Chapter 268: Sugar Mom's Parenting Sutra
"Oh, what's there to admire, when I go to train a parenter, this is all within the scope of training, these are all parenting common sense, we as a parenting teacher must know these common sense well, so that we can be called a competent parenting teacher!"
"Well, that's right, but I still admire Sugar Mom!"
"Momo, don't always look at my mother with admiration, I will slowly raise myself to the current realm of my mother, and when that time comes, you will have to use the same expression to me."
"Hehe, let's talk about it when you get to that realm!"
"Oh, you!"
"Sugar Mom, you go on, I'm listening attentively now."
"Momo, do you know, especially the nine-month-old baby is particularly interesting, because the nine-month-old baby has more and more knowledge of the outside world, and the understanding of his own body has also begun to develop from the first body part of his body from about seven months to the current two to three body parts, and the game can continue to stimulate the baby's vision, which can not only expand the baby's field of vision, develop his observation, but also enhance his self-perception."
"Well, let's talk about it, what's next?"
"Why are you in such a hurry? I'm an expectant mother, and I'm not as anxious as you. β
"Oh, don't mess around, Sugar Mom continues."
"Oh, the nine-month-old baby's curiosity is super strong, and at this time, he has begun to have the desire to scribble, and likes to imitate other people's actions, although the baby is not very regular, but in fact the baby has its own thinking positioning, when the baby sees the pattern left on the paper, it will produce a sense of pride, so at this time, parents can help the baby to recognize a variety of different graphics, and then can encourage the baby to copy the simple graphics, that is, so that the baby can follow the given graphicsAlthough the game is very simple, it can exercise the baby's upper limb strength, as well as hand control, and can also promote the baby's image perception. β
"Wow, this is better, this can get up early to exercise the baby's painting ability, so that the baby can create in painting, well, I like this, I especially like to paint when I was in school, my child, I must exercise him in advance, let him get in touch with painting earlier, let him fall in love with painting."
"Hehe, Momo, your attitude is a 180-degree change, the child has not been born yet, and you have considered the future of the child, oops, it's time for me to admire you."
"Oh, Sugar Candy, it's a matter of time."
"It's a good thing to give a baby a toy, but what the baby needs most is educational toys, the game is the nature of animals, from primitive mammals to higher animals, human beings can find the ability to learn quickly from the game. For example, two lion cubs play with each other so that they can catch prey in the future, and two kangaroos play so that they can run faster when avoiding predators in the future. Therefore, although the game is based on play, but at the same time you can learn a lot of knowledge and ability while playing happily, which is far better than specialized, deliberate to learn, the effect is much better, the baby is the same, can learn in the game in the future, every ability needed, with the number of games, the increase of patterns, the baby's brain structure is gradually improving. There are games to have toys, and in a wide variety of toys, educational toys are the greatest help to the baby's growth, educational toys mean that the baby can develop intelligence in the process of playing. This kind of game can stimulate the development of the baby's sensory function, such as some brightly colored, tortuous lines of toys, can make the baby visually stimulated, and will make sound toys, and can make the baby visually exercised, educational toys can also help the baby practice social activities, by playing with toys with peers, the baby can unconsciously develop their own social relations, learn to get along with others, and prepare for the future integration into society, in general, educational toys are an effective tool to assist children to understand the world and adapt to society. β
"Wow, I have so much to learn, and it's so useful for me that you gave it to me."
"There's a lot more, and when I have the opportunity, I'll tell you slowly."
"Mom, then tell me which toys are more intellectual."
"There is a bell, the bell can stimulate the development of the baby's vision, touch, hearing, and even taste, baby, when holding the bell in your hand, you can feel the touch of holding it in your hand, and use your eyes to see the color of the bell, which can promote the development of your baby's vision. Shaking the bell can promote auditory development, and some non-toxic bells are specially designed for babies and toddlers, and even give your baby a taste of toys. β
"I have a bell at home, I bought a few of them, what else?"
"The small leather ball, the small leather ball is also a very good educational toy, the small leather ball, can help the baby to speed up the development of limb coordination, visual development, hand muscle development and logical thinking development. In the process of playing with the ball, the eyes will move with the movement of the ball, so that the baby's vision is exercised, in the process of the smallest ball, the baby has exercised the ability of limb coordination, if the ball falls under the table, under the stool, the baby has to find a way to climb in, or go around to get the ball back, which exercises the baby's logical thinking ability, and constantly take the ball, take the ball, throw the ball process, but also exercise the baby's hand muscles process. β
"Hmm"
"There are building blocks, in the process of the baby's growth, the most contact should be the building blocks, through the building blocks, the baby can know a lot of graphics including squares, circles, triangles, but also know red, yellow, green and many other colors, some of the building blocks will be marked with simple English letters, so the baby can also unconsciously cultivate interest in English, the process of stacking building blocks, but also exercise the baby's thinking ability and limb control ability. There is also a stacked cup, for a slightly older baby, the stacking cup is a magical toy, can be folded into a tower, and can be shrunk into a single cup, but also small blocks or other small things hidden in the cup, and then look for it, this game can let the baby know that although some things are invisible, but they are real, can change the baby's single way of thinking, expand the baby's thinking horizons. When the baby is a little older, the mother can read to the baby, that is, bedtime stories, the game skills of reading books train the baby's single-minded attitude, and can train the baby's vision and hearing at the same time, in the process of the mother reading the book, you can also ask the baby to repeat simple short sentences, exercise the baby's language ability and memory ability, the story is intrinsically logical, so read books to the baby, but also exercise the baby's logical thinking ability. β
"Oh, reading books is a good parent-child activity, oops, our family should be able to read him a story, that little guy seems to be quite sensitive to stories, sometimes before going to bed I will use my mobile phone to put a short story to him, he listens seriously, as long as there is a small story to tell, he will always lie in bed and move, do not move, listen carefully to the voice in the mobile phone."
"Well, it's very good, keep it up, so that the baby has a sense of the story in his head since he was a child, and this child's habits should be cultivated from an early age."
"Yes, I have a good habit, and I really don't have to worry about adults in my future studies."
"Mom, do you still want it? Say a little more. β
"Then there are many, many more, I won't be able to tell you for a few days and nights."
"Oh, it's okay, you speak slowly, we're all listening."
"Oh, by the way, I just forgot to tell you that when playing games, if the baby encounters difficulties, parents can give appropriate inspiration and suggestions, but can not directly replace the baby to solve the problem, so that the baby can accumulate experience in actual thinking and operation."
"Well, we've all remembered."
"Sugar candy, at this age, you can properly instill some training in numbers in him."
"Oh, I've done this, I usually teach him some simple numbers when I go for a walk!"
"So what do you do? Mom, tell me quickly. β
"In terms of training the baby's mathematical intelligence, as a parent, don't worry, take your time, don't use too many numbers at the beginning, you can only practice one and two at the beginning, spread a piece of paper on the bed, put the broad beans on the paper, the mother and the baby together to pick up the broad beans into the bottle, when the baby with the fingers to gradually put the broad beans into the bottle, the mother should count one or two on the side, and count each two pieces. Practicing picking up things with the index finger and middle finger and putting them in the bottle can exercise the baby's ability to control his fingers freely, and can also cultivate the baby's ability to count. Fava beans are still relatively difficult to digest for babies at this time, so it is recommended that parents take them away in time after the game is over, so as not to choke on the baby and cause danger, or you can also use soft objects such as marshmallows to replace broad beans. β
"Oops, these trainings are really so interesting, I really haven't tried it for Xiao Shula, after I know it today, I must play games with our family, I always feel annoyed before, I feel too naΓ―ve, so I always don't want to play with him, oops, I really regret thinking about it now, it seems that I really have to play with Xiao Shula in the future."
"Playing parent-child games with children is not naΓ―ve at all, playing games with children can promote the relationship between parents and children, and can also develop the baby's brain training, what a wonderful thing, you will feel annoyed."
"That's right, Sugar Candy, if you get annoyed, I'll come to accompany me, I think it's very interesting to hear Sugar Mom say."
"Don't you know? Part of the baby's smart brain is born from nature, but more importantly depends on the cultivation and training and development of the acquired, so the baby's cognition in all aspects is inseparable from the parents, so it will be said that parents are the first teachers of children, and they are also the most important teachers. β
"Well, I agree with that,, you go on, I want to know every aspect about kids."
"Oh, then I'll tell you now, the baby's right brain development training, the baby is generally about ten months old, more interested in recognizing graphics, images, and even can combine graphics to recognize simple Chinese character space, a stronger sense of orientation, can clearly distinguish up, down, front, back and other directions, began to have a preliminary life self-care ability, and creative ability, like to explore their own puzzled problems, and can quietly think about the problem for a while, hand movements are more flexible, will turn the book, and can learn to walk with the help of parents, Like to help parents, and can use a variety of body language to express their consciousness, so parents should help the baby to practice more thumb and index finger pinching ability, learn more fine movements, and help the baby exercise leg muscle strength, for the next step to learn to walk, you can prepare in advance. Then let's start from the aspect of image thinking intelligence, you can prepare a lot of graphics for the baby, usually familiar objects, train the baby to find out the pictures from different pictures, and stimulate the baby's graphic cognitive ability. At this time, if the baby finds the right one, the mother should give a reward in time, and then find the next one, the baby from a large number of pictures to find out some of the pictures that the parents want, which confirms that the baby has known these kinds of things, parents should often help the baby remember and recognize, more things, so that you can better broaden the baby's horizons. β
"Well, I've really played with Xiao Shula, don't look at him so small, his memory is good, at first I told him a kind of shape, let him find it, slowly I said two to three kinds of shapes, and then let him find it, he can also find those shapes very quickly."
"Well, yes, we're the best, Sugar Candy, it's as big as Xiaoshala, you can take the baby to play with the sand."
"Huh? No, he's so small and ignorant, what if he eats sand in his mouth or gets it in his eyes. β
Parents can always sit next to the baby, play with the baby, you can keep an eye on the baby, and the sand will not get into the eyes and mouth. At this time, parents should take the baby outdoors to contact some new things, and give the baby a space for free development, so that the baby can gradually improve his creative ability in the process of playing. β
"Well, I really haven't dared to try this sand play, but if I have the chance, I'll bring the sand home to play with him."
"That's right, Tangtang, I'm reminding you of one thing, you remember very well, now is the time when the baby's exercise is increasing, so it is easier to sweat, and the clothes are dirty quickly, if the clothes are soaked with sweat, it is not only easy to catch a cold, but also easy to cause dermatitis, so you must often change the baby's clothes."