"Grandma, that's what you said! Isn't that the reason?

But sometimes, although the truth is understood, but when I really encounter it, I still feel a little uncomfortable.

Indeed, when people reach adulthood, they really change dramatically.

There are a lot of people who are really sincere to him, and people are either taking advantage of you, or they will treat you as a fool.

I used to think that a good person has a good reward, and if you are good to him, he will be good to you.

Only now did I realize that the person who said this was originally a naïve wife.

If you are good to people, you have to divide it into those who know how to be grateful, and they are also the kind of people who know how to be grateful, and Xingyao is not a person who knows how to be grateful.

even said that they have a deep jealousy of you, and even people who have opinions about you.

You are to them, no matter how good he is, he can take out his heart and give it to them, and they will be disgusted with dirty. ”

Han Duoduo sighed softly, wasn't he hurt and betrayed by his best friend like that?

At that time, I was distressed, and I couldn't wait to dig it out.

I figured it out now myself, but in fact, it wasn't that I might have done anything to annoy that woman.

It's the woman! It's just that stack of stuff, and it's useless for you to be nice to him.

"That's a lot! Everyone's growth needs to pay a price, and no one is exempt from vulgarity!

Not only your information explosion, but also all kinds of changes will occur at any time, such an era.

Just like when my grandparents were young, this person's heart is really unpredictable.

If you haven't caught up with those 10 years, if you have to catch up with those 10 years, you will know how difficult it was for us at the beginning. ”

Grandpa Han sighed, no matter who it is, they are all here to survive the tribulation in this world, how can it be really easy?

And no matter what era it is, this human heart is the most unpredictable kind of thing.

Sometimes you don't even know what your parents or even your siblings think, and even those people may not really mean to you.

Sometimes people live in this world, and it is even more difficult to get a person who is sincere and unadulterated to you, even more difficult than to pursue this priceless treasure in the world.

"Grandparents, are you two catching up with those 10 years?"

Han Duoduo cursed that history is unknown, but he also feels that it is really dark and terrifying.

"I didn't dare to go on it too much, we weren't very old at the time, but we had experienced it a little, right?

Therefore, the more you have experienced, the more you know that people have to be cautious in their words and deeds, and no matter who they face, they have to be more mindful!

Sometimes the parents, children, and even husband and wife may betray each other, or even stab you directly for some kind of benefit.

And there are a lot of things that are not the case now. How many people can do anything for the sake of profit?

But even so, grandpa, I don't want to make you a very bad and bad kind of person who specializes in hurting people.

You also know that you are not like that, and you can't do this kind of thing.

Grandpa just hopes that you can protect yourself well, just like what you have done recently is very right, don't go against your heart for the demagogy of those people, or for the so-called crazy words.

All say, this woman will have a backer after she gets married, but I think of your grandfather.

In fact, this woman is more difficult to survive in this world than men, and you women really rely on yourself. ”

If a woman says this or calls her grandmother to say it, it can still make people feel related.

But if a man says it, that's the real truth.

It was only as a man that he knew that they also enjoyed a lot of preferential treatment in the world as men.

At the very least, the family name was inherited by them, and even though they were poor at the time, their parents were very different from the girls.

And this woman will have a hard time whenever and wherever she is.

Especially those women who are not in a good relationship, if they really break away from a relationship, they may have no home on both sides.

It is even said that the divorced woman will become a homeless woman.

Even in a sense, this woman has no home on the day she gets married, one is her mother-in-law's family and the other is her mother's family, and only a woman can't live for herself, and she can't really have her own home.

As for the man, he always has his home, and his parents, especially if there is only one boy in the family, most of them, will make all kinds of plans for the boy.

And this woman is different, even if she really loves her daughter's parents, she just wants her daughter's childhood and youth to be happy, provide them with good education, and give them more pocket money.

Then, when you get married, you will give some dowry, which is good.

And girls like their granddaughters, in fact, in the countryside or in the city, the family conditions are not very good.

However, some people are good at disguising, and it is better to disguise it.

No matter how much they hide this patriarchal heart, they have never changed.

Not to mention that some families will also favor women over men, even those who prefer women over men are just that their daughters are usually better to him when they are at home, but when they really encounter major events, when they encounter property and real estate distribution, they all belong to their sons, and they really have nothing to do with their daughters.

I really encountered the pension, and now there are many people who have to hold on to the law.

If I raised you, you should provide for me, and even ask your daughter to pay more.

Otherwise, how can you say that this woman is much sadder than a man when she lives in this world.

After all, men don't need to have children, and they don't need to be able to spend a lot of time. Raising children also requires less time to spend a lot of time on housework.

But you have to do all these things, but while doing this, you have to go out to work to make money, otherwise you will be called a person who eats white rice without making money.

Is that the kind of thing that is? Everyone knows that it is unfair, no matter what the woman knows in her heart, in fact, the man himself is also clear in her heart, but they are used to taking advantage of it, even if they understand it in their hearts, they will not say it

Why is the bride price so high in these years, especially in the countryside, but no man is willing to let himself be single, or even to be able to get married and marry a wife.

They are willing to borrow a lot of debt, and then they go to take out a loan to buy a car, and they have to cheat their wives home when they buy a house.

To put it bluntly, even if there is a high-priced bride price, even if the woman is very demanding in all aspects.

But for men, it's still definitely a surefire deal.

And women are different, otherwise why are so many older leftover women in big cities unwilling to get married?

That's because these women understand that they can now support themselves very well with their own wages, and they are living a good life.

And if you really want to get married, you will even say that because of childbirth and various reasons, you will lose your job.