The original owner couldn't help it anymore, she felt that if she missed such a good object, there would be no more in the future.

So she forced Xu Qingge to marry.

The original owner said that she is persecuting Xu Qingge so much now for her own good, who can find a husband with such good conditions.

She even said that if Xu Qingge didn't marry her, she would expose Song Wei, saying that Song Wei had abducted her daughter and wanted to make Song Wei's reputation stink.

At that time, Song Wei's reputation in the entertainment industry was even higher than now.

Song Wei is Xu Qingge's unspeakable pain, she once pushed Song Wei away so ruthlessly, and now he is thriving in the acting career he loves, how can she delay.

In the end, Xu Qingge agreed.

It's just that Xu Qingge died not long after marrying.

That man is X incompetent, and he likes to beat people violently, Xu Qingge was locked up as soon as he got married, and he endured I don't know how many times of violence.

Since childhood, Xu Qingge has lived in the atmosphere of the original owner's "good for you", she has been suppressed, and later suffered violence.

In the end, Xu Qingge couldn't bear it anymore and jumped from the building.

And Song Wei also suffered from depression after learning of Xu Qingge's death, and when he was less than thirty years old, he also jumped off the building and died.

Xu Qingge and Song were the only ones who fought hard for mandarin ducks, and finally ended in tragedy.

And the eldest son of the original owner, Xu Qingnuo, is now a 17-year-old sophomore in high school, and the story about him is also a tragedy.

And Xu Qingan is the youngest son of the original owner, now twelve years old, is in the fifth grade of primary school, since the second grade, in addition to normal classes at school, after school, there are countless classes on weekends.

There are cram schools for language, mathematics and English, piano, painting, taekwondo and many other courses.

The precocious Xu Qing'an is as sensitive as Xu Qingge, he has excellent grades, but he has low self-esteem because of the frequent reprimands of the original owner.

"Xu Qing'an, if you look at other people's children, you don't have to go to cram school to be so powerful, you have gone to so many cram schools to have your current results, it is because you are stupid that you have to study more diligently."

"An An, this question is so simple, how could you do it wrong? Tonight, you copy this question a hundred times, and next time you make a mistake with the same question type, you don't have to eat. ”

"An An, don't think that your mother is scolding you, the love is deep, the responsibility is serious, your mother will scold you if she loves you, and your mother is all for your good."

"An An, mom is only the three of you, mom will definitely train you to be talented, and no one will look down on you."

The words of the original owner lingered in his ears, and every time Yin Yin heard it, he felt that his chest was tight, and he was almost suffocated.

Yin Yin agrees with the phrase "love is deep, responsibility is earnest", but she doesn't agree that if she loves a child, she should beat him and scold him, especially a well-behaved child like Xu Qingan.

In modern society, it is not easy to raise a child, and it is even more difficult to raise a child well.

To raise a child well, it is not only necessary to keep him fed and clothed, let him receive education, but also pay attention to his physical and mental health.

Mental health is really important, it can directly affect the child's personality, three views, and his future.

Whether a child is psychologically healthy or not depends not only on the later stage, but also on the original family, that is, the parents.

Children are like a blank sheet of paper, and the words and deeds of parents directly affect children, just like a paintbrush, whether the child wants to or not, directly leave traces of good or bad on that blank paper.

Those traces, even if the parents realize that it is not good in the future, they choose to erase it, but they still leave indelible traces on the child's blank paper.