"Hearing you say that, it feels like Xu Wenrui is not easy!" Yan Xue was surprised, "What I learned before, I thought he was a proud son of heaven who didn't have any troubles, the so-called 'other people's children'!" ”

"Yes! I'm not surprised that you would think so, after all, I didn't think so before. Deng Chun sighed sadly, "It's because after being with him, I know about his unknown hardships, so I feel more sorry for him, and I want to be good to him, so that he doesn't have to bear so much pressure alone."

Xu Wenrui's parents have liked to set him all kinds of goals that they think are right since he was a child, not only that, but also especially like to compare him with others, if he wins, it is a good baby for his parents, and he buys toys and takes them out to play, coaxing him with good food and drink, so that Xu Wenrui feels that he is particularly favored by his parents.

But if you accidentally meet each other's children who are better and more showy, then Xu Wenrui will be miserable, and he will have to be left by his mother every day when he goes home, as if there is no place to see from head to toe, and it is not good anywhere.

Xu Wenrui said that he slowly understood a truth at that time, only when he was better than other peers around him, his mother would love him, like him, would he be very good to him, and he would live more comfortably. ”

"Then if you say that, Xu Wenrui should be doing well, after all, he can sing and dance, and he should be in the limelight in the circle of his peers, right?"

"Yes, Xu Wenrui is because he understands that truth, so he began to find the most beneficial path for himself, he found that he is quite talented in singing and dancing, although he may not necessarily win compared with other people's majors, but he may not necessarily lose, and ordinary people are more prominent, plus he is tall and handsome, so every time as long as he has talent, no one can easily surpass him in his parents' circle of relatives and friends, so that he can win more easily.

He said that he called using his own strengths to compare the weaknesses of the other party, using the easiest way to be in the limelight, to achieve the best results, to get himself better treatment, and to make his parents feel that they have face in front of others. ”

As soon as Deng Chun said this, Yan Xue remembered the feelings of Xu Wenrui's counselor before, and the counselor regretted that Xu Wenrui spent so much time on spare time, which caused his studies to be affected to a certain extent.

Now combined with Deng Chun's words, it has become easier to understand.

"Xu Wenrui is very good-looking, if I have to say that I am not particularly satisfied with him as a person, then this is it. But I don't think he wants to save face, I feel sorry for him and always refuses to make himself easier, no matter what he does at all times, he always thinks about what others will say about his actions, which is too tiring.

He himself felt tired, but he couldn't get rid of this inertia, he said that when he was with me, I always simply admired him, and tolerated him, and would not point fingers at him, and would not force him to do anything, so it was very relaxing and comfortable to be with me, and I could relieve the pressure brought to him by his parents and make him feel less hard.

As a result, his parents didn't think about their son at all, their minds were full of their own face, they didn't expect their son to find a suitable partner for him, they only thought about how to earn face in their circle of relatives and friends! ”

"People, no matter how selfless they are, the starting point for thinking about problems is still themselves! There is nothing surprising about this. By the way, when did you and Xu Wenrui break up? After expressing his understanding to Deng Chun, Kang Ge suddenly asked.

When Deng Chun heard this question, her eyes were a little fluttering, and then she chose to turn a deaf ear to Kang Ge's question, and said to herself: "Before Xu Wenrui and I were together, because of the breakup with Wu Beibei, it may have affected the mood a little, so the state was not very good.

After being with me, I took good care of him, and his state was really visibly better, his complexion became better, and he was more confident and high-spirited! As a result, his parents made trouble and kept trying to break us up, which made Xu Wenrui feel pressured, and for a period of time, Wu Beibei harassed him again, which made him emotionally affected.

Xu Wenrui is really pitiful, he carries so much pressure and emotions alone, if I can always be by his side, he will definitely maintain a good state, maybe he will be fine now, nothing happens. ”

"Why do you think that Xu Wenrui's accident will be related to his mood and state?" Yan Xue asked.

Deng Chun was stunned: "I...... I also heard what others said, and there were all kinds of things to say, some said that he committed suicide, and some said that he killed him because he was jealous, and I didn't know who to believe, so I thought that this matter was probably related to his state and the pressure on his body, isn't it? ”

"There's nothing wrong with that, so I'll just ask." Kang Ge grinned and didn't answer the question directly, "So after Xu Wenrui broke up with you, did he get back together with Wu Beibei?" ”

"Nope!" As soon as Deng Chun heard this, he immediately denied it in a strong tone, "He is a smart man, how could he trip twice in the same pit?" Wu Beibei, who he got rid of, was just because of his self-esteem, so it affected his mood and state, and after being with me, he realized what kind of relationship he really needed!

Is that Wu Beibei talking to you guys? She said that Xu Wenrui broke up with her and got back together with her? What nonsense, full of lies! When love dies, it's the same as when people die, except for a thought, life will definitely not come back! Xu Wenrui can't be confused by her kind of girl anymore no matter what! ”

"What kind of girl is she? Confused? Yan Xue heard a little bit of the way from this, "Listen to what you mean, is there any next time for Wu Beibei's behavior?" What kind of girl is she? You said that she confused Xu Wenrui before, what did you mean? ”

"Nothing, isn't it just a man, sometimes no matter how smart you are, you will be stupid, you will be confused by the beautiful face on the surface, you think that if you look good, you must be good, I never thought that it is possible that a girl with a beautiful face is actually more than just a straw bag problem, it is already rotten!" Deng Chun said with some hatred.

After finishing speaking, she glanced at Yan Xue and was slightly stunned, as if she realized that the blow of her words was a bit wide, so she said to Yan Xue again: "Don't think about it, I didn't say you, you are a policeman, it must be different!" ”

Yan Xue smiled and didn't answer, Deng Chun's reason for forcibly taking himself out of the scope of the blow is really far-fetched enough, but it doesn't matter at the moment, let alone taking himself out of the far-fetched way, even if he even says it himself, Yan Xue can't pay attention to it at all.

"Then after you broke up with Xu Wenrui, do the two of you still have contact in private?" She continued to ask Deng Chun, "How much do you know about Xu Wenrui's recent situation before the accident?" ”

He ...... Status...... It's good......" was asked by Yan Xue, Deng Chun's eyes flickered again, "He's been very busy lately, after all, before graduation, he always has to find a way, his parents have such high requirements for him, and his pressure is not small at all, so he must be busy for employment after graduation, and he can't participate in many activities as much time as before." ”

"Then after you broke up with Xu Wenrui, if you didn't take care of him as much as you did, would he still be able to take care of himself?" Kang Ge asked Deng Chun half-jokingly, "Didn't you hear Zhuang Fukai say that Xu Wenrui was very embarrassed after breaking up with you?" ”

"Zhuang Fukai? Why should I ask him about Xu Wenrui, I met him two or three times when I went to Xu Wenrui's dormitory, and I didn't know each other! Deng Chun's statement to Kang Ge was a little inexplicable, "I take care of Xu Wenrui, that's because I like him, love him, I'm willing, I think it's very sweet!"

He accepts my care, and that is also a way of responding to my feelings, how can you make him feel like a waste! I can't accept that you say that about him, not before, and even more so now that the dead are greater. ”

"Yo, I really didn't mean that! It's me who said something inappropriate, and I apologize to you! Kang Ge looked apologetic, and immediately apologized to Deng Chun in a sincere tone.

He had already said so, and Deng Chun was naturally embarrassed to stretch his face, and shook his head lightly to say that it didn't matter.

Yan Xue watched Kang Ge and Deng Chun ask and answer on the side, and when the words of apology over there were finished, and the apology was accepted, then she spoke, looking at Deng Chun while asking her: "I have a question, if I offend you, I am indeed unintentional." Why do I think you don't seem to be particularly sad when you recall your relationship with Xu Wenrui?

Well...... It doesn't seem accurate to say this, I mean, from the beginning of what we talked about just now, until now, I think you are sad and sad because the two of you didn't get together in the end, and you didn't get married and start a family after graduation, for Xu Wenrui's death...... You seem to be quite calm and calm, right? ”

"What if it weren't?" I thought that this question would make Deng Chun furious, but I didn't expect her reaction to be very calm, "Am I going to martyr Xu Wenrui, so as to prove that my feelings for him are true and very deep?"

I don't think I'll be able to love someone so wholeheartedly in my life, after all, the power that everyone can use to love others in their life is limited, and if they run out, they will be gone, and they will never be able to get it back.

I am indeed very sad that my relationship with Xu Wenrui was surrounded and stifled by his parents, because this is completely avoidable, if Xu Wenrui is still there, then there is still room for maneuver, and now there is no hope at all, so I am sad.

Xu Wenrui died, and I was also very painful, but we once truly loved each other, our past feelings, our good memories, this is something that death can't take away from me, even if Xu Wenrui is dead, the happy memories he brought me will always be stored in my brain very vividly, no one can erase it, no one can take it away. ”

Kang Ge heard Deng Chun say this, shook his head slowly, and applauded: "I still say that, you are really suitable for studying philosophy!" ”

Deng Chun seemed a little embarrassed by Kang Ge's praise: "Really? Maybe I do have a talent for that, and it seems that in the future, I should find some books on philosophy, systematically study and improve myself. ”

Before leaving, Deng Chun left his contact information to Yan Xue and Kang Ge, saying that if there is anything else that needs her help in the follow-up, it is absolutely her duty, and before leaving, she also told Yan Xue that she hopes that Yan Xue can continue to help herself persuade Xu Wenrui's parents and let herself visit the door, so that she can last do something for the person she once loved and care about his family.

After Deng Chun left, Yan Xue exhaled a long breath and said to Kang Ge: "This Deng Chun is not the same kind of person as I originally thought, it seems that Zhuang Fukai's perception of Deng Chun is not very correct!"

But seriously, you seem to have praised Deng Chun twice, saying that she is suitable for philosophy-related work, what do you mean? I don't think it sounds like a compliment to her thoughtfulness! ”

"You don't think it's like praising her for having thoughts, that's right!" Kang Ge smiled slyly, "I want to say, the things related to Xu Wenrui that she told us from beginning to end, and the issues she emphasized, all have a metaphysical flavor - how can there be any objective facts, isn't it just a lot of subjective speculation!" ”

"Good fellows! When chatting with you, you really have to prick up your ears and be flexible, otherwise it is easy to tell whether what you are saying is praise or scolding! Yan Xue deeply agreed with Kang Ge's opinion, and at the same time felt a little funny.

"Neither nor not!" Kang Ge shook his head, "Actually, it's very easy to tell, because when I really praise someone, I will definitely say it very straightforwardly, as for those that sound plausible, it's hard to say whether it's a compliment or a mockery, use the elimination method, remove a wrong answer, and you'll know what it is!" ”

"I understand when you say that!" Yan Xue smiled, she felt that Kang Ge's personality was really the kind that was very pleasant to get along with, at least the communication was very comfortable, effortless, and even a little tacit understanding, "You just summed it up very right, Deng Chun talked about the matter between her and Xu Wenrui, and it felt like he was talking very conclusively, in fact, thinking about it, it was all her subjective emotions, and her own judgment and speculation, the ironclad facts in it, the part of pure dry goods was simply negligible!" ”

"Without the support of facts, it is basically a conclusion taken for granted by subjective feelings, which is called conjecture." Kang Ge was also thinking about this, he supported his head with one hand, his elbow rested on the arm of the chair, and his slender index finger gently tapped the corner of his forehead, "Interestingly, Deng Chun said that she is not familiar with Zhuang Fukai, but Zhuang Fukai knows Deng Chun's character image of 'good wife and mother' very well, and he also coincides with the idea that women should be in the Lord, husband and child, do you think this is quite interesting?" ”