I think it may be the reason why family members are different from other people - family members and us have blood relations, legal obligations, and moral obligations that we can't get rid of, so after constant collisions, we mostly choose to stay away because we can't choose to stay away. That's why my crying had such a powerful effect on my family, and my mother compromised and promised not to interfere with some of my small things in the future. It's also become a lot gentler, hehehehe.

Thankfully, because she loved me more than I loved her, she lost and I didn't have to make any changes that I didn't want to.

I know it sounds like a bear child, but can you imagine the feeling of being accused every day of not doing it in the prescribed way and at the recommended time? It's just one thing, I don't think it's important at all, I have a lot of things that are many times more important than that, I don't want to do this first, if I do it, I want to do it in the way that benefits me the most, and solve it every two or three days instead of doing it every day.

I don't want to change it, I think I'm right, I don't think it's important. And my mom thinks this is very important, I can understand her thoughts, but I have the right not to accept it. I think that a person is first and foremost an independent individual, and secondly, it is the aggregation of various identities, such as students, such as children, although we can not always be based on personal will, and I should sometimes take responsibility as my first priority.

However, this is just a small thing. It's too small to be small. It's as trivial as using chopsticks. I don't think it's too much of a person to be able to do whatever you want without even having a good reason for such a small thing. Like a giant baby.

Some people say that if you can't solve anything by yourself, you are a giant baby, I don't think that's the case, your world is blank, and you are in a state where you have been taught how to think it is right for your elders, and you are being taught big and small things, which is more like a giant baby.

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My mother gave in on this matter that meant a lot to me, and whether she really wanted her to give in or not, then I would also give in on some things.

For example, I really want to eat that red oil dough and self-heating hot pot, I ate it when I was in Beijing, and it was delicious. But my mom didn't agree, so I didn't buy it. I think everything I cook at home is something that fades out of the birds.

But my family has worked hard to cater to my tastes,

"Dad, if there is fish next time, try the braised braised fish", wait, "It seems that Dad, you asked me at noon, it was I who said that the fish demon took sweet and sour to be more delicious." ”

Well, it's harder to explain. Looking at the endless "healthy fruit" apples at home, and looking at the preferences that I can't explain myself, I don't have anything in particular that I want to explain. If there's anything else to say, it's this: it's not junk food, it's not fragrant, you know.

Today's Xiaolai: I just finished reading the book "Ogilvy on Advertising" today, and since then, I have collected (read) three books written by Ogilvy: "Ogilvy on Advertising", "Ogilvy the Master of Advertising", and "Confessions of an Advertising Man".

"On Advertising" is a much longer book than the other two, and it provides very detailed advice on advertising, and I feel that this book will be of great use to compatriots in the advertising industry. After reading the three books, the biggest impact on me was the constant repetition of the action process in Ogilvy's three books, the awareness of the goal, and the judgment of good and bad behavior, and I felt that I benefited from it.

Here are a few excerpts from the book "Ogilvy on Advertising" that I think are the most worthy of recording for you to watch together:

a.“ Towards the end of his life, he wrote: "Looking back on our greatest achievements, I can't help but recall the process of creation, which was rarely born in a light-hearted, passionate atmosphere, and most were created in a state of high tension, intertwined with pain and complaint. ”

b.“ His attitude towards creative work can be summed up in three words he said:

1. Every product has an inherent drama, and our first job is to discover and use it.

2. When you reach out to pick up the stars, you may not be able to pick any of them, but you won't get your hands dirty.

3. Invest in your product, work like crazy, and love, cherish, and listen to your instincts. ”

c.“ They treat the investigation as a lamppost that a drunk finds on the side of the street, not to illuminate the night road, but to support the body. ”

- It's over, it's October 18, 2020 when I updated this essay, and the book "Talking about Advertising" that I read on February 23 has been taken off the shelves, so I can't find the context of these words by the way, and I have long forgotten it, for example, the "he" in the sentences A and B refers to Ogilvy himself or Ogilvy admires. However, I know who the "they" I know when we use the survey as a support for the body - the advertising practitioners who don't know the real purpose of the survey and can't make good use of it. Ogilvy was sarcastic when he said something like that, that doing research is to go through the form, and to do it as a necessary part of the plan, rather than trying to get the direction that the market really needs from careful investigation, to "illuminate" the "night road" of how to sell goods.

Did you think of anything when you saw a? For example, "The most precious thing for a person is life, and life belongs to a person only once." A person's life should be spent in such a way that when he looks back, he will not regret that he wasted his time, nor will he be ashamed of his inaction. So that at the end of his life, he was able to say: 'My life and all my experiences have been devoted to the most magnificent cause in the world—the struggle for the emancipation of mankind.' This sentence.

This quote comes from the book "How Steel is Made", and I really only remember that "a man's life should be spent like this: when he looks back······ I won't be ashamed of doing nothing", because this sentence is one of the alternative golden sentences for my high school essay. Of course, the most commonly used essay I write is the poem "Love Life" by Wang Guozhen: "I don't think about whether I can succeed, since I have chosen a distant place, I only care about the wind and rain······ I don't think about whether there will be cold wind and rain behind me, since the goal is the horizon, all that is left for the world is the back······" These two sentences, writing essays in high school is a real dish, eight out of ten articles are inspirational, and then eight out of eight articles have this sentence [dog head .jpg].