Ye'er's obsession with gambling and reluctance has reached a point of madness, and home is no longer like a home, three meals a day and the baby can't see Ye'er's figure, even if it's the Spring Festival, you can't see Ye'er's figure. On the day of the Spring Festival, Ye Er got up as usual, put on makeup, gambled money, and then couldn't see her all day, and didn't go home until eleven or twelve o'clock in the middle of the night, sometimes even one or two o'clock in the second half of the night.

For this reason, I quarreled with Ye'er, but Ye'er didn't quarrel with you at all, just coldly busy with her own business, if it was a quarrel with her in the morning, she just sat there and carefully put on her heavy makeup, and then picked up her bag and hurriedly went out to gamble. If it was a quarrel at night, she would wash up there unhurriedly, and then say "sleepy" and sleep with her head covered.

I also communicated with Ye'er, she always said that there are so many women outside who gamble every day like her, and no man in a family is as verbose as me, while I am still young, what's wrong with having fun? The women she said to gamble with her, many I also know, but those gambling women who have children, husbands and responsibilities always arrange the meals and housework at home in an orderly manner, and then go out to gamble money, and they generally only play in the afternoon, they rarely even play the field, it is impossible to care about the family like Ye'er, only care about three mahjong games a day, the only few women who can stay with Ye'er from morning to night to gamble money are divorced single women, These women abandoned their husbands and children because of gambling money and chose to divorce, and since then they have been addicted to casinos and live a life of no one and no ghost.

My mother is always very distressed to see me alone every day with the baby as both a father and a mother, and often sends some steamed buns to make some cakes and the like, and every time I come over, I always sigh and mutter, "Why did you get such a woman?" Ye Er was not like this when she first got married. Something like that.

A few of my friends and Fa Xiao are always talking about me, and they say that the reason why Ye'er has come to this point is completely due to the reason why I taught Ye'er to play mahjong in the first place, and I was too spoiled and ignored by Ye'er.

No one understands Ye'er. Some people are born bad people, that is in their bones, just like mosquitoes and vampire dogs eat, that is innate, you don't want to try to change her, what comes with your bones can't be changed through other people's persuasion and education. Therefore, a good marriage relationship is not about trying to change a person, but about trying to find the right person. This is why there is a saying that "one generation has no good wife, three generations have no good children", and all those characters who can get ahead and excel are created after several generations, or even more than ten generations, of continuous combination and optimization of genes.

After so many years of education, I can get a general idea of my child's family situation and learning situation just by looking at the student's hair. Smooth and shiny hair, and neat and clean children, family situation and academic performance are generally not bad, "smooth and shiny hair" indicates that the child's usual diet nutrition can keep up, and the nutrition is balanced, with such a hair quality of the child's family economic situation is generally not bad, "hair neat and clean" shows that the child's parents are self-disciplined, always strict in every little detail, demanding their children, such children because of such strict requirements of parents, The child's academic performance is basically not bad.

On the contrary, if a child's hair is yellow and shiny, and messy and dirty, it is obvious that the family economic situation of children with this hair quality is generally not good, and the family situation is more complicated, most of them belong to single-parent divorced families, left-behind children, or the child's parents are not self-disciplined and do not do their jobs, etc.

As a teacher, you must understand children so that you can teach children well and become a qualified teacher.

Writing this reminds me of the college entrance examination essay questions in a certain western underdeveloped province in a certain year. The general meaning of the essay question is that the child drives a private car on the highway with his father during the vacation, and the child's father drives illegally on the highway。。。。。。 According to the plot, ask the child to write a letter to Dad in his own tone.

As soon as such a college entrance examination essay question came out, it immediately attracted the anger and questioning of countless netizens and countless candidates across the country. Because the examiner who comes up with such a college entrance examination essay question is really not qualified to be a question writer, he is simply an unqualified question writer!

When you face thousands of candidates in the province with such college entrance examination essay questions, do you understand the fairness of education? Why don't you come up with a college entrance examination essay question like "sow gives birth, ram mating" for children in the province to write? Do you know the situation of these children who have been studying hard for 12 years? Some of these candidates live deep in the mountains, they have never even seen the highway, and it is impossible to have a "private car", how can you ask them to write about the violation of the private car on the highway? Their parents don't even know a word, so why do you ask these candidates to write to their fathers?!

There are some traits in people that can be changed through hard work, but some of the traits in some people's bones are really difficult for you to change. I know that the "gambling" nature that comes with Ye'er's bones is difficult to change.

I only have to take my baby well, go to and from work, go to and from school, do laundry and cook, tutor homework, and tidy up the housework。。。。。。 Since I can't change Ye'er, I can only let it go like this, I always think innocently and kindly there, maybe one day, Ye'er will get better; Maybe one day, Ye'er will return to the family; Maybe one day, when Ye'er loses everything, she will do her duty to teach her husband and children, or reopen the store to earn money to supplement the family.

Good people always think of everything in a good way, because deep down in your bones, there are no evil thoughts at all. Now I understand, "stop loss in time", when you meet someone like Ye'er, the only way out is divorce. However, I always have hope for Ye'er, and I always think that it is "love", but I don't know that your so-called "love", in Ye'er's opinion, can ravage your so-called "love" at any time!

For nearly two years, I have been living such a life with my baby, lonely, lonely, distressed, resentful, but there is nothing to be done, because for a person who has lost her conscience, she only has herself in her heart.

You'll never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, and the mud will never hold up the wall!