to turn this discussion into a rational guide to deal with the relationship between students.
It turns out that this kind of school bullying behavior everyone thought that it happened between boys, because of the access of online video, this extreme incident happened between girls, so it also caused a lot of repercussions among girls in the school. Qingfeng encouraged Wang Xiuyan and several female classmates in the study group to give full play to their wisdom and post on the Internet, fully express their views, and form a powerful criticism of this phenomenon, especially in the dormitory, those more powerful female classmates, especially the female classmates who are tangled together, cannot but say that it is a shocking education for them.
This kind of school bullying incident, if it occurs among male students, although the harm is not small, it may also lead to criminal cases, and may also cause psychological problems of bullied male students, but it is rarely transformed into extreme events, not to mention that these people are not able to cover the sky with one hand, male students are under a certain pressure, they must also rebound, their venting will expose the problem, the attention of the school or the police, or the attention of the student's parents, these problems will be satisfactorily resolved.
This kind of school bullying incident, if it happens among female classmates, this kind of harm is unpredictable. First of all, most of the female classmates are more introverted, and after they are bullied by various bullying behaviors, the changes in their hearts are huge, and they are even more reluctant to confide in outsiders, so the harm caused is often greater than that of boys. In addition, this kind of incident is generally a bullying behavior by multiple female classmates against a small number of female classmates, and the way they bully others is unspeakable, although the harm to the victim is great, in order not to cause a bad reputation in society, so they will be very willing to cooperate with those strong female classmates to cover up the past. However, with the escalation of their behavior, the victim's sense of humiliation deepens, and the worst consequences are that the victim has a disgust with school, and some classmates will suffer from depression, and even develop mental problems, and eventually have extreme consequences.
When the students criticize the campus bullying incident, they generally believe that this kind of incident occurs in remote places, or some schools with poor academic performance, because their people are disheartened and the learning atmosphere is not strong, so the school atmosphere will be very poor, and there will be some students who are eroded by social trends, talk about eating, drinking, and wearing, and carry out campus bullying for some vulnerable groups, so the education department also focuses on rectifying those schools with poor discipline and conducts an investigation of campus bullying incidents. It has adjusted the relationship between classmates, saved a group of teenagers who were on the verge of crime, and brought justice to those who were bullied.