It's just that I don't have the courage to really divorce this man, after all, this second marriage is not the same as the first marriage.

Even said that she was no longer the 18-year-old girl, wasn't she? I'm almost the mother of an 18-year-old girl.

How fast time flies now, in a few years, my daughter will be 18 years old, so what are you pretentious?

In fact, if the night is long. This man is willing to let himself be in marriage, even if it is to be a nominal one, as long as he doesn't dump himself, he really doesn't have the courage to leave.

Even if his marriage is not perfect, this husband often goes out to find women, but compared to the previous paragraph, he finds that the time for this tantrum is getting less and less.

Even if everyone feels that they are very humble and have no character and are low to the dust, they still feel that the happiness is much higher than before.

It's not that their requirements are too low, it's not that they have no income, it's just that they haven't been beaten by society and marriage, and they don't know the truth of this poor couple's grief.

They don't know that when this woman is married, it doesn't mean that you can leave immediately if you feel unlucky, because she will always have all kinds of reasons to stop you, and your heart is not strong enough.

This woman, when she reaches middle age, she may not have much social experience, but she has learned to compromise, and she has learned to compromise on many unfair things.

"Yejiuchen, what do you want me to say?

Sometimes I don't know how to face you, but I know that even if I'm 18 years old, I don't deserve you.

What an excellent little girl she is, she can be admitted to a prestigious university in such a family, and she is still so beautiful.

I'm still dumped by you, and I'm not good compared to him.

Ye Jiuchen, I don't ask you to be devoted to me, I just ask you not to let those women come to me to block me, and don't let me be pointed at when I go out.

Actually, people like me don't have any hope for what so-called love is, I just want a warmer and quiet place where I can stay still.

Really I don't have high requirements, you just need to give me superficial respect, this money, in fact, I don't ask you much, after all, I have enough money in my hand to spend, maybe I can't spend it all my life, these are enough for me. ”

Han Zijun took a breath and said that this is the real truth, and I hope that my current nominal husband will not secretly laugh at himself in his heart

"Wife, you don't have to be so wronged, I swear I won't do that again.

Do you know? You are really distressing, in fact, you are very good, really good, very virtuous and sensible, when something happens, you first think about other people, and then consider yourself, and even you often suppress your own interests to fulfill others.

Do you know? Maybe sometimes you are too virtuous, too good and too kind, so people will be treated as buns to bully you.

But after so many years, your character should have also developed, and you can't change it if you want to change it all the time, but it doesn't matter, I will protect you in the future.

I won't let people block you anymore, and I promise that no one will come to you and block you.

Even in the case of your daughter, I, as a stepfather, can help you educate as long as you want. ”

Han Zijun shook his head: "You don't have to worry about my daughter's affairs, now this child, this heart and eyes are like a sieve."

If you help me educate him, maybe this kid will hate me, obviously, now I have been a little harsh on his discipline, and his attitude towards me is also very bad.

I also know that I don't know how to educate children, and it's true that I can't find a way to educate children! ”

Han Zijun felt very sad when he said this, the family and his ex-husband all said that their daughter's bad habits were not taught well

Anyway, it's really a thousand mistakes, it seems that as long as there is something bad, it's their own fault, even if they don't condemn themselves openly, but that kind of condemnation of their eyes and that attitude of extreme disappointment in themselves can also pierce their hearts like a sieve, and every hole can make their hearts hurt so much.

Especially when I was working at home for a while, I was found by them in turn.

For example, if the food is not done in time, for example, the laundry is not done in time, and they are still pulling their faces when they are still working

And then I encountered rectification, and I lost my job for a while, and my life at home was even more sad, and I was only there as if I was eating rice by them, as if I had committed a heinous crime.

I am obviously in marriage, and that marriage does not provide me with any happiness, but brings me great pain.

I'm a paid nanny there, or the kind they often find fault with.

And if you don't have a job, you can't make money, and no matter how much you do, you will be more disliked by them.

So, how can you have high requirements for marriage? As long as that man doesn't find fault with himself, doesn't give him, doesn't add blockage to his heart, what kind of wine and drinking does he go outside, what do he care about.

The night is long. This is a good thing, because he is there, because he has a good attitude towards himself, and the servants in the family have a lot of respect for him.

To be honest, it was the same as when he felt like he was in heaven during his marriage, but he felt uncomfortable after knowing that he cheated.

Maybe like some discontented women, people are becoming more and more greedy.

Obviously I was so miserable at that time, and I was so miserable, didn't I still persist for so many years? If that man hadn't abandoned him, I'm afraid he would still be struggling there.

Although it was very painful, although there were a lot of resentments in my heart, although I was about to become Xianglin's sister-in-law, I still struggled with the eyes of being disgusted by them.

And as soon as I want to give up, I will be persuaded by others, for the sake of the child, for the sake of the child as if it is my own life, except that the child is a paid nanny for others.

Anyway, I don't have the word myself in my life, and I can't do anything for myself.

I remember what I bought at that time, anyway, it was quite expensive, a set of products for thousands of yuan.

It was for himself, but as a result, he was disliked by his husband in turn, and the words were very ugly, and later I learned that I couldn't return, and my husband and daughter, father-in-law and mother-in-law and their relatives and friends all came to condemn themselves.

Obviously, I don't think it's too outrageous, and women of my age often occasionally consume that kind of high consumption.

But you can't do it in your own home, everyone takes turns to hit you, and it also makes you feel that you don't deserve to use such a good and expensive product at all.

Yes, I don't deserve to be in that family, I don't seem to be worthy of anything, obviously I have been wronged, I am obviously very wronged, and other women will not be able to stand the divorce.

And in the case of their repeated dislike, as well as the brainwashing attacks of people in turn, they all feel that they are unworthy, and they feel that they are outrageously wrong.