When did you begin to reconcile with your parents?

If you ask Su Xiao about this, she will probably tell you that it started with a phone call.

If you ask Nanfeng, he will also tell because of a phone call.

It was a phone call that hadn't been contacted for almost two months.

As soon as the phone was connected, the voice on the other side was familiar and unfamiliar.

The father's hoarse voice came from the phone, "It's been a long time since you've been in touch with Mom and Dad, Mom and Dad miss you very much." ”

Nanfeng didn't know what to say for a while, it was because he hadn't been in touch for a long time, so it was normal to be a little rusty, "Oh." ”

Midsummer reminded, "Nanfeng, you can't look like this, that's your parents, you can't talk like this, it will break their hearts." ”

At this time, my mother suddenly interjected and said, "Don't take it to heart last time, Mom and Dad thought about it later, it was really their own fault, and it was indeed that they didn't think about it from your point of view." ”

The parents were a little unhappy when they bowed their heads like this, because they always had the impression that they were always absolutely authoritative, they were always right, and they did everything right, but at this time they apologized here, saying that they didn't do the right thing.

Because I usually don't bow my head, I feel a little guilty about bowing my head so much.

Sheng Xia, who was listening to the phone on the sidelines, said, "Nannan, you see that your parents have apologized, you can't be a stingy ghost, you must know how to understand each other!" ”

Midsummer actually envied Nanfeng very much, because Midsummer lost her parents when she was very young, so she hoped that Nanfeng could cherish her parents.

There are many children in this world who lack love, and there are many children in this world who obviously have love but do not cherish it.

Midsummer hopes that Nanfeng can reconcile with his parents, which is not a legend that says pity the hearts of parents in the world.

Nanfeng finally broke the ice with his parents, although there was still some estrangement in his words, but it was much better than before, "Actually, it's not, maybe this matter is mainly my fault, I'm sorry." ”

Taking the initiative to apologize may be from the perspective of parents, or from the perspective of a son, whether what they do is right or wrong, as their son, there is no way to evaluate these things.

And they don't necessarily do it wrong, they just use different methods and look at problems from different angles.

Although the friendship, enthusiasm, and innocence of young people are all valuable life treasures, if you think about it for a while.

Maybe you can understand the selfishness of your parents.

If they are selfish, it is a pity that they give life, if they are selfish, but they let Nanfeng live the best life.

Therefore, people are always complex and contradictory individuals, and people do not understand what to do, how to say and how to do it.

There is no way to make a conclusion because of one thing, and there is no way to deny an entire group because of one person.

If Nanfeng became a parent, he didn't know if he would be like his parents, after all, there was no way to predict the future.

No one knows if they're going to be someone they hate.

"I hope I don't lose my temper with my parents, my parents know that you have always been a good child, so is your friend better? Dad will call you if you need to. ”

The father's words carried the child's confession, but at this time it was not like the majestic father, but like a child who had made a mistake.

"My friend she's fine, I don't need it now, I didn't lose my temper, maybe I wasn't in a good mood during the previous time, and I didn't mean to make you angry, don't be in a hurry with me, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry."

Nanfeng apologized several times in a row, maybe even if he apologized, there was no way to change the damage he had caused, he was too naïve in the past, although he was not very mature now, but he could understand his parents' feelings better than before.

Many times you don't have to do it to understand, but if you do, you can at least understand.

No one can hinder you from what kind of person you become, but it's always good to be more understanding, after all, those two will always be on your side.

Family members only need a few words to break the ice, because blood is thicker than water, because each other is the closest person, so the past mistakes will be tolerated with each other.

"Nannan, when are you going to go home? Mom made you your favorite braised pork, if you don't have time, don't do it, Mom just said casually. ”

The mother asked and obviously missed her son very much, but said that if she didn't have time, she would forget it, probably because she didn't want to be a stepping stone on the road to the child's progress.

"It's okay, I'll go back later."

"No, you don't."

"But Mom and Dad, didn't you say you missed me?"

"It's true, but isn't it afraid that you're busy with work and study?"

Even though there is a long time gap, you will still cross thousands of mountains and rivers to meet the people you want to meet.

Immediately booked a high-speed rail ticket from Shenzhen to Dongguan.

He hadn't been home for almost half a year, and he didn't know if his parents had gray temples.

With something you bought in your hand, maybe your parents will like it, right? After all, whatever he sends his parents will like.

The next morning he knocked on his door.

"South-South-"

Nan Fang stood there, and for a moment he wanted to cry, he hadn't seen his son for a long time.

"Dad." Nanfeng stepped forward and hugged his father, patted him on the shoulder and said, "I'm sorry for making you worry about it for so long before you have time to come back." ”

As soon as his mother heard his voice, she immediately rushed out, with an apron tied around her waist, "It's okay, it's okay, it's okay to come back." ”

The large round table was full of vegetables, including fish, meat and vegetables, some of which were bland and some of which were salty, because Mom and Dad took turns cooking.

"Look at this big table of dishes that you like to eat, they are all specially made for you by your parents, and you don't tell us in advance when you come back, it's still a little less, and there may not be so many dishes at home."

Mother still doesn't have enough food, but she can't even fit it anymore.

"There are already a lot of dishes here, and I'm not a pig, so I can't eat so much." Nanfeng eats dishes that he hasn't eaten for a long time, these are familiar flavors, his father's taste is light, and his mother's taste is spicy and salty.

"How can you say that, don't Mom and Dad want you to eat more? You see that you have only come once in a long time, I am afraid that you will not have enough to eat, and you are not fat and so weak, you are almost as thin as a stick, and your parents feel sorry for you. ”

The father said that Nanfeng was thin and weak, and he couldn't help but be like a stick, but Nanfeng can actually beat ten at a time, after all, in the eyes of parents, children will always be children who don't grow up.

"Okay, okay, I'll eat more, you two eat more, don't just watch me eat."

Nanfeng can only admit that he is weak, after all, in the eyes of his parents, he will always be a child who needs to be protected, and the child will be a child for the rest of his life with his parents.

We talked about a lot of things during the meal, and at first it was just a greeting and then we asked about the situation.

"Mom and Dad, how are you doing? Nothing should have happened at home, right? ”

Nanfeng is concerned about the situation at home, he is abroad for nine years all the year, so naturally he doesn't know what is happening at home, and he doesn't often contact his parents.

"It's not going well, but it's better now, business is sluggish this year, why didn't your dad give you a million at the beginning, because our company was about to go bankrupt at that time, so the two of us were so angry at that time."

Mother smiled and tried her best to say this in a relatively relaxed tone, and when she laughed, some fine lines suddenly appeared, and the glamorous mother Li Tian in that memory was also old.

It seems that time has not passed long, but the calendar shows that time has passed year after year, and the youth of my parents is still fading.

"Then why don't you tell me all these things? I don't even know about these things, why don't you tell me about the situation at home, I ......"

Nanfeng suddenly realized how naïve he used to be, he seemed to always think too much about everything, and he didn't realize that in fact, many things were just appearances, there was no one who could never fall, and there was no home that would always be beautiful.

Where there is anything safe and happy, in fact, there are people who love you to carry the weight for you, and support you hard.

But he didn't understand these truths until now, and later he learned that it was really difficult to make money, and he knew that all the money was not blown by the wind.

No one will sympathize and be kind to a person for no reason, which is why parents refused to give that money even if they had it.

Nanfeng suddenly wanted to slap himself or slap himself, he felt that he was very ridiculous in the past, and if he looked back at the past in this life, he felt that he was all black history.

"But we talked about family affairs, and there is nothing to be happy about, why bother to give you negative energy, Mom and Dad want you to be happy and happy, how can you tell you these things, this is not solved before I can tell you? If none of these things are resolved, we won't tell you a word. ”

Father muttered as he ate his meal, but Father was still as kind and gentle as before, and his sternness began to fade as time passed.

My father used to always say that people are useless when they get old, and maybe they used to want to be strict every day, but then they became more and more inadequate.

"I'm sorry it's all my fault, I'm not a good son at all, and I've rarely seen things from the perspective of my parents, and I'm easy to be self-righteous a lot ......of times."

Nanfeng apologized and blamed himself, but his father said.

"No one is perfect, after giving birth to your son, my father actually has always had a light on his face."

He will always be the pride of his parents.

Maybe every child is the pride of their parents, right?