"Nana, in fact, there are still good men in the world, you see that although my husband has a bad reputation, he is very good to me, you are just unlucky and married the wrong person, but it doesn't mean that you have no choice in the future!

If you look at how beautiful and good you are now, why do you think you can't be happy? ”

Li Ruolan was a little distressed, looking at Nana who was smiling in front of her.

"Ruolan, don't look at me like that, let me tell you, if you say happiness, then I have happiness now.

When I was a girl before I got married, my little wishes had already been fulfilled or overfulfilled.

My wish at that time was simple, as long as I had a small house of my own and a job that could support me, it would be enough.

Love has never been a necessity in life for me, and if I got married, I thought I would only want one thing, that is, that man is what I like, and that man is good enough for me, and I don't want anything else.

But I later learned that such a simple wish was too difficult and too extravagant for me to achieve.

And it turns out that under the control of my parents, I went around and married the man I didn't like and didn't like me.

To put it bluntly, the marriage between us is not so much a bullshit relationship as a makeshift between each other.

Naturally, if that's the case, why should a man be good to me? It's like two dead goods are put together, and then it's a calculation that the east wind begins to overwhelm the west wind or the west wind begins to overwhelm the east wind.

Anyway, I don't lose at all, but I want to maximize the benefits.

You say it's ridiculous, before I gave birth to a child and didn't get pregnant, that family was very good to me, but as soon as the child was born, his face immediately changed, and my husband didn't give me the money he earned and didn't give me living expenses, but I just had to live in that house and let me fend for myself.

Do you think that kind of marriage is good? This woman, if you don't choose a good marriage, you won't be able to recover, not all people in the world are like you and Duoduo? It can be very happy.

And what about me now? Although I say that there is no man around, but I have a house? I have money, too. Or even say something nasty and say something that isn't very moral? I also have freedom.

If I really have that idea or need, I'll go outside and find a little fresh meat that will make me happy? Doesn't that smell good?

Why should I get myself into marriage to be that paid and angry nanny?

It's enough to do this kind of paid and angry nanny once, and I don't want to do it a second time.

Don't you say that some men are actually good? Can't let me do that? But in fact this is the case in most marriages.

Most men scold women for worshipping money, but in fact, this man is more realistic than women, and pays more attention to that woman's money and ability.

So, most of this woman's marriages are the result of calculations? What about me, I don't want to be counted again? I'm tired, and besides, after so many years of frustration and despair, I won't love anymore, and this love will die for me.

I just want to live as I want now? If you can, make a lot of money.

After all, this person has no love, but life also needs to go on? It's just me, but I want to make my life better. ”

Nana smiled softly when she said this? and even indecently so lazy and lazy.

"Li Ruolan, you may not understand, this divorce may be a nightmare for other women? But for me, divorce is like a rebirth.

So many years? What will I do after my divorce? I feel like I'm living for myself.

After I finish my work every day, I can sleep whenever I want, and I can do whatever I want.

Financial freedom, and I can also be my own person, anything I want to do, go out to travel, see the surrounding beauty, fitness, reading and baking, and even go to KTV to sing, which is not happy, you can also find a little fresh meat to chat and so on. This is what we don't get in marriage, except for you, of course. ”

"Well, Nana, since you have such and such thoughts, then I will not persuade anything more.

Actually, I think what you said is also right, there are many ways to be happy, and it doesn't necessarily have to be in marriage, and it's actually those elderly people who have this kind of thinking.

And you don't have a good relationship with your mother's family, so there's no need to care about what they think. ”

Li Ruolan nodded, yes, what Nana said is actually unreasonable, just like the kind of marriage of her parents, she thinks it's really better than being single.

As for my mother, I have to do a lot of housework every day, and I have to go out to make money, but I am still disliked by my father, and I am often abused by my father.

Is that a happy marriage? His mother is considered to have both children and daughters, and he also has grandchildren, but is his mother happy? I've never felt like my mother was happy.

are all in their 40s, but they are still beaten by men who say that they will be beaten, so is this called happiness?

If this is called happiness, then I will never be happy for a lifetime. ”

"Okay, Nana, this kind of thing is like a person drinking water and knowing it, since you can't experience the happiness of the family, it's good not to have a family.

I didn't know before, but fortunately I found a husband who was good to me, okay, am I a little too much, and I am a little bit of a show-off in front of you. ”

Li Ruolan covered her mouth and snickered, and at this moment, the person who served the food came over.

Truly private dishes are great food, and you can tell that they don't use seasonings at all, they use the original flavor of the food itself.

But just a sniff can make your appetite work, and although the dishes look simple, everything is delicious.

"Eat, eat, I don't know what's going on with you, how can I bother with you? If you are happy, you must keep it up. Cherish happiness! ”

Nana smiled softly, living happily and knowing that the person who is happy and maintains happiness is really smart and will be happy for a lifetime.

The most feared are those who are in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings, for example, many people are like this.

Yesterday's troubles hurt those who gave you happiness, you really regret it at the end, and when you dream back at midnight, you find that the past is not traceable, and everything you have done has become the real reason why you have lost your happiness.

"Nana, I think you're just a fate that hasn't arrived, and if you really have fate, you won't be like this.

But I wonder what your future partner will be like? It must be a particularly good kind, and it has to be the kind that dotes on his wife. ”

Li Ruolan's eyes showed a dreamy brilliance, originally, she was very young, and now she is a little in love with her husband.

"I'm afraid it's impossible in this life, and those who are willing to spoil women as princesses must be those seventeen or eighteen-year-old little girls who are beautiful, born and talented, and can grasp the hearts of men.

I'm old bark, not to mention that I'm a really stupid person, and I won't please men.

But I'm glad you said that, maybe I'll be able to meet the kind of man you said in my next life. ”