There are always all kinds of problems in communication between people, and almost no one really understands you except yourself.

often quarrels with parents without paying attention to proportion, speaking openly, saying hurtful words to others and hurting themselves, and always crying and venting anger, secretly regretting their recklessness.

Thinking back to his own extremism, he is like a bird that has gone away, and he cannot return.

The initial quarrel could have been completely avoided, but it was not endured. The occurrence of a state of affairs can take a huge turn because of your actions and words. Especially when arguing with their parents, most children only care about their grievances and discomfort and refute their parents, but if they endure a little and don't listen, the quarrel will not end.

Think about it from another angle, parents have nowhere to vent their stress and exhaustion after a day. When they come to the house, the child is not happy, and he is naturally angry, and the parents with a bad temper will inevitably scold. If we are scolded as children, we should bear with it. After the parents scolded and soothed, the depression in the heart was released, and it was better if the heart was not blocked.

As a child, if you can't share all kinds of pressures on work and life for your parents, it's good to be a punching bag for your parents and make your parents feel comfortable.

If the parents are not going well at work, and the children quarrel with them after returning home, they will become angry, and over time, they will be prone to physical problems.

And we just need to close our ears appropriately, let our parents vomit unhappiness, and release our emotions. Believe me, when they finish scolding, if you don't refute it, they will definitely think that you are well-behaved and sensible, and they will feel that their language is too aggressive, even if they don't say it, they will feel a little guilty in their hearts. After a while, if you bring this up again in passing, and control the wording, your parents will definitely show understanding and relief.

Of course, I'm talking about the situation in case you're at fault. If it's the fault of your parents, it's okay to vent your temper properly and let your parents know your dissatisfaction, but you have to pay attention to proportion, slowly.

There is a girl next to me, and her parents are short-tempered and often scold her, she used to contradict her parents again and again, but later, she understood that her parents worked hard, so she endured it. I often ask her what to do if she can't bear it anymore. She said: "Then I'll practice calligraphy, my parents asked me what you are doing, she calmly said that she was practicing calligraphy, and her parents would say oh, then you practice." The quarrel ended abruptly, and it was over.

After listening to it, it was ridiculous. The scene is funny, but if you think about it. What is there that your parents don't really mean for you? There may be mistakes in the method, but we need to understand and empathize appropriately. Even if you really do something to hurt your parents, sincerely apologize, your parents will forgive you after all.

So, from now on, let's make a well-behaved punching bag!