27, The Story of Reluctant (9)

In a motel in a foreign country, recalling these happy times, Fang Lingzi is still in a mood.

looked affectionately at her sleeping husband beside her, this selfless man gave everything for himself.

On the Sunday when they returned from the hospital, the two mothers had already gone to the small hotel to rest, and the daughter was asleep in the small bed.

Fang Lingzi noticed that something was wrong with him, and asked him with a smile, "Is there anything wrong with you today?" When my mother was here, I wasn't embarrassed to ask you, I don't know if there is anything good that makes you happy, and now I'm pretending to be a ghost here, so let's talk about it quickly. ”

Dong Jianjun did it, took Fang Lingzi's little hand with both hands, and said happily, "Lingzi, I have two happy things to share with you, you have to be prepared, these are two very good things."

Fang Lingzi's curiosity also rose, and urged him to say, "Don't sell it to me, if you have something to say, I wonder if it's a good thing for you to be so mysterious?" ”

Dong Jianjun said happily, "It's definitely a good thing." The first thing is that we have a house. ”

Fang Lingzi frowned and asked, "Didn't you just come to work in the teaching and research group?" Our application for a house has just been handed in, so soon? ”

Dong Jianjun said proudly, "If we don't say that the two of us are lucky, it's better to be in time than to be in time." Teacher Liang in our department, the family went abroad, just went through the procedures for returning the house, just in time for me to apply for a house, and they all know that we already have a baby, the leadership of the college gave me this house, we moved in the past two days, and now everyone is decorating, I think we don't want to decorate, one is that we don't have so much money in our hands, and the current decoration materials are said to be a little problematic, our baby can not be harmed, so I plan to brush the house on the line, This can not only save a rent, but also save the money for decoration, do you say this is good? ”

Fang Lingzi said happily, "Aren't you usually a good person?" Now you are the youngest in the teaching and research group, and you rush to do all the dirty work, and everyone has a good opinion of you, so you think of us when you have good things. The house will no longer be decorated, just brush white, do a good job of hygiene, and then we will move over, I listen to you these things, the house is bigger, the two mothers do not have to live in a small hotel, now it is so inconvenient, not to mention that there will always be a mother who will stay with us to help take care of the child in the future, after having a big house, the mother can not go out to live, but also save the old people hard work, this thing is really lucky. ”

Dong Jianjun said, "The most important thing is that the new batch of houses in the school has been completed, and the next step is to divide the houses, and everyone is holding back to live in the new houses, so now there is no one to fight with us in this old house, and I am really very happy that we are two outsiders in Beijing, and this time we have settled down and taken root, isn't this a great thing?" If there is no new house there, even if someone leaves the house, it will not be my turn, so God is taking care of us, and it is also the two of us who have worked hard and should enjoy our happy life. There's another thing that might be even better than this one, do you want to hear it? ”

Fang Lingzi said disdainfully, "Not necessarily, there will be anything more good than we have a new home, in my opinion, having a new house is a great thing, nothing is better than this, the good thing you said is not necessarily better than this thing, today there is such a big surprise, I am already satisfied, if you want to say that thing, then talk about it tomorrow, so that I can have surprises every day." ”

Dong Jianjun laughed, and the cells in his whole body became excited, "Of course, what I want to say about this matter is better than the house, I have successfully operated, and now I have to report to you, because this is the moment that involves your future life and direction, and it is the moment that determines our fate." You're going abroad in three months, and the other party is the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, do you say you're happy? ”

Fang Lingzi couldn't believe that everything Dong Jianjun said was true, and her big eyes flashed in confusion, "Jianjun, I'm on maternity leave now, how can such a good thing be my turn?" It's a dream. ”

Dong Jianjun further explained, "Lingzi, why can't it be your turn? This time, the other party wants scientific researchers who can directly enter the experiment, should be selected among the master's students, or those who have obtained a master's degree, our college, the two of us who meet the qualifications, the school means to let me go, but the tutor thinks that I have just obtained a master's degree, and I am the main force of the current scientific research project, and I am a little reluctant to go abroad, I also see the meaning of the mentor, I will ask him to do the work of the school, give you this place, and you will work in the past. While you first complete the defense of your master's thesis, so that your master's degree is recognized by both sides, and then you often work there for two years, and use these two years to get a doctorate from MIT, isn't it a double thing? ”

Fang Lingzi still didn't believe her ears a little, didn't this a big pie fall from the sky? "Will the school listen to you? With so many people in school, they have broken their heads and broken blood in order to go abroad, how can such a good opportunity make me a person who is on maternity leave, isn't it a little whimsical? ”

Dong Jianjun smiled and said, "Do you think this matter is very difficult?" I also told you, if there is no difficulty, I don't do it, it is because of the challenge, I tried my best to fight, the tutor first discussed with the school, the school said that the decision is in the tutor, the teacher suggested that I go to the leadership of the Foreign Affairs Office, I went directly to the Foreign Affairs Office, the director of the Foreign Affairs Office is a professor who has taught our class, and is very familiar with the conditions of both of us, I particularly emphasize that the current scientific research project is a project of the State Science and Technology Commission, and I am the main force of this project. The time for the completion of this project is now very tight, if I leave, this project may not be completed on time, I and your conditions are basically the same, you are pregnant did not defend the master's thesis, so you go than me to go to this exchange is more beneficial, the leader of the foreign affairs office agreed on the spot, saying that it was decided after reporting to the school leader, but he also said that the school leader should not have any opinions, and the official document was sent down soon, and this matter should be nine out of ten. ”

Fang Lingzi knew that this matter was indeed true, but she was still a little sorry for her husband in her heart, and said sincerely, "Jianjun, I think this exchange should be you going, the child is so young, I'm leaving, who will take this child?" I am also reluctant to have children, just rely on your ability to pass and soon get a doctorate, you will definitely achieve good results in scientific research, I take care of the child at home, while completing the master's thesis, and when the child is a little older, I will study for a doctorate, isn't it very good? You let me leave you and my children to go abroad now, I'm really a little unwilling, the two of us can't both come out, you have achieved results, and there is half of my credit in it, you don't forget that I can, why do you have to encourage me to go abroad? ”

Dong Jianjun said seriously, "Lingzi, I am now doing this science and technology project of the Ministry of Science and Technology, and my mentor does not want me to leave at this time, now you are the most qualified, I have done so much work, how rare the opportunity is, who said that we must be men to succeed first in our work, what age is this, your thinking is still stuck in the feudal era, take advantage of this opportunity to go abroad, you completed your master's thesis, got your doctorate back, and achieved certain results in scientific research, Your academic status has been established in the industry, and I will also achieve scientific research results in China, so wouldn't it be better for the two of us to fly together? You don't have to worry about the child, my mother can take the child to us in Beijing, or she can take the child to Shenyang, take the child at home, and take the child back to Beijing when the child is three years old. In short, I have done a good job in all aspects of this matter, and you must not retreat anymore, because we are married, we have children, and we have delayed the defense of your master's thesis, and we will use the time to go abroad to snatch back the time, so we have decided. ”

Fang Lingzi during her maternity leave, unprepared, under the activities of her husband Dong Jianjun, hurriedly decided to go to the United States for exchanges, Fang Lingzi looked at her husband seriously, this man who pretended to be himself and loved himself deeply, used his broad shoulders to build a ladder for his wife, and served as a stepping stone for his wife in his career, which added a layer of love to Fang Lingzi's heart.

The documents for the exchange abroad were soon issued, and Fang Lingzi knew that there was no way back, and she just started to breastfeed the child, because she was going abroad in three months, so she could only be forced to wean the child off breast milk and feed it with olive oil powder. During this three-month period, Fang Linzi's biggest preparation was also the most difficult preparation, which was the training of spoken English.

There is no TOEFL test threshold for scientific researchers who go abroad for exchange, but if the listening and speaking are not passed, they cannot work, Fang Lingzi's English foundation is already good, after a period of oral listening training, the level of English has been rapidly improved, Dong Jianjun accompanied him to watch a few English original movies, it turned out that he didn't understand the spoken English, after the test of several original movies, the English language environment was completely adapted, whether it was in the English accent, or in the speed of English, Now we can communicate freely.

Dong Jianjun also specially invited a foreign teacher to help his wife with language training, this foreign teacher is a foreign teacher invited by the School of Foreign Languages, and has a set of speaking and listening teaching, after communicating with Fang Lingzi, after a few times, he said to Dong Jianjun, "Mr. Dong, Ms. Fang's speaking and listening are no longer problematic, after arriving in the United States, you can communicate with others normally, but you may need to strengthen your professional vocabulary, but I am an English teacher, and I can't help much in professional vocabulary. It's up to him to accumulate it on his own, and she has no problem with ordinary daily speaking and listening, but if he enters MIT and participates in scientific research, he will use professional vocabulary very frequently among scholars, and I really can't do anything about it, it's all up to him. ”

Dong Jianjun does not have to worry about this at all, because the latest scientific research results are generally English papers, Fang Lingzi has a lot of opportunities to read English papers, and the accumulation of professional words has been very rich, especially some cutting-edge English vocabulary, he has no problems at all, as a senior professional, in the field of this discipline, these professional words, the degree of proficiency is better than others.

After getting the school's approval and the invitation letter from MIT, the school quickly handled Fang Lingzi's passport, but it was still more troublesome to pass the visa, and the visa officer of the U.S. Embassy, after an interview, questioned Fang Lingzi's ability and failed the first interview.

The school's Foreign Affairs Office, through the Foreign Affairs Department of the Ministry of Education, negotiated directly with the U.S. Embassy by the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and finally decided to sign again, requiring Fang Lingzi to provide academic papers.

Fang Lingzi's academic achievements and academic papers are very rich, with these materials and general identity materials, certification materials, the second time I came to the US Embassy, the visa officer and Fang Lingzi had an academic discussion, and saw his English papers published abroad, the visa officer was immediately impressed by this young female scientist, and successfully passed the visa.

After three months of preparation, all the things and procedures for going abroad have been completed, and Dong Jianjun is relieved.

As the day of going abroad is getting closer and closer, Fang Lingzi looked at the baby in swaddling clothes, mother and child nature, the three-month-old baby is about to leave the mother, Fang Lingzi, a first-time mother, a heart has been broken.

The joy of being a mother has not passed, looking at her daughter's bright eyes, the feeling of reluctance rises from the heart, what a beautiful daughter, although it is just three months, the face has been more than when she was just born, thick and dense hair, black and bright, when she woke up, her limbs were scurrying, and she was so sweet when she fell asleep, she left her mother at such a young age, and she didn't see each other for at least two years, and last month she beat warmly in her arms, so that the mother and daughter have become one, Now because of the separation of life and life abroad, the young mother will burst into tears when she thinks about it.

A crystal tear fell on her daughter's face, and the stimulated little baby smiled at her mother, and made a loud sound, which made the inseparable young mother even more heartbroken, and shouted in her heart, "Jiaojiao, my dear daughter, it's not that my mother wants to leave you, but because of studying abroad, our mother and daughter have to separate, how much my mother loves you, how reluctant I am, when I come back, you have grown up, in the days and nights of your growth, I can't be like other mothers, by your side, watching you grow up day by day, in my mother's memory, this is the most regrettable thing, in the future, when you grow up, can you understand your mother? ”

The dialogue between such a young mother and a three-month-old baby's heart has been carried out in Fang Lingzi's heart, I don't know how many times she has cried, her inseparable mood, her attachment to her daughter, her attachment to her family, and her attachment to her husband, all of which are inseparable and have been tormenting her.

Dong Jianjun saw these things in his eyes and became more gentle towards his wife.

Dong Jianjun said softly, "Lingzi, you can go with confidence, I am not his stepfather, are you still afraid that I will make her angry?" My daughter is the meat of my heart, I must raise him well, and when you come back, he will already be a beautiful chick, and at that time, he will happily circle around you every day, wearing beautiful clothes, combing two pigtails, and wearing a huge bow, and must be the most beautiful little girl in the world. ”

Fang Lingzi wiped away her tears, leaned her head on the broad shoulder, one hand was still caressing the baby's face, and murmured, "Some people say that my daughter is my father's little lover in my father's previous life, you father and daughter are naturally affectionate, after I leave, you will be by her side every day, the relationship between the two of you will be very deep, and at that time, my daughter will not listen to me." How can I be a mother? ”

Dong Jianjun hugged his wife and said, "There is another sentence, the daughter is the mother's close-fitting little padded jacket, the nature of mother and daughter, how can he treat you badly?" When I was young, I may have been better with my father, but when the child grows up, my daughter will definitely have a closer relationship with you than mine, and many women can whisper that in the future, when the daughter grows up and gets married, she will be closer to her mother's heart, is there anything to doubt about this? ”

Fang Lingzi heard her husband's happy words, looked at the honest face affectionately, couldn't help but kiss a few times with her thin lips, and then said coquettishly, "I know that you are making me happy, I just can't bear you, I can't bear the child, and I can't bear our family, you think about how uncomfortable it will be for me to be gone for two years, and when I come back, the child is already sensible and grows up, and I see that my mother is completely unfamiliar, how uncomfortable my heart will be." In two years, she has changed from an infant baby to a lively little girl, this beautiful memory does not have my existence, in this critical period of her growth, without the mother's upbringing, you say how uncomfortable it is in my life, how regretful. ”

Dong Jianjun fully understands his wife's heart as a young mother, and it is also a matter of necessity to let the two families be temporarily severed, not only to let his wife go without scruples, but also to make her happier, "What can a two-year-old child remember?" Human memory needs to start at least four or five years old, do you think back to the time when you were two years old together? So it's just right for you to go in the past two years, and when she really grows up in the future, you will be even more inseparable, this is a gift from God, this is also for your family affection, for your love, I will definitely wait for you to come back to the beautiful and sensible daughter, I promise you. ”

A pair of beautiful eyes, looking at her husband affectionately.