At this time, Gao Geli's expression became complicated again, and he laughed: "Oh~~~~, you call that word appreciation, you can really find steps for yourself." ”

The two walked very slowly because of chatting, the school had no lights except for the dormitory, and the narrow path home was completely empty, and only two cat barks and a few dog barks could be heard occasionally.

The street lights were a little dim, and Sister Moon dressed herself up to be extraordinarily bright in order to take care of pedestrians, and the two teenagers who were only 15 years old began to discuss their lives again in the company of the moonlight......

Chen Jie saw that Gao Geli was going to give him the hat of early love no matter what, so he didn't bother to explain, and said directly:

"Let's just talk about this issue today, my attitude towards early love is not as neurotic as yours, this kind of thing has to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis."

"Sooner or not is relative. During the Tang and Song dynasties, men could get married at the age of 15, if they were put in the past, 15 years old had already reached the legal age of marriage, how could it be considered early love? ”

Hearing the word marriage, Gao Geli almost dropped his jaw: "I'll go!" I didn't expect it, brother, you've already thought about this step! Is this what is called love at first sight? ”

Chen Jie looked at him, shook his head helplessly, and said:

"Talking about things one by one, I don't deny the existence of love at first sight, but the premise is that both people have a serious attitude towards their feelings."

"But in today's era, the so-called love at first sight probability is just a matter of seeing the color."

Seeing that he was about to answer again, Chen Jie hurriedly stretched out his hand to stop and continued:

"You let me finish my words first, the age of marriage I just talked about is the ancient situation."

"At that time, the social structure was simple, and there was basically nothing for the fame, farming, small business, and business, so men basically had a craft of eating when they reached the age of 15, and since they had the ability to support their families, they could naturally start a family."

"Why are our parents so opposed to early love, and when it comes to this issue, they talk about tiger color change, which is actually the same as the underlying logic of the ancients."

"We are a very traditional people with an emphasis on responsibility, so love often means marriage."

"On the surface, the biggest concern is that I am worried about affecting learning, and if I think about it deeply, it is because the quality of learning directly affects employment, after all, our generation has no land and no ancestral shade, and employment has almost become the only way to survive."

"If you don't even have the skills to support your family, which girl is willing to drink the northwest wind with you, and the parents of our girls dare to marry their children to you?"

"Of course, it is not excluded that the parents of both sides are world friends, the child happens to be a boy and a girl and is in the same school, and the two are childhood sweethearts who fall in love with each other, in this case, as long as the parents do not oppose and do a good job of guiding the work, the two people can support each other and take a step at a time."

"In this way, the psychological burden of both men and women is much smaller, and it will not affect learning, so I say that the situation of early love should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis."

But most people don't have such prerequisites, so parents generally think that falling in love at this age is just nonsense. This is actually the same idea as the ancients. ”

"People may define women who value this issue as reality, but shouldn't this be the first thing men think about when they think about it? The man gives priority to this issue, which is our national character and the most basic kindness. ”

"The power of bloodline is often mentioned in fantasy novels, and the power of our nation's bloodline is pragmatism, which is not only from an objective point of view, but also from a good point of view."

"You fell in love with a girl, but you couldn't support someone, how do you feel? I haven't experienced it, but I think it's definitely a lot worse than eating flies. ”

"When you first fall in love, you may just think it's fun, but there's nothing at that time, and the girl is simple."

"But in the process of getting along, once the man's mentality changes, and suddenly one day he wants to make a promise to the woman, if he has nothing at that time, the pressure must be huge."

"And when the pressure exceeds the limit, it cannot be converted into motivation, in this case, many men are not able to carry out their daily work life at all, and finally have to separate."

"Even if the man doesn't open his mouth, when the woman finds that the other person can't give her the security she wants, she will choose to separate."

Chen Jie shrugged his shoulders, spread his hands, and continued: "This separation is good, the man starts to believe in anything, and he starts to play life. As for women, they have also become realistic, and they have become recognizant of money and not people, giving the next generation the feeling that the world is declining and a vicious circle. ”

"At this time, the obviously pragmatic national character became a material national character, and everyone overdrew such a precious thing in advance before happiness came."

"No one believes in human nature, so they can only put forward rigid requirements for materials, cars, houses, and the cost of marriage continues to increase."

"Then someone woke up, no, you gave the most beautiful things to your ex, he didn't have to spend any cost, I married a girl who has become very realistic, and I usually play tricks on me every day, but I have a lot of houses and cars, and I am a pick-up man!"

"After the woman gets married, she may also find that her husband has no family concept at all, and he has no feelings for himself, as if he is just getting married for the sake of getting married, so what's the point of living this life, leave!"

"If this development continues, the social form of marriage will be on the verge of disintegration, the family is the smallest cell of society, once a group marriage dissolves, it is the beginning of social turmoil, maybe it will not lead to war, but it will give people a feeling that it is chaos!"

"In the future, the issue of the family of origin will become a natural label for each generation of newborns, who have no parental role model, and do not know how to manage their feelings and how to respect each other."

"The result is a vicious circle of hurting each other, hating each other, distrusting each other, and so on."

After listening to Chen Jie's tirade, Gao Geli suddenly became frightened and said in a low voice: "That, brother, let me ask weakly, are you really only 15 years old?" ”

Chen Jie replied to Gao Geli's question: "In fact, 15 years is enough time for people to become mature. Why do you always ask me my age when you hear me discuss these issues? ”

"Probably ......"

Without waiting for Gao Geli to answer, Chen Jie continued: "This is a question of mine, and I intend to answer it myself. ”

"Oh, oh, then you go on...... "Don't say it, Gao Geli is quite competent.