This kind of life makes us need wine, which is the common medicine of our human beings to heal the wounds of the soul, it can temporarily liberate us, but it is also enough to comfort our wounded and unsatisfied hearts.

Every weekend, a few of our friends would come as promised, drinking strong liquor, talking about all kinds of happy or annoying things they encountered at work, in society, and at home, in fact, these words were just to hide the unspeakable pain in their hearts. The real pain is unspeakable, the real pain can only be digested by yourself, this pain makes you feel pain, this pain is like inserting a sharp knife in your heart, looking up or like sprinkling a handful of salt on your wound, making your heart ache in the bleeding, so that your body will involuntarily spasm from time to time, this is a heart-rending pain that can not be told to others, and others can never empathize with it, it is wanton all the time consuming us, making me crazy obsessed with wine.

These good friends of mine deliberately avoided talking about me every weekend when we got together. However, after three rounds of drinking, they all counted me down with a little drunkenness, and they all said that it was because of my excessive favor that Ye Er was in such a situation now, and they all said that all this was caused by me for conniving at Ye Er and starting to learn to play mahjong and gambling for money, and then they would say regretfully, if Ye Er and I didn't take this detour, our family would definitely be the richest and happiest among these families.

However, they don't know the real reason for my divorce from Ye'er, and I can't tell them the real reason for my divorce from Ye'er, this is an eternal shame and pain in a man's heart, which needs to be healed for a lifetime. They don't understand, and I can't tell others about my bloody pain with a handful of snot and tears, so as to win the sympathy and comfort of others. When you encounter this kind of thing, how can others sympathize with you? What are the ways in which others sympathize with you? The so-called sympathy and comfort are just further plastering one's own face.

They don't know that a person's evil is brought from the mother's womb, and then after the catalysis of the original family in the later period, this person has lost the qualification to be a human being in his bones, and such a person can only be called a biped. They don't understand it, because they don't empathize, so they can't understand it. A good marriage is about finding the right person, not trying to change someone. One of the great sins of man is to "educate the unintentional", you must know that the mud will never be able to support the wall, this is determined by the characteristics of the mud, not by your own technical ability.

Born as human beings, thousands and shapes, people are different from each other, some people are good, some people are evil; Some people are peaceful, some people are impetuous; Some are lively, some are quiet。。。。。。 The people of all shapes and sizes make our world colorful, and let our world be happy and sad.

A man's cheating is not terrible, it has nothing to do with character, it has to do with moral cultivation, this is a man's instinct, this is the right given by the universe to men to chase the opposite sex, this is just an immature man who does not take care of his lower body. This kind of diligent pursuit of the opposite sex can make us human beings endless, full of vitality, so whenever a man cheats, he generally will not choose to divorce, a man is a more sensible species, he will rein in the precipice, he will wash his hands of gold, he will weigh the pros and cons, he will prodigal son will not change.

However, this law of survival that conforms to the laws of nature has begun to become a bit sick with the high development of social material civilization. Some men are no longer interested in women, and they no longer chase women diligently, but on the contrary, it is popular for men to chase men and women to chase women, which is really a blasphemy against our human beings. However, this kind of dirty and filthy blasphemy has been approved of by people, and some countries have even amended their laws to openly recognize such same-sex unions as legal couples. It is really a perverted society that creates a perverted personality, "opposites attract, pregnancy and childbirth", this is the law of our human existence, this kind of perverted same-sex attraction can not be used as a physiological and psychological standard for a healthy social natural person, to say a humane sympathy, we can only admit that they belong to a sick person at most, and must not treat them as a healthy person, and even amend the law to openly challenge our personality, rights and obligations as human beings. Society has changed, it no longer conforms to the law of survival and development of nature, if it is true that human beings lose the pursuit and beauty of opposite-sex attraction, and regard same-sex unions as fashionable and legal, then it will not be far from the day when our world will perish.

When a man cheats, he often turns back and returns to the family, but if a woman cheats and betrays, it will often end in divorce and the tragic ending of this woman.

When a man cheats, that's because of instinct, while a woman cheats because he doesn't keep his duty; A man's cheating has nothing to do with character and moral cultivation, while a woman's cheating has nothing to do with instinct and has to do with character and morality. A man is a child who will never grow up, they can't leave home, while a woman has no home, whoever treats her well, where is her home. The man's innate attachment to his homeland and his sense of belonging to the clan make him dare not wander too far from the family, and the woman's pursuit of men's interests makes the woman herself not know where her home is.

Women's pursuit of men's interests is reasonable, I hate it very much that some people always like to talk about the topic of women's love for money, houses and cars, just imagine, a sparrow hugging a nest and hatching cubs need a bird's nest, let alone a woman to have a child. Since ancient times, the survival law of almost all creatures has been the combination of yin and yang, male and female, as a woman's pursuit of men's interests, what a natural thing.

If a man can't give enough benefits to the woman he loves, then what else do you need from such a woman! If you understand this truth, you will be able to see very clearly why there are so many older single girls with high education and high income in today's society, because their high income is enough for them to buy what they want, and even their high income is enough for them to buy a house, buy a car, and enjoy a high-quality life. Just ask, such girls no longer need to kneel and lick men and chase benefits from men, men have lost the interests they should have pursued in front of them, what else do they need men to do! So they prefer to be single.

However, those girls at the bottom of the society generally marry and have children relatively early, and some girls are even just over 20 years old, and they are already mothers of several children, this is because they need the interests of men to support them, and the laws of survival of nature are so simple and easy to understand.

It is a very normal behavior for a woman to chase the interests of men, but if a woman keeps changing men and tries to chase more interests, then this does not belong to the category of this kind of normal behavior, but belongs to the problem of moral character.

That night, we drank very dreaneously, because the wife of one of our good friends also cheated on her, and was caught red-handed and made such a fuss that passers-by knew that he was drunk that night, and I was surprisingly not drunk!