Buying a house should have been a happy and celebratory event, but just because Yanzi's parents sponsored 100,000 yuan to buy a house, Yanzi's psychology has been violently expanded and continuously fermented until we divorce, which is also the main reason for our divorce.

I really don't know what Yanziji's family thinks, why they have such a strange idea, their idea is that the purchase of the house should be all funded by me alone, and not even a penny of money should be used by them to buy the house. However, in the reality of soaring housing prices, they seem to be extremely reluctant to come up with 100,000 yuan, which makes them extremely psychologically unbalanced. I don't know what this is for? If I buy the house in full, then I can't add your swallow's name to the title deed. Money is such a simple thing, it witnesses human nature and sees through people's hearts. I give it to you because I love you and I will; If you ask, then you are begging, taking, giving or not giving? How much for you? That's my right.

Since buying a house, Yanzi has completely changed a person, as if he has never seen money, the whole person wants to crush me to death every day, and he always has a lot of confidence when he speaks, but what does this matter to me? I still live my own little life quietly, going to and from work, cooking, taking care of housework, and going back to my original home to accompany my daughter two days a week, all of which are still the same appearance and rhythm for me.

After a year of marriage, I also achieved the kind of life I wanted before, I barely got drunk, and I sold my motorcycle, and I no longer needed motorcycles. Soon after the new house was renovated, in order to celebrate the housewarming of the new house, Yanzi invited a few of her girlfriends to dinner, several of her girlfriends also like to drink some liquor, a few glasses of wine, Yanzi got along with the best girlfriend in front of the whole table Yin and Yang said to me: "Congratulations, but don't be too happy!" If you didn't have the money from the Swallow family, you would never have been able to afford this house! ”

"I didn't understand what you said, what do you mean?" It's really inexplicable, and I also relied on a little alcohol to go back.

"Don't pretend to be crazy and stupid, if Yanzi's mother didn't give 100,000 yuan, would you be able to afford a house?" The woman said to me in a sarcastic tone.

"Can you not make a mistake, first of all, Mother Swallow's money is not for me, it is for her daughter, and I don't need her money; Secondly, this house was not bought for me alone, you know? The house bears the names of two people; In the end, you can laugh at us for not being able to afford a house, but you shouldn't laugh at me! Got it? I have my income, and with my income I can afford to buy a house!" I also expressed my meaning in a-for-tat manner.

"What a brag! If you have the ability, don't take other people's 100,000 yuan to buy a house, it's embarrassing! "There is always an evil reason in an ugly face!

"I'll tell you again, the house wasn't bought for me alone!" I stood up angrily, pointed at her and shouted, why do they just not admit it and don't face it, what kind of logic is this!

Yanzi's other girlfriends saw that we were about to quarrel, so they got up one after another to persuade them: "What are you fooling in, that's the business of the husband and wife, take more and take less, whether you should take it or not, that's the business of the husband and wife, and the house you bought is also the joint property of the husband and wife, what does it matter to you!"

With the persuasion of Swallow's other girlfriends, our quarrel subsided, but Swallow, who was sitting there, didn't say a word. I immediately understood that the remarks made by Swallow's best friend tonight were actually the truest thoughts of Swallow and her parents, or at least should be the truest thoughts of Swallow and her mother. As for why they have such a narrow and incredible idea, I still don't understand! If it weren't for the fact that Ye'er, a woman, lost all my money, I wouldn't have fallen into the embarrassing situation of "being bullied by dogs in the Tiger Plain"; If I buy a house in full before marriage, then when I get divorced, Yanzi will not even get a single hair of real estate!

If you want to blame anyone, you can only blame me for my stupidity, kindness and simplicity! I'm stupid and I can't understand human nature and people's hearts; Kind-hearted, I was always self-righteous and wishful thinking there, thinking that in the future, through the joint efforts of me and Yanzi and my wife, we would definitely buy our own house. And I didn't know that Yanzi and her family just used me as a tool to support her, so any bit of their effort was as painful and difficult for them as cutting their flesh!

I really regret my hasty decision. At the beginning, I should have bought a house first and then got married, and only my name was written on the real estate certificate, but now I think about it, now I spend money to buy a house, and my dignity is wantonly trampled on by others, I am really stupid and naïve. If I bought a house first, it would have been able to buy, after all, I had paid 50,000 yuan in cash to buy this suite, and it cost me some money when I got married, and it cost me seven or eight thousand yuan a year to rent a house for a wedding, and if I added up these money, I could have bought a smaller house with a down payment, because the house price at that time was still relatively cheap, less than 3,010 square meters. Although the house is small, it is your own nest after all, even if it is a grass nest, it is hard to live by yourself! Don't guess people's hearts, because people's hearts can't guess.

People, you must stay away from bad people and bad things, if you can't leave, accidentally entangled, then you must stick to your own principles, you must not be with these people and mud, because once you are with them and mud, the last injury must be you! At that time, I took it for granted that I wanted to marry the woman Yanzi first, and then work together to earn money to buy a house, as a result, after marriage, Yanzi resolutely stopped opening a store, and then the store was transferred, and I spent my money to play mahjong all day long with nothing to do. Now her mother gave her 100,000 yuan to buy a house after marriage with me, which seems to me to be a very normal thing, but I was laughed at by others, and it was not anyone else who laughed at me, but Yanzi herself, I really don't know what logic she has in her head. As a man, you must use your own or your parents' money to buy a wedding house, and you must not mix with a woman who is going to get married to buy a house, or decorate or the like, otherwise, once they turn their faces, it is often the man who is hurt and suffers.

I have seen through the faces of these people, and this has also made my remarriage life, which seems to have been peaceful for more than a year, and it is no longer peaceful.