Chapter 4 Seeking Further Opinions
20190715 Monday for more input
When I got up in the morning, I suddenly had the courage to ask him questions about faith, and I asked him, "Do you find it offensive to ask questions about faith?"
He suddenly turned pale, cut straight to the point, and asked me if I was angry. I turned on the pimple lifting mode, and to tell him the truth, I felt a sense of disparity. Because I was expecting him and my sister on the same level before. He said he understood. He told me about his clothes going out and going home, and I said I knew.
He asked me if any of my children had their birthdays yesterday. I told him about Linley and his changes. Saying that children are easy to change, adults have a lot of their own ideas (alluding to him) unless they have a childlike heart like me.
He called and said that he had such a boast about himself? We talked about the paper he wrote yesterday. I said I was in a hurry to get to work first, and I was with him. He's on vacation.
I'm usually on Mondays. Today too. I began to ask Sister Lin Huan again, have you struggled to marry an unbeliever? She said no. And they can take the baby to church after they have passed it. During the meal, I asked Meilian again, why did Lin Huan marry an unbeliever, and no one in our group objected, because we all knew his husband, and we were embarrassed to bring it up? She told me that her husband was not bad, and that it was a private matter, that Lin Huan's spiritual life was normal after marriage, and that his husband sent her to church on Sundays. She also mentioned her own situation, saying that she was with her brother, and although Qifeng was a believer, she shed more tears for him than Lin Huan. If it weren't for God's love, they would have been separated.
I asked her, if a sister like Lin Huan wants to be with your brother, you won't persuade the sister?
She said, "What's wrong with my brother, if my brother is blessed to marry a sister, I will ask them what they mean first."
I said, maybe I'm that sister.
She let out a big look of surprise and asked me what was going on, boy.
I said, "He's interesting, so answer me, do you love your sister more or your brother more?" ”
She said, I can't answer who I love more, let's pray, pray together.
I said, I asked px, px is not at ease, let me not go to your house yet.
Mei Lian said not to come for a short time until her heart was at peace. I said I wouldn't, she thought more.
Later, we talked about her and Brother Qifeng's wedding, red carpet, church, and something.
In the afternoon I watched the believer's edification of marriage and the selection and part, and the preparation to become a helper. Still no answer, I want to consult Sister Aihua, one of my best friends, who is going to get married on National Day. Actually, I knew that if I asked her, she would definitely say that she would marry a Christian, but I still wanted to ask. It's a pity that I want to dig prince ginseng, but I am always not online, and I ignore it, so I don't have to consult.
I asked Sister Eileen this question again, her husband is not a Christian, but he is a very good person, the two of them love each other very much, and the two daughters should be very well-behaved. She asked me "how is his character?" I said people are nice. I suddenly felt that not everyone was vetoed by one vote.
I began to persuade the naysayers, and I told px that if I was with him, maybe I would stay in Ningbo in the future, and I liked the Sunday school and work in Ningbo very much. You'll all come back often, that's what I used to want. I tried to convince her, or myself, with "good for my spiritual life, not for destruction," because my worries were exactly the same as hers.
In the evening, I told the prince that when I finished reading a book, I would sort out my thoughts.
He replied to me after dinner, he was just busy with dinner, do you want to teach me a lesson?
I said, give myself a lesson.
He said, have you eaten, do you want to come and eat Coke chicken wings?
I said, the uncle of the cake shop booked me for dinner yesterday, and called early today to urge me to eat, and I was already full. Leave the Coke chicken wings for my sister. I'll have to finish the book and come back.
He said, come on.
I shopped around Yintai for a while, and finally bought back the dress I had been looking at for a season. A long skirt with a small blue checkered. I chatted with Lilian for a while, and then the eldest sister from the cake shop came to visit, and I chatted with her for a while, and she asked me if I had found a partner. I smiled. Recently, there have been a lot of people asking this question, and some people have often talked about it.
Before I went to bed, I began to pray for God's guidance. I confess, no matter how firmly I stand the flag, I don't marry, I don't pray for marriage, I don't read the helper series. One by one, the flags fell.
I reflected on my dislike for my eldest sister to marry my eldest brother-in-law, and now I can finally "put myself in her shoes" and confess to her. I asked God to lead me and prepare me for a pure heart. I'm going to sleep peacefully.