Chapter 27 Thinking about change

Yan Xue felt her heart pound suddenly, as if she had seen that scene at that time.

"At that time, there was a glass plate on my dining table, you know, in that era, a rear glass plate on the table was basically standard, but the glass plate on my table was not polished with rounded corners, so all of a sudden the eyebrows were cracked here, and the blood was all over the face, and the eyes couldn't be opened, my dad saw it, thought I hit the eye, and was scared stupid, so he opened the door and ran out, and then my mother took me to the hospital for stitches, only to find that the eyes were fine.

It was really painful at the time, and now that I think about it, the feeling is still very clear, but it was also a lucky thing, not only did I not hit my eye, but more importantly, through this incident, my mother finally woke up to the fact that all her previous patience not only did not protect my life as those relatives said, but I was also hurt because of her patience.

So this time she chose to divorce very resolutely, and no one could persuade her, especially those who took the child as a reason for persuasion, my mother would angrily question them, beat people, hurt the child, and ran away, what is such a father staying for? Did he really blind one of the child's eyes after keeping it? Those relatives were dumb. ”

Yan Xue was a little embarrassed, for Kang Ge and his mother, because this incident finally made an extremely correct choice in life, on the whole, it is indeed gratifying, but the process makes people feel a little complicated.

"You later chose to take the police academy and become a police officer, is there such an element in it?" Yan Xue suddenly remembered that when the two of them first became partners, they talked about how to embark on this path, and at that time, Kang Ge said that he was confused and filled in casually when filling in the volunteers, and he felt that this statement was unreliable at the time, and now he can probably guess it.

"Yes, that's true." Kang Ge didn't expect Yan Xue to remember what the two of them had talked about, "The process of their divorce was not very smooth at the beginning, so I suffered some hardships for a while when I was a child, and at that time I hoped that I could become a very strong person to protect myself and others."

After my mother took me away from my father, the two of us lived together for almost two years, and met Uncle Lu, who was very good and compatible with my mother's personality in all aspects, and he also dispelled all the shadows and concerns of my mother about married life with his own practical actions little by little, and mustered up the courage to start again.

After that, they had Xiaodong again, and then for some other reason, we moved to W City.

The initial stage of my mother and Uncle Lu's business together was also relatively difficult, adults were difficult, and children would inevitably bear it with adults, and when everything was getting better and better, I was also older, and I had long passed the age of relying on adults in my childhood, and my mother projected a lot of indebtedness to me when I was a child.

My mentality is also similar, after Xiaodong remembers, the family's career has improved from a small to a steady and steady development, she not only has both parents, but also has a good brother, which I longed for when I was a child, but I am not qualified to have, so I also hope that she can always be so carefree and happy.

The result is good, Xiaodong's girl is really happy, and her heart is very good, but she is too simple, ignorant of the world, and does not go through wind and rain, this is the living environment we originally expected and worked hard to create for her, but now that she is older, sometimes we all feel a little conflicted, and I don't know if it is good or bad for her to protect her so well. ”

"This is also a happy trouble!" Yan Xue was also quite emotional after hearing this, and her heart was also full of surprise.

Since meeting Kang Ge, this person has left the impression on himself that he is very outgoing, cheerful and talkative, has no financial burden and life pressure, is more chic and can even be said to be a little carefree, so Yan Xue has always thought that Kang Ge should be a smooth sail from childhood to adulthood, so he can be so calm and confident.

I didn't expect such a man who looks like a beautiful boy to have such a difficult childhood.

The parents in his own family have a deep affection, and the family atmosphere is harmonious and warm, just because there are so many bad relatives who play the role of rat, which makes Yan Xue feel a little panicked and unhappy when she recalls her childhood.

Compared with Kango's childhood experience, his so-called unpleasant memories are too pediatric to be mentioned.

And listening to him talk about that old incident, Yan Xue also understood in his heart why he was more familiar with the road conditions when he went to Y City, and why Lu Xiaodong mentioned that someone brought him and his mother Y City specialties, and his reaction was so cold.

If it were him, I'm afraid he wouldn't even be able to do his coldness, and whoever said "Y City" in front of him would be angry, and he wouldn't want to think back to the days of living there in this life.

So she pretended not to think of this layer and didn't go to confirm with Kang Ge about Y City.

"Then after you moved to W City, your original relatives didn't bother you anymore, right?" Yan Xue asked cautiously.

Although she has not yet faced all kinds of situations in marriage, she has also heard Yan's mother once say that marriage is a matter that needs to be extra cautious, because when falling in love, as long as two people like each other, it is enough, and nothing else needs to be considered, but after getting married, it will become a casual little thing, which can involve relatives and friends on both sides, and it becomes complicated.

And this kind of correspondence and affection between relatives is sometimes like spider silk, which looks thin and light, and vulnerable, but with a stickiness of an evil sect, which can be easily shaken off if you want to get rid of it.

A group of people were able to dissuade Kango's mother from leaving a domestic violence man, listening to Kanggo's meaning, his father was not willing to divorce at the beginning, and the divorce process was very bumpy and tortuous.

"Then they wouldn't dare." Kang Ge smiled, "My dad voluntarily gave up custody at that time, and his relatives over there felt that it was too stupid, especially my grandparents, who thought that how could their grandson be taken away by others, but my dad resolutely refused to fight with my mother for my custody."

Of course, the reason for this is not that he found his conscience and realized his own problems, I remember very clearly, when I was in court, the judge asked my opinion, and then asked the two of them for their opinions, my father said that he gave up custody, and the judge asked him why, and he pointed at me and said, 'This little prince wants to strangle me, I will keep him?' Don't die! ’

So I guess there was a time when I was a kid and the outside world wasn't very good, and there was a reason. ”

After saying that, Kango laughed, as if he had not left any shadow because of that unpleasant memory, and only thought it was fun.

"Your mother is lucky to have the courage to stand up and protect her son at such a young age as you!" Yan Xue was very embarrassed.

"No, what I did at that time was at best an instinctive reaction in the face of threats, and it only resolved my mother's temporary danger, and the one who really solved the problem once and for all was my mother." Kang Ge pointed out, "If she still blindly listens to the so-called advice of her relatives, continues to choose tolerance and forbearance, and chooses to forgive, it is estimated that in the process of growing up, there will be countless conflicts with my father, and I am not sure what kind of character I will be in that situation." ”

Yan Xue was stunned for a moment, and soon understood what Kang Ge meant, but she couldn't say anything other than sighing.

In fact, she also knows very well that the best relatives are certainly disgusting, but for so long, she has been blocked by the other party, angry and angry, and has to grit her teeth to deal with the aftermath.

I am very strong and want to protect the interests of my parents and defend my life circle from being infected, but the weakness of my parents is always a short board, so that the other party has the most favorable point of attack to break through their own iron wall.

It's just that the character of the parents has been weak all their lives, and it is absolutely impossible for them to compromise and surrender, so how to find a balance that can solve the problem is a difficult problem.

"I understand what you mean, but I'm a little overwhelmed, do you have any good advice?" She asked Kango.

Kang Ge smiled: "Of course there is, it's easy to say, just two words - show weakness." ”

Kang Ge saw that Yan Xue was silent, looked like he was in thought, didn't say anything, and drank coffee silently.

"There's a question I don't know if it's appropriate to ask you......" After a while, Yan Xue opened her mouth again and said cautiously.

"If it's appropriate or not, I'll know if you hear it!" Kang Ge replied in a brisk tone, "Don't worry, if I don't think it's appropriate, I won't answer, you don't have to be burdened." ”

"Oh, well, actually, I just wanted to ask, did your stepfather treat you badly?"

"Why do you have such doubts?" This question was indeed unexpected by Kango, and it surprised him a little.

"It's nothing, I just think you said before, you started to live in junior high school, think about it, the first year of junior high school children are only twelve or thirteen years old, still young, unless the conditions do not allow, in order to ensure the child's learning and rest, otherwise such a young child, the general parents will not be willing to send out to live in school...... So I think a little bit too much. ”

"In good conscience, Uncle Lu is still very good to me, after all, you have also seen what my house my mother bought for me."

"I'm not talking about the material things like houses and cars, I'm talking about the spiritual and emotional." Yan Xue hurriedly explained what the point of her question was, so as not to be misunderstood by Kang Ge, "Is he good to you?" ”

Kang Ge smiled, looking at Yan Xue's eyes that were still very bright in the night: "It's good, really." My mother didn't look at the hurt in her first marriage, in fact, she is a more lively and cheerful personality in her bones, and Xiaodong belongs to my mother's innocent version.

Uncle Lu is the opposite, he is the type who doesn't talk much, but he is very down-to-earth, and he knows everything, and the two of us have a good relationship, not so much as a stepfather and son, but more like a year-old friend.

When he and my mother walked together, my mother was divorced with a son, and he was unmarried, so you can guess how much pressure Uncle Lu carried from the outside world alone. It is said that the stepmother is difficult, and the stepfather is actually not much better, and if he disciplines his children strictly, he will be said to be treated harshly by others, too spoiled and obedient, and said to be irresponsible.

Especially after having Xiaodong, the biological and non-biological are put together, how many pairs of eyes are staring, waiting to pick and choose, and find faults, so I started to live in the school when I was in junior high school, and I was also for the sake of more things than less, so as not to cause trouble to others. ”

Yan Xue listened to Kang Ge's answer, and felt heavy in her heart: "I really didn't expect that you are actually quite ......"

"Don't you dare to say that!" Kang Ge laughed, "Let's touch our conscience and say, people live in the present, the past is just the past, as far as my current life is concerned, if I say that it is not easy, it is really hateful!" ”

Yan Xue was infected by his optimistic attitude, and Fang Cai's heaviness was also diluted a lot.

"I heard Xia Qing say before that you gave your family an idea, and then the family opened a new store according to your idea, which is super popular!" Yan Xue suddenly remembered something that she was curious about before she met Kang Ge, "Then you have such a vision and talent for business, why don't you go and help take care of the family's business?" ”

"Maybe everyone has their own aspirations!" Kang Ge thought about it seriously, "I just want to live my life, as for doing business, it doesn't matter if I am talented or not, the important thing is that I am not here."

Comfortably help the family 'guard the country' errand, just hand it over to my stupid sister who is not a weapon, I eat this meal with my own ability, I am very happy. ”

"Well said! Be happy and eat according to your ability! Yan Xue picked up the coffee cup.

"That's right! Be happy and eat according to your ability! Kango also raised his glass and touched her.

After this heart-to-heart conversation between the two people, the topic of the situation in Kango's house was turned over.

At midnight, the two of them took turns to take turns to take a nap and rest, and Lin Zhen did not appear until the next morning, probably sleeping soundly upstairs.

Look at the time, it's almost eight o'clock in the morning, Kang Ge motioned to Yan Xue to get out of the car and set off: "Even if Lin Zhen slept in the middle of the night yesterday, she can still recuperate enough by now, let's go, let's go up and give her an unexpected surprise!" ”