20190922 Sunday companionship

I got up in the morning and gave the little prince a bubble. By 8:20, I was out the door. sent it to the little prince and said that it seems that the little prince went to work today

After 45 minutes, I started to schedule prayers at church.

Pray Wan saw that the little prince said that he was resting today, but he was just getting something just now, and he didn't reply. Have you gone to church? What to eat in the morning (ask this question as always :))

I said, "I've arrived, I've just prayed." I ate a rice ball in the morning, three yuan. I also know what to eat at noon. Look at this big row.

He said, wow~ This is a little greasy

I said, I'm going to hear the sermon, bye

And he said, "Okay, you go."

At eleven o'clock, I said, eat, take medicine. By the way, Maruko, it's okay to date foursome

Forty minutes later, he said, "I've just finished eating."

I said, I'll go home and get some information. On the bus, he called me on video and asked me what materials I was getting, and I said that the books were printed in the big class

When I arrived at the Drum Tower, I said, is it okay to see the four-person date I said?

He said, "Say it again."

Forehead... I said, okay, but my idea went from not being able to to being able to do it. See for yourself the rest (how a little bit of a rejection feeling)

I got into the subway and hung up.

After taking the information, adding clothes, and asking the little prince if he was going to rest, he said, I am going to have a little bit

Faith's Mr. Lou turned out to be a Christian, and chatted all the way on the subway, from the confirmation of the printed sketch to the meeting, the distance from the church, and so on. I told the little prince that he had gotten up. Just now a guy from the factory sent me a drawing to confirm. Then I said I was in church, and I didn't expect him to believe in Jesus too

He said, "Oops."

I said, I usually think he's good-tempered

And he said, "Are you going to bring him in for prayer?"

I said, he's in Yiwu, Shaoxing

He said, okay

I said, "And he's a normal party, so why should I pull him?"

He said, "That's it."

I just feel like there's a connection in addition to work. Promote the smooth development of the work

He said, "Will we still meet in the afternoon?"

I said, "I'm still on my way."

He said, "You're not there yet?"

I said, I'll be there before 20 minutes

He said, "Then you're hurrying up."

I said, I'm going to have a working group meeting in the afternoon

After the meeting was over, and it was confirmed that the piano could not be lent to me, I bubbled up and gave it to the little prince

He said, "Isn't there a party in the afternoon, I'm cleaning?"

I said, let's start the meeting. Bye. (Sister Aiqiong gave me delicious cranberry biscuits, and agreed to bring me some to eat on the morning of the 1st of National Day) I told the little prince that this was delicious.

At half past four, I saw the little prince ask when the party would end

I said, okay. Where to go now?

He said, yes~ Where are you going?

I said, it's good to go to Ning Da (Aiqiong Jiujun Wang Biao went to Meilian Qifeng to look at the curtains, I didn't know that they were going to discuss the marriage process. If you propose to take me a ride, I said that I will stop by when I visit Ningda. ）

He said, why did you go to Ningda again?

I said, nowhere to go. How else do you have a place to recommend to me?

He said, "Sister, where are they going?" ）

I said that he and Wu Qifeng did not have a party in the afternoon, and went back to install the windows. Wait a minute, Wan Biao will go to their house

He said, "Why don't you follow?"

I said, "Why am I going to do it?" I'm still walking around alone

He said, "There's something to eat."

Thinking about it this way, it's not bad, it's good to have someone to accompany you for dinner. I said, let me ask? It was very good to have a meal to eat

He said, "If you have something to eat, you will be energetic."

I asked Meilian if she had anything to eat, and she said that she would definitely have it when she went out to eat. I said to the little prince, it's done, it's done, let's go to Meliana

He said, call sister, what Meilian. If you want to eat, your mouth is not sweet

I said, before I met you, I was called Meilian, okay?

He said that he would call him sister in the future

I said, "Let's have a sister."

He said, "Call my sister."

I said, call you little prince, call her sister prince

And he said, "You have this mouth."

I said, I won't call you husband in the future. You also call me Little Sun. That's it

He said, begging for a beating

I said, "Take the hammer."

He said, I'm going to hit me face to face

I said, then I'll call it again in person, and I won't call it on WeChat in the future. Little Prince, are you busy?

He said, "Okay." It's okay now

Actually, let's go for fast food later, I said. But it's better to be together than to be alone

He said, didn't you go to my sister's house with Wan Biao?

I said, no, there is Jiujun Aiqiong Xinyi

He said, "I'm in Jiujun's car."

Then, Jiujun began to teach me. Have you ever quarreled?

I said, no, why quarrel (I know that both he and Meilian want me to quarrel with the little prince to see if we can reconcile)

Jiujun said that he had to quarrel before he knew if it was suitable

I said, strange, wouldn't it be better not to quarrel

Jiujun said that there is no husband and wife who do not quarrel. Quarrels are also a way to communicate.

I said, we don't even see each other much, where is the opportunity to quarrel.

Why didn't there be a chance,

I said, I work on Monday and Saturday and Sunday. He took a year off for a month. National Day this month

Arjun said she would bring him to the party this month.

Jiujun said, you go to read a book. Fall in love according to the Bible

I said, I don't look. I never married, and I don't read a word of these books

Jiujun said, then I have to watch it now. lest thou stumble and your face is swollen

I said, why is the nose blue and the face swollen?

Jiujun said that this is all the experience of the predecessors, teaching you to avoid detours

I said, every love is different, why listen to someone else's

In the end, it is the same, says Jiujun. Marriage is the grave of love

I said, maybe it's a dwelling. Isn't there love between the two of you now?

Jiujun said that love is not the main thing.

I said, I think I can always be with him

Jiujun said, don't think about it, you still thought that you would definitely not get married before, you forgot. Anyway, don't be too anxious. Understand the people thoroughly before deciding on the marriage. First of all, you must believe it.

Ai Joan said that marriage should be cautious, otherwise it will be the girl who will be hurt and sad. Don't really rush, take your time.

I said, I have something to hurry. I've been walking alone for so long, I'm used to it.

Arjun said that the average boy and his family would want to be faster

Jiujun said, where, as far as you girls will consider age or something, we don't care.

Ai Joan said, well, I think the boy's house will be faster.

Jiujun said, anyway, avoid too much physical contact. Let's talk about it emotionally first. Understand the person's family, character, and responsibilities

Ai Joan said, yes, responsibility is very important

Jiujun said that he is still in the army, right, what is the plan for the future

I said, I don't care, it's his life, I like this person, no other conditions

Jiujun said that this responsibility is still needed.

Ai Qiong said, yes, it's not money or money, it's very important to take responsibility

Jiujun said that all aspects should be understood.

Ai Joan said, list the shortcomings of others little by little.

I said, it's so strange, why list the shortcomings of other people. Making friends is not like this.

Ai Joan said that only if you understand all the shortcomings of this person, you can accept them, and then you can go on.

With reservations, I said, I'll go read the book.

Amused Xinyi, I sent a WeChat message to the little prince to say, (aggrieved)

He said, what's wrong

I said, read the book. Together. This is the task. A couple who doesn't quarrel is not a couple (the head is a mess, what to think and say)

He said, who quarreled. How to read the book. It's not like going to my sister so

I said, we're going to have a fight. Not really. (the central sentence of Jiujun Aiqiong's whole conversation) what are you arguing about. Pick a theme, tomatoes or eggs

He said, clear your mind before you speak, I don't want to pay attention to you

I said, very well, start with this ... (It feels like the atmosphere is weird)

He said, don't look for me if you want to quarrel. I won't

I said, then read the book. xx said, to read the book

He said, read a good book (he thought I was going to read a book)

I said, xx said, to quarrel

He said, "I won't."

I said, okay. Nothing noisy. No one can see it. What are you arguing about? Every time I sit in the xx car, I feel that the road is long

He said, what do you mean by the National Day noise?

I said, "Well, you have to choose a theme." Debate tournaments are similar.

He frowned.

I said, "You say, do you want to listen to the advice of the people who have come over?"

He said, which aspect

I said, like the one upstairs

He went in silence. I said, Little Prince,

He said, "What?"

I said, there are always people who doubt both of us

And he said, What do you doubt?

I said, I can't go on

And he said, Who?

I said, the traitor wants to curse us (haha)

He said, for example, who is this traitor (the thinking of a polytechnic man, catch out the mastermind)

I said, sorry, it's not a traitor, it's an old man, someone who has come over

He said, who is the person who has come? Chen Jiujun? Love Joan? Or Wan Biao, or sister and Wu Qifeng?

I said, no, no

He said, or your girlfriends who have been married?

I said, no, no. Don't think about it. We started installing windows

He said that it is not someone else's question whether we can go on or not

I said, I think too. They said no, I think. To read a book

The little prince has sunk to the bottom, and I said, it's better for me to go shopping alone? If I listen to this, it's not good not to tell you, is it (I really want to leave)

And he said, Where are you? Seeing that I didn't answer, I chased another sentence and spoke. Who are you with

I said, sister's house. Crowd. Let's talk about the sofa. I also talked a few words

He said, what Jiu Jun said to Wu Qifeng just now? Or did my sister Ai Joan also agree?

I said, no. It doesn't matter who said it, I'll believe it anyway (if we really want to investigate, it seems that everyone expects the two of us to quarrel)

He said, OK

I said, I'll tell you at night, play with everyone first

He said, OK

Everyone chatted about curtains for a while, but I didn't expect to start talking about the wedding process. I went to the wrong place. (There is a big gap between the mature them and the naïve me.) The concept of love is the same, and so is the concept of wedding. They are adults, talking about adult topics, but I just think why not simplify. ）。

Xinyi wanted to play peek-a-boo, and I was very happy to accompany her. I hid from her, behind the door, behind the box, under the cloth, behind the curtains, in the cupboard. The heart is so bright with a smile, I took a picture for the little prince,

He said, "Have fun, I'll go eat first." What do you eat at night?

I said, I haven't eaten yet, and they're debating whether to set off firecrackers. I play with Xinyi.

He said, can Ninghai put it?

I said, I don't care about that. Whoever wants it will do it. I don't need anything anyway, so I don't use anything. Kissing time or something.。。 Hey, I'm so tired, this topic is talked about every day and is inconclusive. In the simplest way, it is best for everyone to be relaxed. Thank you for being careful with me (I feel that Qifeng is a little pitiful, taking notes, being asked)

Finally it was time for dinner, Wan Biao proposed to invite us to dinner, it is rare that my friendship with him can be so good before he leaves. Not so 2 months ago. Now I also teach him to climb the wall, take him to Ningda, play table tennis, and be regarded as a skilled teacher. Ate lamb skewers and stir-fry.

After eating, he asked me if I still wanted to go to Qifeng's house to continue the discussion. I said I'd better go. Ai Joan said, it's good that you're here, you can bring your heart. I said Xinyi will go up with me (wrong decision)

Xinyi doesn't want to play peek-a-boo anymore.,I want to see Peppa Pig.。。 I don't have any friends

He said, watch it with her (laughing and crying)

I said, mentally retarded Peppa Pig, I love robot cats

He said, (laughing and crying) It's good

I said, no Peppa Pig. Mentally retarded. I learned chess

Being generalized dozens of times, I can't stand it anymore. sent a bunch of sad faces to the little prince

He can't laugh or cry, play with you

I clicked slowly, and he called me and told me to click in. We played chess while talking, and when we lost both games, he went to roll call.

I was tired, lying on the couch, my heart was noisy, stepping on my stomach. Later, she threw a pillow on her stomach and watched Peppa Pig, and I was forced to listen to them discuss the matter of picking up relatives, leaving someone at Qifeng's house to pick up relatives, and so on

At nine o'clock, I really want to go, they don't have an ending yet. I said, "Oh...

He said, still discussing?

I said, this knot is so tiring. The ceremony has to be simple. It's good for everyone to wait for the newcomer in one place. What do you pick up and pick up?。。 Bored

He said, "It's as simple as you say."

I said, yes. What era, it's still so complicated. What's the point? My ears were calloused. It's so complicated, it's not knotted.

He said, what stupid thing he was talking about

I said, "It was." So complicated, who is happy. No one is happy, why not change. Customs, just add to the blockage. Times have changed so much. Besides, there are such things now. The last time I went to Anhui, they asked everyone to go to the hotel and wait. The bride arrives, and it will be nice to hold it. The new home didn't go to see it at all. Such a toss is all made by yourself. It's easy to get things simple. It's complicated when it's complicated. Disagree, right? Down.

He said, I'll go take a shower first. Wait until you're done washing

I said, I want to take a shower and sleep too. But I'm still sitting here.

Xinyi came over and stuck out his tongue to kiss me, and we took a lot of kissing photos together.

After more than ten minutes, he called the video, and I said yes, someone is with me. I went outside to pick up the video, and Xinyi came running, and I showed her my little prince. The little prince is cutting his nails. Xinyi found that the flashlight of the mobile phone shone on people's eyes, and people couldn't see it. Surprised to take my phone and keep shining it in my eyes, I was happy to avoid her. Led her downstairs, she chased me all the way, and then fell into the mud.

I said, Xinyi snatched my phone and fell

He said, she's fine

I said, it's okay, it's all mud

He said, "Where's your phone?" I didn't break it

I said, "No, it's broken." Haha, iron

He said, "How long will it take for you to get home?"

I said, now he's gone. Reluctantly, reluctantly, thanks to him for the evening

He said, let her go home, you are going home too, are you alone?

I said, with Sister Qifeng. I haven't said yes yet. By the way, I haven't said yes yet. Otherwise, the ending must be miserable

He said, "What didn't you promise?"

I said that if you really marry me one day, the wedding is simple and simple

He burst into tears and couldn't laugh

I say, with others, follow your thousand-year-old customs, 10,000-year-old rituals

He said that when the time comes, we will discuss it, and we can't do nothing

I said, I am indifferent to fame and fortune, and I want to stop talking.

He said, "What do you have to say?"

I said, forget it. I don't know anyway. It's good to get home quickly.

It was 9:50, and he said, "Haven't you arrived home yet?"

I said, no

He said it would be a little longer

I said, I don't know.

And he said, Where is it?

I was so tired that by ten o'clock I was paralyzed. I said, forget it. There is no next time either

He said, what do you mean

I said, I don't have a chance to listen to them discuss this, and forgive me for the last time (they finally get married next week) for my life of indulgence and freedom

He said, how do I feel that you have been sentimental these two days

I said, I guess it's good to go shopping by myself at night, but I was forced to listen to so much.

He said that his mind was always cranky. What to say about you

I say, people should be spontaneous.

He said, yes. I'm going to hand over my phone later

I said, it's just that your family is not casual, I can see it

He said, "You haven't gotten home yet?" It's not that our family is not casual. These should be discussed by both parents together, but do you see what Qifeng's parents have done?

I said, "Let the children decide for themselves."

He said, since they are together and are now ready to get married, have you ever seen her parents appear?

I said that the problem is that the children decide their own and want customs (I have been hearing a few people talk about customs and customs)

He said, and then sister them, and they have never experienced it

I said, what's the use of the new generation having so many customs? Just love simply

He said they could only listen to other people's advice, and everyone was different. It's a mess

I said, if you haven't experienced it, you can use your own courage and follow your own ideas. Is the custom greater than the bride? Bigger than the groom?

I told my mother in the group that I was so bored, and a group of people were tired of tossing by themselves. It's out of power, good night, and thank you for being careful with me.

I told the little prince that I was out of power. 1。

He said that marriage is not a play, it is not just talking

I sent a good night.

When I returned home at half past 10 o'clock, I charged it and saw that the little prince sent it, and the things were discussed, and it wasn't that you thought about how to come, after all, it was about the face of the two families, and the relatives couldn't get over it on their faces, and they would talk nonsense, if life could really be like you are now, it would be good if you could always maintain that childlike heart. So~ Don't think about so many things, let my sister prepare, if you really want to know about these things, you can ask your married girlfriends, you ask them how they do. Okay, I've handed over my phone, good night~

I replied alone that I didn't want to know about these things. Just came back and recharged. I was forced to learn about it twice, and I was depressed. Last time, I was lucky to have you to chat with me, and I went out for a walk. Fortunately, this time I have a heart. Oh, my God. Chen Jiujun's words should not be listened to all. These customs still had the importance in his mind. Washed up and slept. People who are bored with themselves. I'm a Free Fish (My Avatar)

I couldn't sleep all night, and I had a lot of troubles.

Sadly, they are all mature, so they think we are young and frivolous. They don't think it's possible not to fight, and that's not showing their true selves. They feel that they want to quarrel and see the worst side, and if they can accept it, they really accept it. They feel that what their predecessors say is the truth, and if they don't listen to the old man, they will suffer in front of them. When the time comes, the nose is blue and the face is swollen. They feel that they have to list each other's shortcomings little by little.

Meilian said that you have experienced too little, and you have never seen each other encounter a trough. I wish you had experienced something to know the bottom line.

Jiujun said, I believe that I am useless, so I need to go to God.

Then I began to think that if God did not bless and there were many difficulties, wouldn't it be harmful to others and myself. For example, health, offspring, residence. I started worrying about what I would do if my family and I got sick. What to do when he and his family are sick. I know that when my father was sick, my mother never left to take care of him. Will the little prince always be healthy? If one day I am no longer healthy, will I encourage my father like my mother and accompany him through the difficulties?

I don't know how to implement their theories, when will there be a litmus test to prove whether we are suitable or not? So much so that I said to the little prince, are we going to quarrel, what theme to quarrel about, choose one.

He said, I won't quarrel, don't look for me if I quarrel.

Isn't it ridiculous to be "instigated and indoctrinated" many times by people who have come over, and finally become a person who has come over. willow

People worry about the sky and seek troubles for themselves. Even Christians don't know until the day they die if they have been with them all their lives. They see the important condition that the other person is a Christian, and then add other things and choose to be together. I like the little prince and don't care about his external conditions. Maybe this is not the most orthodox Christian view of marriage and love, so if I read the book that Jiujun said, I will only be more bored.

So I think it's a fallacy. I don't read any books either. If life cheats me, it's okay, I still have a lot. Marriage is not the guarantee of love, love is the foundation of marriage

Many people can't achieve it by themselves, so they say that everyone can't achieve it. Don't be naïve.

My experience is like this, friendship and love are connected, especially girls, often tired of being together, sleeping together, and even taking a bath together.

My girlfriends, there is really no quarrel, there is awkwardness. The quarrel is red-faced, and I think you are wrong, and I am right. The awkward thing is that you are still walking together in silence, or you will leave in anger and talk about it later.

Love flowers count as one. Shopping with her kept telling me to wait. Time has to match her. I finally got impatient again and left on my own. She was having fun with other friends, and when she saw that I was going to leave alone, she was puzzled. It was reconciled that night.

Another time, when I went back to the countryside alone during the Chinese New Year, I usually ate casually, and after she returned to the house, she invited me to eat at home for two or three days, and somehow, one day I joked that I didn't eat or drink, and I stayed at her house. I began to be silent and said that I would not come again. The next day was fine, and now that I have returned to Zherong, I still go to her house.

Meiying is one, I love Meiying very much, but she is often with Xiaoqin for a while. So I'm sad. I like her a lot more than I like the violin, and she likes me about the same as the violin. I didn't even contact her for four years in college, but she has always been the first girlfriend in my heart. Sure enough, when the time came, we would be fine, and we would go to see her and her sister when we had time during the holidays.

Liping is one, in order to play a round, when she accused Xiaobin in front of her that he likes to gossip, she said, Xiaobin won't (in fact, he will). When she saw that I was not on her side, she flicked her chopsticks and stopped eating. When I saw her gone, I went too. As soon as I got to the dormitory, I called her, and she happened to call. The two of them reconciled immediately, because she was my friend. She knew I was just here to play the round.

I really can't imagine anything else, Peng Ling Yingying and Meng Xue Meilian have never quarreled, and Apo Pinhui's baby Ronghua has never even been awkward. If you disagree, you should be silent, and if you keep your opinion, you can just keep your opinion. Or put it on hold for now.

That's all for the A list.

Therefore, if friendship is similar to love, it is possible not to quarrel and not to be awkward. Why do you have to say to the little prince for no reason, we need to quarrel.

There is no love that needs to quarrel, only love needs to communicate and understand, and to maintain childlike innocence and concentricity

Except for the queen mother, the second sister, Meiying, and very few people who really seem to support us. There are a lot of people who watch the excitement. The most sorry thing about the little prince is that there are always people who doubt his sincerity. Because I am a 10,000-year-old iron tree blossoming, no one doubts my sincerity, but they question my luck.

I wondered, what would happen if it wasn't made public? No one knows, no one questions it, and when we tell everyone when we get together and disperse, everyone will say, oh, so you've been together for so long. But there's nothing to regret when it's made public. To this day, I'm glad that no matter who I smile at, no matter who comes to add me, no one wants to be crooked. Because the first item in the circle of friends is my little prince.

Now that it has been made public, it can only be questioned.

I used to be questioned a lot more negatively, and I usually followed their hopes, and most people won the bet. It's a bad feeling to be denied. They will use a tone that you don't understand, you're too tender, you're too naïve. You're not qualified, you've experienced too little. How to prove yin can only take time, so every minute and every second becomes not free enough. Assuming no one jumps out and says, you need to have a fight, we don't have to pay attention to it, just let it be.

Oh~ Thinking the other way around, even if they jump out and say that, I can still go with the flow. Yes, let it be. Whether we are good or bad is our choice. To be noisy or not to be noisy is not the point. Valuing a person is not something that comes after you lose it. Understanding a person is not to be white after a quarrel.

Next time someone questions it, I won't tell the little prince, I'll just turn a deaf ear. Big deal, my sister's original plan was not to get married, so don't worry, I'll just carry it out at most.