"Yo? Listening to this, do you know a lot about the situation in Xu Wenrui's house? Kango was surprised, "I thought you two hadn't been together for a long time, and you might still be in a period of love that retains a bit of mystery." ”

"The degree to which you know a person is not something that can be measured by time." Deng Chun was unconvinced and argued, "Some people guard each other for a lifetime, and when they are dying, they can't even tell what the other party likes to eat and what color they like." Some people may have been together for a short period of time, but they have become each other's soul mates!

You can't imagine how compatible Xu Wenrui and I are! The two of us are like two pieces of a puzzle next to each other, and the patterns and shapes may be different, but the two of us are the best fit!

Xu Wenrui's parents just gave birth to him and raised him, but in fact, they didn't understand him at all, and they didn't try to do this, their existence was a burden for Xu Wenrui, and they made Xu Wenrui live a very hard life! ”

"So serious? What did Xu Wenrui say to you? Yan Xue asked.

"yes, didn't he say it, can I still be able to read minds?!" Deng Chun probably felt that Yan Xue and Kang Ge were on the side of Xu Wenrui's parents, so he also brought emotions to the two of them, "Don't look at Xu Wenrui in front of others, he always seems to be very energetic, especially confident, and always looks like he is winning, but in fact this is not the case."

When I first met him, I thought so, I thought he was the kind of pride of the sky, he should be the winner of everything, especially chic and free, and after being together, I found out that it was not like that.

I know what you think of me, you must have heard about Xu Wenrui and that Wu Beibei, right? In the past, when the two of them were together, everyone thought that the two of them were some kind of golden boys and girls, born as a pair, they looked very eye-catching, and they were a special match, and then the two of them separated, Xu Wenrui and I were together, what others said, I don't know. ”

"What do people say?"

"They said that Xu Wenrui was dumped by Wu Beibei, so he was hit and hurt his self-esteem, so he simply gave up on himself, feeling that beautiful girls were unreliable, so he simply stayed with me and looked for me to have a sense of security."

Deng Chun snorted coldly, with disdain on his face: "There are more ugly things to say than this, I know them, but I have ignored them, and I have never taken them to heart."

At the beginning, I was with Xu Wenrui, and I didn't need others to say it, I felt a little puzzled, I didn't know how Xu Wenrui, who was so good, handsome and handsome, chose me?

But then the two of us really got together, and after getting along more, I began to understand Xu Wenrui more and more, and I also began to understand that he should be with me, and the two of us are a match made in heaven.

He is such a handsome person, he doesn't need to find a vase to come back to fill his façade, what he needs is a warm harbor, someone who can let him let go of all his burdens and get along easily.

I know I'm not as beautiful as that Wu Beibei, but what I can give to Xu Wenrui, Wu Beibei can't.

I am a competent listener, a good green leaf, I know that you may think I am humble, but the objective facts are there, I am not as good as Xu Wenrui, I can't sing, I can't play the guitar, I don't have his talent, I am indeed inferior to him, but I am a green leaf and listener, which is exactly what he needs the most, and no one can replace it. ”

When Yan Xue heard her say this, she couldn't help but be a little curious: "Then don't you mind if I ask, how do you and Xu Wenrui usually get along?" What do you mean by this green leaf? Is it just physical or something else? ”

"Otherwise, how about we start the story? Otherwise, there is no beginning and no end, and I feel uncomfortable listening to this! Kang Ge made another proposal, "Since you have come here, you shouldn't be in a hurry to see this posture, let's just start with how you and Xu Wenrui started, who chased first and who started to talk?" ”

Yan Xue was a little skeptical that Deng Chun would be willing to recall her and Xu Wenrui's love process in such detail at such a time, thinking that she might refuse Kang Ge's proposal, but Deng Chun nodded happily in agreement.

"There's nothing that can't be said about this," the original faint anger on her face disappeared quickly because of this topic, and there was even a bit of untimely sweetness and shyness in her tone, "I chased Xu Wenrui at the beginning, and I have always liked him very much, but before he was with Wu Beibei, my moral bottom line is still very high, unlike some people." ”

She pointed out something, and quietly rolled her eyes by the way, Yan Xue and Kang Ge pretended not to see it and didn't ask.

Later, Xu Wenrui and Wu Beibei broke up, and they didn't spread this matter to outsiders, it wasn't that Wu Beibei didn't want Xu Wenrui anymore, it was Wu Beibei who he dumped, but because Xu Wenrui said it angrily, but Wu Beibei agreed too happily, Xu Wenrui felt that he was hit, his mood was not good, and the whole person was a little depressed.

I used to like him, so I have been paying more attention to his situation, seeing that he was not in a good state during that time, and he was also a little haggard and embarrassed, so I took the initiative to go to him, express my concern, and take care of his life.

I don't know what you think of me, have you heard anything about me from others before, I'm actually a more direct person, don't look at me as thin and weak, it looks like I'm quite timid, in fact it's not like that, I'm a very courageous person, I'm sure I like someone, then I will take the initiative without hesitation to express my feelings! ”

"Well, that's good!" Kang Ge gave Deng Chun a thumbs up, "I appreciate people who are brave and frank in their feelings!" ”

This sentence was obviously heard by Deng Chun, and she smiled at Kang Ge: "That's how I am, so I like Xu Wenrui, he broke up with Wu Beibei, then I will chase him openly!"

What do they say I chase Xu Wenrui belongs to taking advantage of the void, I admit that Xu Wenrui's state at that time was indeed not very good, but I don't think it is called taking advantage of the void! Xu Wenrui was just not in a good state at that time, and it didn't mean that his brain was broken!

In the final analysis, he still realized the benefits of being with me, and found that this is the state of life he wants, after all, in love, the one who is cared for and taken care of will be happier!

When he was with that Wu Beibei, that Wu Beibei couldn't do anything, he helped him wash a pair of pants, but he broke his fingers, and he had to cry and cry and play tricks, and asked Xu Wenrui to coax her.

After being with me, he was afraid of unhygiene, and he didn't want to take the clothes washed outside the laundry room, I was helping him wash them clean, he was a person who had no concept of eating, what to eat for three meals a day, although I didn't do it in school, I also arranged it for him well, to ensure that it was delicious and nutritious. ”

"So, after you and Xu Wenrui are together, you will take care of everything in his life? Such a matter of details is Zhang Luo for Xu Wenrui, like this...... Doesn't it feel hard? Yan Xue asked.

She is sincerely discussing this issue with Deng Chun, because from the perspective of her own personality and concepts, it takes a lot of energy to just take care of all aspects of herself, not to mention taking care of herself from head to toe in addition to taking care of herself, Deng Chun's actions made her feel extremely surprised and difficult to understand.

"How can it be hard to do something small for the person you love? I'm really happy! Deng Chun also looked at Yan Xue with a puzzled expression, "Do you think so, haven't you really loved someone until now?"

I think you must have never been in a relationship, or you have never been in a relationship, and you have never had the feeling of liking someone from the bottom of your heart, because that person appears in your life and makes you feel that your life has become complete!

I think we are actually looking for a sense of value all our lives, maybe some people will feel that their value is reflected through work, through study, and so on, in fact, no matter what it is, what we want to prove is nothing more than one thing - we are needed, as long as we are needed, we have value.

You can choose to get up early and work overtime every day to make your boss feel that he needs you, or you can study hard all the way to make your parents feel that they have to count on you if they want to glorify their ancestors, and make your teacher feel that his college bonus needs to count on you.

After listening to this, you must think that it is normal, and you will not feel that they are tired and worthless from studying and working hard.

But I'm the same! I paid for Xu Wenrui, he felt happy because of my dedication, felt that he needed me, I got affirmation from him, I was also needed, and realized the value, why do you feel incomprehensible? ”

"Classmate, you can't be from the philosophy department, right? I found your idea very interesting, one set! Kang Ge sighed, and the tone made it impossible to tell whether it was praise or ridicule.

Deng Chun obviously regarded this emotion as a compliment to herself, she smiled a little shyly at Kang Ge, and shook her head: "You have won the award, I am not from the Department of Philosophy, this is just my purest thought." ”

"So you took Xu Wenrui through such meticulous care and successfully took him down?" Kango asked.

Deng Chun recalled the original incident a little distractedly, and nodded slowly: "Yes, my relationship with the two of us, from beginning to end, is fully committed and very serious, even if his parents' attitude is a little disappointing, but I have never been discouraged, I think as long as Xu Wenrui needs me, even if he is forced by the pressure of his parents, he temporarily hesitates and retreats, sooner or later we can still overcome this obstacle, walk together again, and accompany each other to the end of life."

I have a very clear plan for the future of the two of us, Xu Wenrui is so talented and charismatic, he will inevitably show his strength outside in the future, so what I need to do is to be his most reliable rear support and be his virtuous helper.

He needs a lot of time and energy to work outside, so I will wholeheartedly help him take care of him at home, so that after he works hard, he can have a warm and warm home and a harbor, and he doesn't have to worry about his children or parents.

I think this is very important for a man, a man who is not capable will want his woman to charge forward and carry the economic pressure in the family for him, and a capable man will help his woman block the ups and downs outside, so that his woman can be at ease with her husband and children, run the family very warmly, and educate her children to be smart and versatile. ”

"So your highest pursuit in life is to marry a man, have a child, and take care of a family?" Yan Xue felt a little incredulous.

She doesn't have any bad opinion about women putting more energy on the family, after all, whether it is in the family concept or a strong sense of dedication, it is a personal free choice, and there is nothing to point fingers at.

But Deng Chun's state, no matter how it sounds, seems to have lost himself and intends to completely attach himself to the other party, but when these words came out of her mouth, it sounded quite righteous and awe-inspiring.

"What's wrong with that? From the moment everyone is born, they have their own mission. Deng Chun straightened his waist, "You've always seen the animal world, right?" In many species in nature, males are more beautiful than females, and they need to go out to occupy the land, and they need to work hard outside to feed, and the females are responsible for laying eggs, hatching eggs, and reproducing. This is the law of nature and cannot be violated. ”

Yan Xue turned her face away and pretended to look at the wall clock behind her, so as not to be seen by Deng Chun that she rolled her eyes.

A good man in nature is more beautiful than a female! In addition to humans, females are more powerful and more powerful than males.

A good male is hard at work outside, and if there is no team of female lions to hunt, the ghost knows how long the male lion can go hungry!

"Listening to you say this, you really take good care of Xu Wenrui in terms of his life, but don't you say that your value is reflected in the fact that you are a good listener that Xu Wenrui needs the most? How do you say that? Kang Ge seemed to be very receptive to Deng Chun's statement, and continued to inquire about her with great interest.

"To be a good listener to him, of course, is to listen to him say something from his heart, the reason why he doesn't say it to others, but he can open his mouth to me, is because I feel a kind of relaxation here, which is just the opposite of the kind of pressure his parents gave him, so he told me that he didn't have to worry about me accusing him in turn, he could express his emotions normally in front of me and be his own appearance, not the perfect son with a mask in front of his parents."