That night, my friend was drunk, and almost every drunken person was unexpectedly not drunk, I know, this is not luck, but a kind of empathy, but anyone who likes to drink, has a mixed world in their hearts.

Later, this friend of mine did not choose to divorce his wife in the end, this is the greatness and difficulty of men, what kind of real man is the courage of the horseman, I deeply sympathize with and understand the actions of this friend of mine. Even if a man finds out that his wife has given him a green hat, as long as he is not forced to go to a dead end, men often choose to endure humiliation and let go of dignity rather than divorce because they want to give their young children a complete home, a beautiful childhood and a bright future. However, women often can't do it, such a woman Her heart has long since not belonged to you, her heart has long flown away, in order to please the new love, she will bite back, and say that you, including your family, are worthless, and even cheating and betrayal such ugly things She can make up a reason to impose on you, so as to clear her own name and exonerate herself. "A father's love is like a mountain", this is the greatest sacrifice that a father can make for the sake of his children by putting down his dignity and enduring humiliation.

My experience made me fall in love with cigarettes and alcohol, and most men and women who love alcohol and cigarettes have stories in their hearts, either hurt by life or trapped by feelings, and I have both, maybe it is really a thing to be happy and proud of.

Among these various people, the number of men is much greater than the number of women, and in addition to the traditional reasons that require women to be women, I think the main reason is that men and women have different ways of venting their emotions. If a woman suffers a little grievance, she will often run back to her parents' house to complain, or run to her in-laws to cry and make a fuss, and even run to the unit where the man works to make a big noise, until the city is full of wind and rain, women and children are all known, and a woman often has a group of girlfriends behind her is her loyal listeners and fans, and women gradually resolve the various pains and unpleasantness suffered in their hearts through various confiding and the special skills of "crying, making trouble, and hanging themselves".

And a man can't choose a woman to vent all kinds of pain and grievances he has suffered, and the result of this will definitely be ridiculed and generous and shameful to the world. Women are like water, and there are many tears. Men have to put all this in their stomachs, even in the face of their best friends, men often choose to rot it in their stomachs, and never confide in anyone. Men would rather carry everything alone and alone, choose to drink, pour all kinds of life tiredness and emotional wounds into the wine glass, and then grit their teeth, blood, raise their necks, and swallow it in one go.

In addition to the difference between men and women, the flood of wine culture also has a lot to do with regional differences, and the manifestation of this regional difference is not because of emotional distress, but because of the cruelty of the environment.

In the cold north, the long winter often lasts for half a year, or even more than half a year, in the short and not very hot season, almost all the money people earn is used for the purchase of winter clothes for a family, the purchase of heating coal, the storage of food, etc., only in the world of snow, thousands of miles of ice at home, enviously imagining the warmth of the south, the diversification of food, fruits and vegetables, and the low cost of survival。。。。。。 At this time, the northerners only had to eat kimchi, pickles, stewed potatoes and baked potatoes at home.

Because the winter is long and cold, creating the inherent characteristics of the northern body shape, men have a large belly and a round waist, women have thick hips and thighs, only this strong and fat body, can allow them to store more fat, in winter, with the huge heat generated by these fats to ensure that they do not freeze to death.

In the hot south, the weather is hot, food is plentiful, and the cost of living is extremely low. People don't need to buy winter clothes, they don't worry about not being able to pay for heating or coal, some places don't even bother to build decent houses, anyway, they can't die of hunger and freeze, the banana groves that can be seen everywhere on the roadside are like wild reeds in the north, in patches, pick a few bananas to solve stomach problems, a pair of slippers, a pair of pants, and a t-shirt are all they wear all year round. The hot weather doesn't need to let them store those excess fat in their bodies, so southerners generally look like monkeys, thin and capable, and even their noses are flattened, without worrying about having to grow a big nose like northerners, and the big nose is conducive to the cold air to turn around in a large enough nasal cavity to warm up, otherwise the cold air will be sucked directly into the lungs, and those northerners will be choked to death!

The long and cold winter, the lack of material, and the bitterness of life are not easy to make these men in the north invariably like to drink, the kind of strong high wine can keep out the cold, and the second can relieve worries, squinting at the bloodshot eyes that seem to be drunk but not drunk, thinking about the spring flowers in the coming year.

But what about the next year's spring flowers? When will such a short, not very hot season soon pass, and the long, cold winter is coming? Robbery! Being a robber and robbing the beautiful and rich South is the easiest way to completely change your current predicament. I don't know what year or when, or which northerner first made this vicious and evil suggestion, but when this proposal was first proposed, it was in the hearts of those who had already coveted the riches of the South, and these northerners rushed to the south to rob with the same smell and smell.

In the north is the wolf tribe, which survives by robber-style robbery and plunder. But after all, the north is cold and sparsely populated, and it is not so easy to organize an effective and sufficiently large number of invaders. It doesn't matter, they can form a coalition army in groups or something, unify command, unify leadership, attack from all sides, and then reward and divide the fruits of victory; The bear in the north, on the other hand, disdains to be in the company of these wolves, and likes to fight alone, because it is a bear, and it has the strength to fight alone.

Therefore, since these northerners discovered that there is such a beautiful and rich south on the other side of the world, they began to carry out their criminal plans of robbery and plunder in groups, and this bandit-like invasion has made them the high level of material civilization they have today.

This kind of aggression is characteristic of the northerners in their bones, so that for thousands of years, it has been the northerners who invade the southerners, but there has never been a southerner who invaded the northerners. Because of the richness and beauty of the south, these southerners have long been accustomed to and satisfied with the current life, and there is no need for them to rob others anymore. If the southerners are lazy, it is wrong, they are not lazy, but the rich products let them learn to be content, they will not invade others, the greatest pleasure is to be really bored to engage in internal strife and nest fighting, the abundance of goods also makes them not like the northerners because of the embarrassment of life and choose to drink to relieve their worries.