20190924 Monday is mindless and unhappy

I didn't sleep well all night, so I went to Zhongji for breakfast. I also took a picture of the little prince

I always think about the old man of Jiujun and his wife. At 4 o'clock, I couldn't hold back and wanted to ask what was going on. I asked Jiujun first. I also wanted to ask Meilian, but I withdrew.

I asked Jiujun: Jiujun, to tell you the truth, are you optimistic or not optimistic about me and the little prince. I always feel that few people are optimistic. It always seems to be questioned. In fact, even if you are not optimistic, I don't care. My original plan was not to get married :) I am thankful for a few things, one is that I get along well with my family, and this is the difference he has made. Because I reconciled with my eldest brother-in-law. Second, my brothers and I can talk in a friendly manner, and we don't have to avoid suspicion.

Jiujun said, just don't be impulsive, I want a marriage that is truly blessed by God, so I want you to spend more time pursuing God's will.

I mean, "You mean he's not a Christian." I want to cry when I say this. You always think that you can't be a Christian, don't you :) (I choked up in an instant, Mr. Xu sat opposite, I didn't look over, went to the sink to wipe my tears, took a deep breath, and came back.)

Jiujun said, it's not that it's not a Christian, but God's leadership for everyone is different. Look at this. This Mrs. Yang's article is quite objective, and I agree with her point of view (I sent an article, I don't dare to click on it)

I said, if you look at a person, first look at whether he is a Christian or not, in fact, there are conditions added to love

Jiujun said, yes, so I didn't say that, you can read this article pertinently

I still don't dare to order it, I always feel that what it says is biased to the other side. I said that finding a Christian who thinks that a marriage that God has prepared will guarantee you a lifetime of non-divorce. I think there's something missing.

Jiujun said that there is no guarantee that people are unreliable, so they still have to return to God's presence. I'm not against you being in a relationship, so knowing your relationship, I didn't say anything to you. Then think that since you are here, there are spiritual principles that remind you that I believe you know.

I took a cursory look at the article and said, and the article concludes in one sentence, that is, to become a Christian first. It makes no difference. (Mr. Xu looked up at me wiping my tears, but fortunately didn't ask)

Jiujun said that this is the suggestion for marriage. You have to look at the positive side of the article (I ran to the sink again, and when I came back after a while, I saw that he took a screenshot of "Actually, my answer is not high-end, I hope everyone doesn't stick to other people's answers")

I didn't reply. It's just that Meilian didn't ask.

After work, I eat skewers with my heart and Apo. When I arrived at the crossroads, the little prince called, still saying that the skewers were not good, and I said that you make them for me to eat, and I won't eat them outside. He said where he had time, and I said that I wouldn't eat outside once I did it.

He asked me what I sent in the afternoon and then withdrew, I said that I had ordered a plane to Guangzhou, but Mr. Xu found that the price was wrong, and I immediately withdrew and still took the train. He said, how can you save money for the leader like this. I said that Apo and I were both this kind of people, loyal. So are you

He said that he was taught a lesson by the leaders today

I said, what is right is accepted with an open mind, and what is not right is euphemistically proposed.

He said, I'm going to rehearse later. Now I write on the phone and at the same time

I said, "Do you want to concentrate on writing, lest you make a mistake?"

He said that it had been missed, and it would not be wrong now.

Then I didn't open which pot to mention, and asked, did I buy a ticket from Nanjing to Ningbo? My sister bought it and asked if we wanted to be together

He said, "If you don't come together, will you come back separately?"

I said, it can be in advance, or it can be a little later (nonsense...) ）

He said, you don't have to go to work

I began to smile bitterly, what I said really didn't have logic,

He realized, what did you say you were thinking about these two days? First said what to quarrel, then said that the wedding was complicated, and then today it came out again.

I said, "No."

He said, Who said what? It feels like you're suddenly lifting

I said, "No."

He said, or I haven't been out for two weeks, don't you think it's good?

I said, "No." Where do you want to go

He said, if you really don't want to come to Nanjing, don't use it. It's okay. Go back

I said, uh. No, no, forget it.

He said, go back, the ticket is back

I said, you're the one who drove me away

He said, "Go back, go back." (Then hung up).

I was stunned for a moment, and then typed him, stunned, stunned, is this a quarrel? You see, you look at (decay) don't you want to say it. Okay, okay, I'll go ask a question.

Then I went to ask Mei Lian and said she had a question I wanted to ask.

Didn't reply, phone calls didn't answer

After a while, I asked again, but there was no reply. The call was not answered.

After a while, she called and said that she had just been on the phone with her grandfather.

Asked me what was wrong, I was stumbling for a long time, biting my nails, and saying, the question is, you. Forehead...

Mei Lian said, "What am I?"

I said, are you?

Mei Lian said, What am I?

I said, what, uh, you, you, no, are you not optimistic about me and the little prince (finally said it)

Meilian said, why do you say this, is it who said anything to you

I said, uh,

Meilian said, what did Jiujun say to you in the car yesterday

I said, uh. It's just a good idea and so on. Then I asked him in the afternoon, and then he cried.

Meilian said, don't cry, don't cry, other people's opinions don't matter, the most important thing is what you think

I said, I'm firm, but I'm afraid people won't be optimistic

Meilian said, it doesn't matter if you're optimistic or not. Your days are yours.

I said, in their eyes, you and Qifeng are both Christians, which is God's arrangement

Meilian said, Qifeng and I have come to the present, and we don't know what will happen in the future. You don't think too much about it

But both of them are Christians, and they feel very good and worthy

Meilian said that our relatives are still against this because of this, and they think he is too immature or something

I said, so your wedding is so complicated to reassure your relatives?

Mei Lian said, "That's not it." Weddings are just complicated. You don't know until you do it.

I said, okay, I was wondering if I should go to your wedding. I don't know if it will be said.,Your relatives see me as a Christian when the time comes.。。

Mei Lian said, "Bah, what are you talking about, I mentioned it to my uncle, you are the little girl I usually party with." They know. Why are you carrying these burdens?

I said, oh, that's right. Then you really don't object to it anyway

Meilian said, if I object, why am I so good to you

I said, "Because I'm a sister."

Meilian said, then why did I buy a pendant for Qifeng and me, and I want to buy a pair for you and my brother?

I said, oh. Well, hahaha

Meilian said, I still think that when the time comes, the four of us and my grandfather will go to play in Nanjing

I said, the little prince mentioned four people, and it turned out that there was a grandfather

Meilian said, I'm afraid that your little speaker will leak out in the group. Dad is a little bad in the group

I said, no, I don't say it.

Meilian said, when the time comes, I will arrange the route, and you and your brother will be responsible for taking your grandfather.

I said, okay, I'm in charge of the comics, right?

Meilian said, yes, go back to Ningbo to buy 7609, so that when we get home at four o'clock, the four of us can cook dinner and eat, slowly

I said, okay, I'll wait and buy a ticket for the little prince.

Meilian said, I'll go to moxibustion later. I have a bad voice today.

I said, okay. Watch your voice. I'm going to talk to the little prince

Meilian said, go, go, go.

I called the little prince, and he answered, and I said hi. Haha, don't you want to talk about it.

He said, wait, I'm busy now

I said, how long will it take?

He said, an hour

I said, okay, come back on time

Walking around the neighborhood, he ended up playing two games of chess and was killed to the ground. The little prince called.

I said, "I was killed and all my army was destroyed."

He said that what was killed the whole army was destroyed

I said, what about chess. Do you want to listen to it?

He said, said

I said, "Well, you're this.。。 Are you interested?

He said, "Ah."

I said, uh... Do you want to hear it?

He said, said, you said, (the tone is different, soft)

I said, "Well, you want me to coax you, and it's over."

It's not coaxing, he said.

I said, "Well,, anyway, he said something in Jiujun's car that day, and it's gone now. I just asked my sister too

He said what Chen Jiujun said.

I said, it's, yes, that's it anyway. Kindness.. If you think about it, they don't think you can do it too quickly or something.

He said, Who are they?

I said, uh... Always arresting people.

He said, Tell the truth

I said, "Love Joan." The couple were chatting in the car. Their opinions don't matter. Oh, it's not that it's not important, it's that it doesn't have a big impact.

He said, "Is there anyone else?"

I said, no,。。 Then I couldn't stand it anymore in the afternoon, so I asked him if he didn't like us. Then he said that, and I started crying. (Hahaha) I know his opinion anyway.

He said, I know Chen Jiujun, he and Wu Qifeng are brothers, I embarrassed Wu Qifeng, and he naturally listened to me

I said, huh? Is that the case? It's possible (I understand the hidden meaning of "through the white")

And he said, What is he, to break us apart?

I said, Elder

He said, what kind of elder he is

I said, spiritual elders, Sunday school, oops, elders anyway

He said, I'll have to reason with him later

I said, no, don't go, I've become a gossip. Originally, this stopped when I came to it.,I can't go to the third person.。。

He was silent for a while, and I begged for a few words, and he said he understood

I said that he was actually from the past, so his opinion was very important.

He said, you said that he was from the past, and I understand. I think it's all because you're lazy

I said, how lazy am I

He said, too lazy to use his brain. Whatever people say, you apply.

I said, I'm a fast learner

He said, take the essence and remove the dross, you don't know

I said, haha, got it. Then they say that it's not good not to quarrel, and quarreling can see how a person reacts to the worst situation

He said, then you don't have a quarrel

I said, well, this proposal is a bit strange

He said: The reason for the Sinicization of Marxism is because copying is a mistake, such as Wang Yin's leftist mistake. You should go see that movie. Bloody battle Xiangjiang (I don't know if I heard it wrong)

I said, uh, how did you get on the platform?

He said, I don't have any other requirements for you, just one, use your brain more

I said, if you say this, I'm going to use my brain, I have a good yin and a good head

He said, you're not stupid, I know you're a wall-to-wall grass. When I was there, you could be stupid. When I'm not here, please think about what people say.

I said, "Got it."

He said, "When I'm not with you, do you believe everything others say?" And if there is anything to tell me in the future, don't drill the horns of the bull yourself.

I said, to drill the horns of the bull, also to think. Okay, I know, in fact, more importantly, I thought my sister was not optimistic either

He said, "My sister is my sister, or your sister."

I said, your sister.

He said, she is my sister, will she tell me to separate from a good girl. Even if she doesn't like it, she won't say it.

I said, but didn't you say one day that he suddenly reminded you of that. I thought about it for a moment.

He said he wanted to surprise you. This is because my sister proposed that four people take their grandfather to Nanjing to play for a day, I said why can't four people go to play, my sister said, then you two go to play, she and Qifeng took grandpa to Nanjing to play.

I said, my sister just said, call me a little horn and don't tell the group. Now you can go with five people

He said, I said that I haven't reached the point where I go out alone with Xiao Sun and two people. My sister said that if you two go out to travel alone, you should also pay attention to it before marriage. I said I got it. It's not just a sudden statement, there's still one above. It's just that I want to surprise you, so I won't say anything

I said, huh? And surprise me. It scared the rest of the way, but it was true. So I was very concerned about my sister's inner thoughts, and in the afternoon, I wanted to ask her, but then I withdrew it, and I just asked her again, and she was not there, and finally she replied to me. said, "There is nothing to be optimistic about, and it is useless for him to be optimistic about the two of us." I just said I don't know if your relatives will think I'm a Christian. My sister said no, I already told my uncle about it."

He said, "Our relatives over there are either believers in Christ or they don't, and who will object to this, and you live with me, not with them."

I said, I said I knew. Anyway, the previous brain circuit was. Jiujun is against it, and Aijun is against it too. Several people who discussed the wedding had the same opinion, ah, they were all against it, who supported it, the queen mother and Meiying. Ah, except for the queen mother and the United States and Britain, everyone else is against it, and the whole world is against it.

He said, he said what do you think about all day long, is it because you are not busy enough at work?

I said, no, no, I'm busy. No one came to me, so I lived my normal life. When someone comes to disturb me, my mind is a mess and I want to say one sentence at a time, so I don't have any ideas.

He said that if people say it's not suitable, you think it's not suitable, and whether two people will be together is not because of faith, but because of hobbies and discord

Actually, I said, it will still have a big impact. Because I was a child with my sisters, I was determined to marry a Christian, but now the situation is not like this.

He said, If Christians can only be false Christians, I ask you if the number of men and women in the church is the same,

I said, I know your thinking is different.

He said, "Is your sister a Christian?" and I said yes.

He said, "Is your brother-in-law?"

I said, no, so I used to feel a little bit of a pimple.

He said, "What about your second sister and second brother-in-law?"

I said, they don't count

He said that if your brother is a Christian, your brother's girlfriend is not. Don't you like his girlfriend?

I said, no, I've known her since I was a child. She's a nice person

He said, "Wouldn't that be good?"

I said that in the church, the brothers usually match up at the right time, and that's how Sister and Qifeng started.

He said, "I know." And he is still a matchmaker made by Chen Jiujun, so is he addicted to being a matchmaker now, and does he still want to connect you.

I said, no, no, I think my sister and Qifeng are really good now, and they are arranged by God. You shouldn't object to it now.

He said that I had nothing against him now.

I said, he's really nice. Anyway. Hey, I can't say well, if something happens in the future, if you feel that the original decision was wrong, it will have a bad impact.

He said, what's not good?

I said, there are such things, for example. Kindness.. Can't give birth to a baby, like that

He said, "Is there any basis for what you say, do you have a certificate from the hospital?"

I said, no, but I've seen it before

He said, "What's the situation?"

I said, uh. Well. Then I said it, don't say it. It was my sister who had worked very hard to give birth to a baby after she and her brother-in-law had been married for many years

He said, "Isn't there a baby now?"

I said, but after many years, I don't think it's necessary to work so hard.

He said, don't say it didn't happen. That's what happened. People in our family won't object to this because of this, my mom and dad like you so much, you know.

I said, yes, so I felt that the queen mother and Meiying supported me, so I complained to the queen mother in the group that day. Mi-young is very good, you know, you have to be nice to her in the future.

He said, "Say it again."

I said, you just talk about it every day, and there is no bottom at all.

He said, I haven't seen her yet, how can I be nice to her.

I said, okay, you know her name anyway.

He said, "Yes."

I said, don't be busy at night

He said, "It's not busy, it's okay."

On the opposite side came a woman, dressed in black, her face white and white from the lamp, and her lips red. I pretended to be calm and passed by her, and said to the little prince, "A woman is so terrible just now, I thought I had seen something bad." The clothes were black, the face was white, and the lips were red.

And he said, Where are thou, and hasten home,

I said, I'm going around in circles in the neighborhood, it's dark here

He said, "Go back quickly."

I said that I used to always go home with Mi-young, passing through a bamboo forest, and every time I called her name, she turned the corner, and she couldn't see, and there was still a voice answering me, and I felt that the whole village could hear me shouting with her there. Haha, I inadvertently plucked all the leaves here, and at first gnawed my nails. By the way, did you buy the ticket, we will come back with my sister at that time,

He said, which carriage do you buy, I said 14 carriages 15A, he looked at the ticket and bought 16B, and said that it would be transferred with others when the time came.

I said, okay, let's take this car back then, and my sister said that the four of us had a slow meal last night.

He's going to gather and wash up, and tell me to hurry back home. I had a video chat with the queen mother about buying tickets and her applying a mask. The queen told me to hurry back. I said, I was about to enter the building, and the little prince would be back soon after the gathering.

After hanging up the phone, I found that the key was left in the company, so I contacted Mr. Xu to get the company's key.

The little prince also made a video to laugh at me. I'm not allowed to talk on the road. I went to the company to get the keys, and when I got to the house at ten o'clock, the little prince said to me, good night, and we said goodbye.