Chapter 144: Childe Carries Love
"Girl, please."
Song Xiang said: "I'm actually ordinary, I don't know why Hu Gongzi loves me so much?" ”
"How can a girl be ordinary?" Hu Yan said, "You are very smart, and you are good at running a family, and your temperament and appearance are all first-class, I really have never seen a more capable girl than you among the people I know." ”
"But isn't it true that Hu Gongzi has such an illusion because he has more contact with me?"
Song Xiang knew that the Hu family had a strict family education, and Hu Yan would definitely not have too much contact with the girls on weekdays, at least free contact like allowing him to go out of the city and return to the village, Mrs. Hu would definitely not give it.
"In terms of learning and talent, there are too many daughters in the city who are stronger than me. As soon as you touch it, you will find that many of them are different. ”
Hu Yan thought for a while: "Most daughters don't have the courage to stand up for the Li family like the girl. ”
Song Xiang raised his lips: "Then forgive me for changing the word, Gongzi thinks that Ling Tang is in my position, will Ling Tang do this?" ”
"That's nature." Hu Yan didn't think twice, "My mother is upright, and she will definitely punish the wicked like a girl." ”
"Madame can become the best among the nobles in the city, and her character no longer needs my comment. However, Childe knows that there are still many ladies in the city who are also well-educated and can distinguish between right and wrong, and I believe that as long as they have the opportunity, they will make a legitimate choice.
"So I'm not unique, Childe thinks I'm rare, it's a recognition of me, but it also makes me feel ashamed."
Hu Yan thought she was going to find an excuse to refuse, but she didn't expect her to be so reasonable. There are no girls in his family, and the one he has had the most contact with since he was a child is Du Yuyin, who came to the house three years ago.
He didn't know about other girls, and he didn't dare to know about them. So what she said seems to make sense, how can the young ladies who have been nurtured by the family style not have the courage to punish evil and promote good?
He looked at Song Xiang and muttered, "In this way, the girl's thoughts towards me are very ordinary. ”
Song Xiang said: "Son-in-law carries love." ”
"What do you care about, girl? Where am I? ”
It is impossible for Song Xiang to care about her family background, and too many aspects prove that she is not the one who wants this. Mrs. Hu said that she paid attention to details, which may be right, but he suddenly felt that what she cared about might not be the details he understood, whether he took care of Song Lian or not, maybe he couldn't be the aspect that moved her at all.
And she was so calm, but it also made him a little curious.
"Hu Gongzi is not bad at all." Song Xiang cupped the cup, "I think it's just because we met at the wrong time." ”
If she had met Hu Yan in her previous life before she was given marriage, and was favored by Mrs. Hu, then her life might have been completely different.
In the final analysis, the root cause of her "can't" is that she has already experienced a lifetime, and many problems she can no longer deal with with the state of mind when the love first opened.
If she is still really fifteen years old, she may be tempted by Hu Yan. But now Hu Yan is like a simple-minded brother in her eyes, and the thoughts of the two are not on the same line, so there is no way for her to have a longing.
Hu Yan was a little unconvinced after hearing this: "I think this is like an excuse for you." ”
Song Xiang smiled: "Then let me ask you, with the current situation of our family, if you want to live well, what do you think is the best choice for me?" ”
Hu Yan hesitated slightly: "You can marry me." If you marry me, the future of Ling Tang and Ling Di will definitely be borne by my Hu family. ”
"Is it the Hu family who bears it, or the Hu Gongzi, do you bear it?"
Hu Yan paused: "I thought it was no different. ”
Song Xiang slowly peeled a peanut: "What if the Hu family refuses to bear it?" ”
"How is that possible? My father and mother don't know how much they want you and me to get married. ”
"So what Childe said, in the final analysis, it was because of the family's consent that you obeyed. And what if one day Lingtang changes his mind again? ”
Song Xiang looked at him: "Miss Du has been in Hu Mansion for three years, and it took her careful thinking to be exposed. And my wife and I have only known each other for a short time, and now you choose to see the good aspects of me, what if you see other aspects of me one day?
"At that time, when there was a disagreement between Ling Zun Lingtang and your wife, how would Hu Gongzi resolve this dispute?"
Hu Yan couldn't speak, he couldn't think about this question: "My mother likes you so much, why would she have a dispute with you?" ”
Song Xiang said: "The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has never disappeared. If you don't believe me, ask your sister-in-law? ”
"My sister-in-law listens to my mother very much."
"But I don't have to." Song Xiang smiled.
There will be different opinions between biological mothers and daughters, how can there be complete unity between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law? The obedience of the Hu family's grandmother may not be that she chose to compromise.
She still has the burden of her mother's family to carry, marrying into the Hu family, let her completely ignore her mother's family, she can't do it, and she can't leave it to the Hu family to take care of it.
Hu Yan didn't know what to say: "But if you are worried about the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, will you choose a man without a mother-in-law in the future?" ”
"No," Song Xiang looked at him, "What I want to say is not about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I just want to know, as a husband and son at the same time, once you face such a problem, how will you balance?" ”
Hu Yan couldn't answer. In their family, in his eyes, his sister-in-law gets along well with his mother, and his sister-in-law listens to her mother in everything, and he has never thought like this.
"It's too difficult, I haven't faced it yet, and I don't know how to solve it."
"Everything changes and does not deviate from its origin, and nine times out of ten, the discord in the inner house is due to the improper handling of men. If Hu Gongzi can't stand up on his own, then no matter who he marries, this kind of problem will be inevitable. ”
There really is nothing wrong with Hu Yan. Enthusiastic, kind, simple, and with such a good family style, the appearance is also impeccable.
In the memory of her previous life, he and Miss Xie were reconciled, also after Du Yuyin's incident. Before that, there was also a period of chickens flying and dogs jumping.
Who knows if it was because of that bad experience that gave him the opportunity to recognize these problems?
So it's not that you can't get married, it's just that the idea is not on the same line. Hu Yan felt that getting married was not his responsibility alone, but the responsibility of the entire Hu family, so he had no pressure and didn't have to think about anything.
But she hopes that the person she marries can realize that husband and wife are one, and he can handle things on his own.
She has not yet reached the point where she has to get married, Zheng Rong doesn't force her, and she doesn't have to change her fate by marrying, she can still afford to think deeply.
"In this way, I really think it's simpler." Hu Yan muttered.
Song Xiang raised his lips: "Some people say that a man will only think about everything for her if he likes another person, and the reason why Gongzi doesn't understand it is probably because he hasn't moved his heart yet."
"In that case, why didn't Gongzi Hu wait for the person who made you excited to appear first?"