Chapter 269: Parenting Sutra 2
"Playing games with your baby from an early age can help your baby develop a good habit of being willing to share with others, and your baby can also experience the joy of helping others in the game."
"Oh, it's not easy to be a parent, in order to play games with children, parents have to learn to teach their babies first."
"Yes, this is a must, parents must know it first before they can teach it to their children! Parents should often use body language to talk to the baby, enrich the baby's language intelligence, when the baby can not use real language to represent objects, learn to do a variety of body language, in order to make the baby good at communicating with the outside world, but also to understand the meaning of others, whenever the baby does a body language, to give praise, so that the baby will hear more and more words, more willing to interact with people. ”
"It seems that this parent is the child's first teacher, and it's really not fake at all."
"Yes, this is true, because as soon as the baby is born, the first contact is the parents, so the parents will learn everything they do. At this time, the baby can use his own fingers to carry out a lot of different explorations, and play some finger games appropriately, which can exercise the independent movements of the baby's fingers, and can also exercise the baby's hand-eye coordination, as well as the baby's visual judgment ability. ”
"Mom, you said we were a little talky, and we have been healthy and healthy for 11 months, and we will be one year old in another month, think about it is really fast, as if we were just born yesterday, and today we can already run around the house with a wall, and in the face of the baby who has been a little difficult to pick up, I will even hope that the baby will grow slower, so that I can hug you!"
"Oh, you finally know how emotional you are in this work, so now you realize what a happy thing it is to accompany Xiaoxiao."
"Tangtang, it's not too late to know now, it's still small, you can't walk yet, you can slowly and patiently accompany Xiaoxiao, wait for Xiaoxiao, you can walk, you can run, you want to hug people and you won't let you hug people, so you take advantage of the current time to take more time to accompany Xiaoxiao."
"Yes, I don't want to miss it either, I want to learn every time I grow, so, Mom, you continue to tell me how to accompany the baby after eleven months, how to develop his brain training."
"Well, when the baby starts from the tenth month, the baby's comprehension ability has made rapid progress, and by the tenth month, the words that parents say to the baby, the baby can almost all understand, many babies can also call their parents proficiently, and even call the third relative, and can distinguish one, two, three. Occasionally, you can sort the numbers, and you are also sensitive to the height of the voice, and you will consciously make different sounds, and you will never get tired of it, this month, parents should create opportunities to help the baby recognize pictures and words, tell the baby more stories, let the baby understand every sentence, and promote the development of language and even all aspects of intelligence. ”
"Well, yes, I'm talking about it now, and I occasionally call Mom and Dad."
"Tangtang, you can use the horn to train the baby to learn to use the breath to further promote the baby's vocalization."
"Trumpet?"
"That's right, it's the horn, at this time the mother should sit face to face with the baby, let the baby notice the mother's movements, gently blow the little horn to the baby, and then hand the little horn to the baby, so that the baby can correctly hold the horn mouth, and the mother will blow the baby at the same time, and the baby will learn to blow with the mother."
"Well, it's a simple game."
"Baby, now it is very easy to suck things, but for blowing outwards is not very good, parents give the baby horn, the baby first does is to suck, if the mother to the baby to do the blowing action, the baby will also try to blow indiscriminately, whirring blowing, the sound of the language is very important, after a period of exercise, the baby will control his own breath, so that you can train the baby's vocalization. There is also the need to guide the baby to promote the growth of language skills. When you are so old now, the baby likes to imitate others the most, so the mother should seize this period to carry out more language education, parents should talk to the baby more at this time, use formal language, try not to use children's language, the content of the baby's life is closely related to the phrases, such as the surrounding people, food, the name of the doll and the words of daily life actions. When the baby can pronounce different syllables and intonation, parents should pay attention to the baby's pronunciation practice, when the baby makes a sound, not only to give the correct response, but also to create opportunities, so that the baby has a strong desire to speak, the game of reading nursery rhymes can not only make the baby familiar with the nursery rhymes, but also promote the development of the baby's language ability. Listening is the basis of the baby's speech, between the baby's understanding and expression, there is usually a gap, through the game with the parents, the baby will first understand the meaning of various pictures, and then can learn to say it, but the baby has to learn new pictures, to practice often, otherwise it is easy to forget. ”
"Well, I'll just say, why is our family's memory so bad, I told him what the picture on the card was, and after a while, he forgot about it, it turned out that it wasn't that we had a poor memory, but that we didn't find the right way."
"yes, you need to pay attention to this, because you've been very impatient. Next, I will teach you how to cultivate logical thinking intelligence, first of all, the mother puts the baby's things such as toys, clothes, etc. together with her own things, so that the baby can recognize which is her own, which is the mother's, put the baby's toys together with other children's toys, so that the baby recognizes his own. ”
"Well, this should be simple, it's a little wordy, I'm sure he'll find it out at a glance, because of his own toys, he often plays, so it's more familiar."
"Hehe, that's not necessarily, you'll know when you let Xiao Xiaola try."
"That's right, Sugar Candy, just because I often play, so I'm tired of playing, and when I see other people's children, he will definitely go to get other people's fresh toys, so, I think you should be like Sugar Mom said, try it before you know the answer."
"Well, okay, then you go ahead."
"At this time, you can play with the baby where the toys go, which can effectively cultivate the baby's logical thinking ability and judgment ability."
"Mom now for the baby to find a few toys, let the baby watch, and then hide the toys in different places, you can hide the toys under the pillow, in the box, under the low stool, and then encourage the baby to find, some babies are very careful, from a place to find a toy, will not continue to look in this place, but to change the place to continue to find, the mother can also say the name of the toy, let the baby go to the designated toy. Like this kind of game to find things, babies generally like to play, although the game is simple, but can promote the baby to think and recall, not necessarily where the object goes, by the disappearing object back, can make the baby realize the eternity of things, the baby will also experience the fun of exploration, so the game of finding things is a good game for the baby's brain training. ”
"Uh-huh"
You can also let your baby try to understand the relationship between objects and try to use tools for the first time. Mom and baby play with the ball, and then deliberately put the ball in the baby can see, but can not reach the place, let the baby find a long stick, or let the baby move a small stool, so that the baby can take the ball, if the baby does not know how to do, then the mother can play, the mother to personally demonstrate to the baby, and then the baby will imitate your actions to reach the ball. ”
"But isn't it a bit dangerous on a stool?"
"Oh, your head doesn't know how to turn it, isn't there still you protecting him next to the baby, how can he be in danger, besides, if you think that a longer stick is harmful to the baby, you can let the baby take a small stick to get the ball, this game does not care that the baby can accurately take the ball to you, but to train the baby as long as there is a small stick to take the ball this action on it, if the baby can not get it many times, the mother should help the baby take it, Don't let your baby lose patience. ”
"During this period, with the enhancement of the baby's motor ability, he is exposed to more and more things, his hearing, vision and language skills are promoting the development of the brain, through playing games with the baby, the baby should have a certain understanding of the use of simple tools, so parents should help the baby develop intelligence through games. Before the baby is one year old, the baby should learn to undress, and then learn to dress themselves, when teaching the baby to undress, you can first teach the baby to take off the hat, and then take off the socks, and then take off the clothes, if the clothes have buttons or zippers, parents should help the baby unzip before the baby undresses, or unbutton, because the baby is still young after all, can not unbutton themselves, or zipper, but for the hook and loop on the shoes, the baby can generally open by himself, parents should encourage the baby to do their own things, to lay a good foundation for the baby's self-care ability in the future. ”
"Ah, then, let's learn to put on and take off our clothes, but I think he's still so young that I can't bear to let him do it himself."
"Hehe, what age do you do something, you don't teach Xiao Yu now, when he grows up, his self-care ability will definitely be a big difference with others, and when that time comes, it's too late for you to regret it."
"That's right, Sugar Candy, Sugar Mom is right, it's all for the sake of, and being able to be self-reliant in the future, isn't that what a man should be, so Sugar Candy should let go when it's time to let go."
"That's right, you see that Momo understands this truth, don't you understand it, you damn it?"
"Okay, I'll definitely make some corrections, and I'll definitely make me feel sorry and adapt as soon as possible."
"Well, that's right, the child is like a kite string in your hand, tighten when it's tight, loosen when it's loose."
"Hmm"
"Like a small sigh so big, can also guide him to appreciate and taste the food, appreciate and taste the food will deepen the baby's understanding of different food, and then let the baby taste the food, parents should use words to focus the baby's attention on the name and taste of the food, so as to attract the baby's attention, this game, in each meal can introduce different foods to the baby, and let the baby slowly remember them. In terms of hearing and memory, it is also necessary to develop and train regularly, the mother can properly play some rhythmic music for the baby, and then, hold the baby and shake the body with the tune, encourage the baby and the beat, shake the body by themselves, and repeat a certain rhythm, cultivate the baby's hearing only from one side, is not enough, in order to hone the baby's hearing, the movement of the body is also a very important stimulus, such a big baby, is very sensitive to the rhythm of the music, and will also make different reactions, thereforeParents should let the baby use the body to match the sound to make movements, which not only exercises the baby's hearing, but also improves the baby's musical intelligence and motor intelligence. ”
"In music, whether it is for children, young people or the elderly, it is very beneficial, people who understand music have a good mentality, especially the elderly, as long as they understand music, it is very difficult to get Alzheimer's disease."
"Looks like we're going to have to study music, too."
"It can also help children practice distinguishing different sounds, such as melodica, piano, guitar, drum kit will play different sounds, you can find three for the baby, knock out different sound bottles, or in three same bottles filled with different amounts of water, it will make three different sounds, at the beginning of the mother demonstrated to the baby to knock out a very rhythmic sense of different sounds, and then let the baby to beat by himself, and guide the baby to listen to different tones, at this age the baby especially likes to percussion, In particular, he likes to knock sounds, if the baby finds that the sound made by the object is different when he is beating, he will be very curious, and will try to remember which sound is high and which is low, and can listen to the command to strike. Therefore, the baby's imitation ability at this period is particularly strong, and he may use his small hands to knock on any items that can be touched around him after doing this game, although this game is good, but, sugar candy, you can remember, after playing this game, you must be with Xiao Xiao La all the time, because he may go to contact the TV, refrigerator and other live furniture, then you have to tell Xiao Xiao La, contact with these household appliances is dangerous, and to strengthen the baby's sense of danger and self-protection. ”
"Huh? Then I have to follow him all the time, it's too troublesome, the little guy is crawling fast now, so I don't have to run after him. ”
"For the safety of the child, you have to keep the baby out of your sight all the time, and let him move within your line of sight, so as to ensure the safety of Xiaoshala."
"That's right, Tangtang, for the sake of my godson's personal safety, you will lose your freedom, stay by his side all the time, so that you can cultivate the deep relationship between your mother and son, why not."
"Well, in order to be able to make my son have a smart head, I will definitely do my best to cooperate with him and make him have a happy and beautiful childhood."