When I have the whole time, I want to go to the streets, walk through the streets and alleys of a city, go to the people who are squatting on the ground, the people who are drinking tea on the side of the road, the people who are drinking tea on the side of the road, go into a small restaurant that looks simple and clean, and listen to them talk about what happened in the neighborhood, all kinds of past.

Today, at work, I'm looking forward to a data report I produce so that it won't be checked for errors - when I did this, I flipped through the chat records that I asked one by one one and took my brother to answer them, and I checked them twice, and I thought, maybe this time it should be okay! Here is an emoji pack [The weather is clear, the rain has stopped, I feel like I can do it again]

Recently, I fell in love with another man, his name is Luo Xiang, and I was attracted to him not only because of the interesting criminal law cases in his mouth, nor just because of the story-filled Zhang Sanxiao Theater, but because I felt that he could be my teacher, because many of his ideas seemed to me to be the correct values that I lacked. For example, our hearts are also very dark, so we must always reflect and refrain from it. For example, we need to control our emotions, and for example, we need to be humble······ I don't think the words I wrote convey the baptism I received at that time, uh, in short, a super teacher, and I feel that after listening to his lectures, I can improve my self-cultivation of self-cultivation a lot.

Today, the new male god says that the sign of a person's maturity is to have empathy and understand more things and people. He said that there is no such thing as complete freedom, and that freedom within the rules is true freedom. He said that social norms are not spoken, but there are many dark rules that must be followed, so that you can be free.

I would like to add here that he said that "the conventional rules that are not prescribed by social norms, but which have been working silently in the shadows for a long time, also need to be obeyed in order to be free" - reminds me of the "hidden net" theory in communication studies. This latent net theory comes from the research of an editorial department, when a newcomer enters the editorial department, the old man will help the newcomer know a lot of rules that are not explicitly stated but have been secretly agreed upon, just like a potential net, so that things flow on the grid and cannot go out of line.

In addition to the class of the new male god that touched me today, there is also a comic pushed by the official account GQ, of which I will excerpt some of the accompanying texts:

He was 23 years old

He stopped outside the door of the adult world for a long time to observe

In the end, I decided to enter without hesitation."

- Oh, it turns out that everyone is 23 years old before they plan to enter the adult world, so I still have a long time before I am 23 years old, so I will continue to observe?

(Here comes the wailing of a young woman who has been 23 for half a month after her 23rd birthday at the end of October and has entered the beginning of her 23rd year.)

Today I also hear the saying that a lot of what we do is actually against our mediocre life. There's some truth to that.

Today's Lai: Here are three excerpts from the book "Reading is a Portable Refuge: Maugham's Essays on Reading":

1. "He wants to be as truthful as possible, neither exaggerating nor hiding the flaws and mistakes in life." ”

2. "It is incomprehensible that the mother tongue of four of the world's greatest novelists of all time should have terrible writing." In this way, beautiful writing is not a necessary quality for novelists, but abundant energy, rich imagination, bold creativity, keen observation, and attention, understanding and sympathy for human nature. ”

3. "After reading one formidable tome after another, I have come to the conclusion that the purpose of life is only to seek one's own happiness and nothing else, and that those acts of self-sacrifice are only to satisfy a fantasy of being a generous person. Since the future is uncertain, it should be common sense to practice music in time. ”

I want to do the same for 1 dozen 5 stars, to be honest with what I have experienced, and to neither exaggerate nor hide the flaws and mistakes in life.

2020.3.11