Chapter 45: Parents Have Kindness
When Yan Xue heard this, she was so surprised that she almost couldn't keep her mouth shut.
Although it is impossible for people to remain innocent forever, and sooner or later they must understand the meaning of life and death, but this kind of thing at least requires the people close to them to explain to the child in a more tactful and moderate way, rather than a stranger suddenly throwing such a cruel concept to a child who is only three or four years old.
It's no wonder that Deng Chun is angry when he does this, if it were his own, Yan Xue felt that he couldn't hold back his anger.
"The point is, that incident has reached that level, do ordinary people have to apologize to others, help coax the child or something, but we are desperately apologizing, coaxing the child or something, she is good, she is still over there inexplicably asking why we want to coax the child, why are we angry, don't treat the child as a child, the child has the right to know the facts.
Because of this incident, our family completely did not allow Wen Rui to associate with that Deng Chun. Xu Wenrui's father sighed, "We are not the kind of parents who are pedantic and have to let their children make choices according to their own will.
It stands to reason that I am an elder, and I shouldn't say that about a little girl, but I really think that Deng Chun's spirit may be a little abnormal, I am really afraid that this kind of girl will really enter the door, and there will be something wrong in the future! ”
After communicating with Xu Wenrui's father, Yan Xue also didn't know what to say, if what Xu Wenrui's father said was true, then this Deng Chun was indeed more problematic.
First of all, because she didn't want to break up, she changed her number several times to harass her boyfriend's mother, this behavior itself is abnormal, it is not just a problem of being unwilling to break up and not being able to let go of her feelings, and it doesn't even show how deep her love for Xu Wenrui is, but a kind of paranoia similar to pathology.
After all, when ordinary people encounter such a problem, they will first determine whether the other party no longer loves them, or they are forced to retreat due to family opposition, and then communicate with their love object to solve this problem, whether it is to give up, or continue to insist, and strive to reverse the situation, in exchange for support, it is a problem that two people will discuss and solve, and they will not cross the other party who is the same party at all, and directly exert force on the other party's family.
Deng Chun's actions are not so much to redeem the love between himself and Xu Wenrui, but rather to persistently pursue a "non-breakup" result, and may even be a revenge for Xu Wenrui's mother for preventing them from being together.
As for the unpleasantness at the dinner table later, Yan Xue didn't know what to say.
The previous self-assertion not to let a pregnant woman in need of nutrition eat normally, and even said some uncomfortable words, which can also be explained by low emotional intelligence, and then said to the child that everyone will die, this is not only a problem of emotional intelligence, just like Xu Wenrui's father said, her way of thinking and personality are indeed problematic.
Now that Deng Chun's request to comfort Xu Wenrui's parents has been clearly refused, Yan Xue walked back and speculated in her heart about what kind of reaction Deng Chun would have.
She is also very curious, why did Xu Wenrui choose such a girl after breaking up with Wu Beibei?
As soon as she returned to the office, Deng Chun immediately stood up from her chair, it was obvious that she was not in the mood to communicate with Kang Ge at all, and was just waiting for the result of her phone call.
"How? Can you give me the address now? Is it inconvenient for me to go now? She asked Yan Xue eagerly.
Yan Xue shook her head: "I'm sorry, Xu Wenrui's parents said that they understood your kindness, but in this situation, they are not very suitable for entertaining guests." ”
"They're either unfit to entertain guests, or they simply don't want to see me, right?" The eager expression on Deng Chun's face gradually faded, his expression became indifferent, and there was even a bit of ridicule in his eyes, "I didn't expect them to be such unreasonable people, it's really disappointing to me!" To be honest, I want to see them, express concern and comfort, this is all based on the previous relationship between Xu Wenrui and me, otherwise, why should I bother to ask for hardship, do you think I don't know their attitude? ”
"Then since you can already expect it, let's understand them more, after all, when this kind of thing happens, the most painful thing is the parents!" Yan Xueming knew what kind of relationship between Deng Chun and Xu Wenrui's parents was, but he deliberately persuaded Deng Chun with an attitude of special understanding and consideration for Xu Wenrui's parents.
When Deng Chun heard this, he was really unhappy: "How do you know that the most painful ones must be them?" Could it be me? ”
"You're so ...... Maybe it's not quite right, right? As soon as Kang Ge heard her say this, he smiled, and the tone of his voice was the same as that of Fang Cai Yan Xue, "Xu Wenrui's parents, for so many years, have worked hard for their children and paid so much, as a girlfriend, being with Xu Wenrui is a love affair, this ...... It's really incomparable! ”
"Why can't there be any comparison? You are not right! Deng Chun became even more annoyed, his originally bloodless face was angry, not only did not turn red like everyone else, but became even more blue because of displeasure, "I originally thought that you were about the same age as me, we are all young people, and our thinking should be more advanced, and we will not be so old-fashioned!" I didn't expect you to open your mouth and shut up, and it's also this kind of parental gratitude! What a disappointment! ”
"That'...... What's wrong with the parents' kindness? Any questions? Our parents gave birth to us and raised us, can there be no hatred without grace? Kango asked with a smile.
"Whether there is a grace or not, it depends on how they do it! It's not about giving birth to a child and raising it, it's called kindness! That's called obligation! After all, it was their own choice to give birth to their children, and they need to be responsible for their own choices! Deng Chun's voice rose with her emotions, and she didn't seem to realize it herself, "But lovers are not!" Lovers are not related to each other, just because they love each other and walk together, every bit they pay should be grateful to each other! Do you understand!
Do you know what Xu Wenrui's parents usually treat him? Do you know how much I usually pay for Xu Wenrui? Do you know what Xu Wenrui's feelings are for his parents and what he is like for me? You don't know anything, so don't talk nonsense there and jump to conclusions! ”