If Zijun is an ordinary rural villager, such a family affair will be over, at most, an acquaintance will chew a few words behind his back, as long as the family agrees, it is not a big deal.

But in the end, he has an official position, if the two of them are interested in each other and have achieved good things, I am afraid that the reputation will not be good.

Previously, Siqi saw that Qiu Ling had other feelings for Zijun, in fact, she was quite happy, Qiu Ling had been wandering outside with her children all these years, lonely, and her life had been very hard, if someone could take care of her, it would be a good thing to have a better life in the future.

And his eldest brother has not been married all these years, just because he didn't find a person who is willing to be with him for a lifetime, if his eldest brother also has that meaning, why not do it?

At that time, I was only happy, and I didn't think about anything else, and besides, the hurdle at home was not good.

She also thought about it before, grandma should be more open-minded, talk about this matter well, grandma should nod, but she is unwilling after all.

Grandpa is not very easy to pass, his grandfather is a more old-fashioned person, these years at home has been smooth, thanks to grandma can speak, but that is just a general thing, will not have much impact on the reputation of the family, and this is not ordinary.

Zijun is still the eldest grandson of the Lin family, generally speaking, the eldest son and eldest grandson of the family will be expected to have high hopes, Zijun did not live up to his family's expectations of him, studied to gain fame, and won glory for the family.

If he really takes a fancy to Qiu Ling, it is impossible to hide this matter, even if it will not let people know who it is, but for a long time, there will always be some rumors, and the reputation of the family is not good, grandpa will definitely not nod so easily.

Si Qi thought that instead of letting them get to that point and be sad for each other, it was better to let them think about it now, this was their own business, and she was actually not suitable for talking too much.

"Brother, do you really take a fancy to Sister Qiu Ling?"

Zijun nodded, shook his head again, and then nodded again.

"Actually, I don't know what I think in my heart, I just know that I have never had such a mind about a person, Qiu Ling has often seen it before, growing up in a village, even if she has no contacts, it is familiar in the end, but I have never felt how special she is, and when I see her again, I really want to take care of her on the side."

"I thought I was just looking at her pitiful, I felt sorry for her, but these days she stayed by her side to take care of me, but let me gradually see some things clearly, I just hope that she will always be with me, I hope to take the big girl and the big treasure to live there with me, son, do you say okay?"

Siqi pursed his lips, "It's a matter of the two of you, I can't say whether it's good or not, but I also have to remind you, have you thought about what the consequences will be if you do this?" Sister Qiu Ling is very good, but she is Gu Pingyong's granddaughter, our two families are incompatible, although Gu Pingyong is now gone, but this relationship is always there, do you think grandparents will nod? ”

"Moreover, Tiankuo is the child of the Gu family, I have already married Tiankuo, if these two families set a family affair again, it will not be good after all, I only say my opinion, how to figure it out yourself, this is your business, I should not let me be the master."

"Also, Sister Qiu Ling has two children, do you understand? If you have a crush on her, these two children are also your children, can you really be good to them for the rest of your life? Treat them as your responsibility? ”

Faced with these problems, Zijun nodded without hesitation, "Of course I can do it, if I decide to marry her, Da Ya and Da Bao will be my children, and I will naturally be good to them for the rest of my life." ”

Siqi asked him again, "What if the family is against it?" Have you thought about it? You and I know Grandpa's temperament very well, he can nod his head in general things, even if he is not satisfied, he will not say anything, but this kind of thing, Grandpa is not so easy to agree. ”

"You don't have to lie to yourself, this is a hurdle in front of you, if you decide, you must think about how to cross this hurdle, but if you don't have such a firm determination, doing it impulsively now will only cause more harm to Sister Qiu Ling in the future, she is already very difficult, she should not suffer like this again."

"If you are not sure that you can make her live a stable life, you must think clearly now, this is what I want to say, the rest is up to you, if you need me to speak for you in front of your grandparents, I will naturally do so, but the final result is not for me to decide."

"Now I say these words, just to let you see how difficult the road ahead is, if you don't go well, it will be an abyss, not only will you not have a good time, but it will make your family unhappy, how can Sister Qiu Ling not be sad in her heart?"

Of course, Zijun knew that the problem Si Qi said was real, and the family would never nod easily, if it didn't work out in the end, wouldn't it give Qiu Ling hope and disappoint her?

Zijun is not so stupid, after he figured out his feelings for Qiu Ling, he can also be sure that Qiu Ling is not without that kind of feelings for him, otherwise how could he stay there to take care of him?

This time, he chased after him, just to make it clear to Qiu Ling face to face, don't hide it anymore.

He hadn't seen Qiu Ling yet, so Siqi sorted out the questions in front of him one by one, Siqi was right, if he was impulsive now, I am afraid it would be more troublesome in the future.

Siqi saw that he was silent, and he didn't force him anymore, and said in a low voice, "Tiankuo and I shouldn't say anything, it's enough for you to know what you're facing in the future, as for whether you want to do this or not, it's not up to me, brother, I also hope that you and Sister Qiu Ling will accomplish good things, but you can't ignore the problem in front of you, right?" She can't stand the toss, I hope you can figure it out and don't make a decision impulsively. ”

Siqi felt that she was also impulsive, and when she saw Qiu Ling's feelings for Zijun before, she thought that Qiu Ling was not bad, and if the two of them were really together, it would be a good thing.

But she didn't think about so much trouble later, if she hadn't been impulsive and didn't propose to let Qiu Ling stay there to take care of Zijun, wouldn't there have been these things later?

She also blamed herself a little at this time, but anyway, if the two of them really wanted each other, even if there was no such thing, they would have to face it sooner or later in the future.