Chapter 413
Later, when I walked out of that marriage, although I was forced to do it, I realized that it was not that I did something wrong, but that the family I married was like that.
Sometimes you can't condemn them too much, but that's how they live.
And she is just a poor woman who doesn't support her mother's family and still unites with them, so they don't bully themselves, they don't squeeze themselves, so who are they squeezing?
So when you lose your temper, you will be attacked by everyone, and you will be wrong with yourself wherever you go.
Even when you don't lose your temper, you'll be disliked!
It's just that her daughter knows that her daughter has been resenting herself.
Yes, I'm really not a qualified mother, and I sometimes feel quite resentful, just because I gave birth to him, I can't run away from home or something.
often loses his temper with him, and sometimes thinks about his daughter being reincarnated into his belly, which is really pitiful.
"There's no way, at your daughter's current age, it's a small rebellious period.
It's naturally not easy to be an adult! "Although Ye Jiuchen has no children, he still knows the mental journey of these people.
It's hard to manage when you're so old, and it's even harder to manage when you're seventeen or eighteen years old, otherwise how did all those 18-year-old girls who lived with me come from?
The parents of those little girls may not all be money worshippers, and they are willing to let their daughters be playthings.
But those who are parents can't control these children, especially the older the girl, the worse it is, and the bigger the management, the more headaches the parents.
"I don't care anymore, I don't care about it, as long as the general direction is good.
I'm damn giving him a house, letting him go to a good school, giving him living expenses, taking care of his food and clothing, what else can he do?
If he resents me for not educating him well in the future, then I can't help it, sometimes this person has to rely on his own self-realization, right?
Just like how difficult my life was back then, what if I just resented my parents? Haven't I also learned badly and not fallen? ”
Han Zijun sighed: "Husband, thank you, I know that without you, my daughter wouldn't be able to go to such a good school, and she wouldn't be able to hire such a good tutor."
I think my daughter is very lucky compared to his peers, especially in our hometown, and whether he is willing to cherish this opportunity or not, whether he is willing to take advantage of this opportunity, is up to him.
It is impossible for this parent to really manage his child for a lifetime, and the future road will depend on him. ”
What Han Zijun didn't say was that he had sacrificed enough for that daughter, almost sacrificing the best years of his woman's life, and suffering so much for him.
Isn't that enough? I don't want the child to be grateful, but I don't want the child to have too high and too high requirements for himself
These children now have insatiable desires, and it seems that even if you give them everything you have, you can't fill their desires.
Therefore, he can only give him what he can give him, and guide him in a good direction, and it depends on him whether he listens or not.
What the can you do? There are some things that he will reason with the facts and explain them several times, and whether he listens or not, it depends on himself
As for himself, he has suffered too much unfreedom in front of his parents, so he doesn't want to use any coercive means to force him, forget it, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren!
As for himself, he won't burden him, and he will be able to fulfill his responsibilities as a mother.
"Wife, I feel that you are really pessimistic, in fact, the child is fine, and he is relatively sensible!
These children are like this now, what are you worried about?
But where do you want to try, if you have the potential to awaken abilities?
Now, if anyone has any special abilities, this is definitely going to be the feeling of becoming a human being, wife, don't you want to?
Haven't you always had low self-esteem in your heart? If you had this ability, you would be able to make yourself feel very proud, right? ”
Han Zijun shook his head, "Husband, although you say this, it seems that that what kind of ability is a very easy thing, but I know that it must be very difficult."
I don't want to bet on that possibility, maybe billions/1, and I feel like I'm fine now, husband.
I don't want to do those illusory things, I just want to do a good job in my small business and make more money.
Then, I feel very happy when I do fitness and beauty. ”
Yes, Han Zijun is talking from the heart, especially when he opens a small shop as the owner, and then occasionally goes to fitness and beauty, his life may be very boring in the eyes of others
But only Han Zijun himself knows that his current life is much more interesting than before, when he used to work at two o'clock and one line, he didn't even have someone to chat with you, and after going home, he did housework, and then he went to sleep
It's really because the family doesn't like to connect with people, especially the man, so my life has been very lonely, as if I always play that kind of stand-alone game.
"That's okay, wife, you're fine now, just this time, the doctor also tested you, and your physical fitness is much stronger than before." His wife said so, and Ye Jiuchen felt that it was meaningless for him to force it.
Han Zijun pursed his lips and smiled: "Husband, then you said that I was really unlucky this time, just that little pill, I guess, it is likely to be the legendary marrow cleansing pill or something."
Am I like the kind of person who cleanses all the impurities in my body, and then, all my body functions have improved a lot! ”
That's pretty much what it means, so in the future, you should eat more nutritious food!
However, there is one thing that has not been solved, that is, your body consumes more energy than ordinary people.
If it weren't for the fact that I have been paying attention to nourishing your body, then your body weight will continue to decline slowly, and I can't find out what the reason is.
But this, as long as it is given to you, this body is not nutritious enough, and it will not affect your health. ”
Ye Jiuchen frowned: "Then wife, did you eat any weight loss products that you didn't eat before?" It is said that you used to be quite fat. ”
Han Zijun shook his head in confusion. "I did eat weight loss products before, but they didn't do much good, and they rebounded very badly.
Of course, that kind of product is very expensive, and my family was not very good at that time, in fact, I ate very little, so I was reluctant to buy it.
Later, after the divorce, I don't know why, I thought it was because I was in a bad mood, anyway, I was getting thinner and thinner.
I don't know why, but I was worried that I would lose weight all the time, and that I might have a lot of wrinkles on my face.
But then I realized that my worries were unnecessary, not only did I not have wrinkles on my face, but even the crow's feet in the corners of my eyes that I used to have slowly disappeared.
But it doesn't have anything to do with that, and if it does, it's too bizarre. ”
Han Zijun frowned, remembering his very strange dream.