In my world, life is as simple as that, and since the swallow doesn't want to do anything, it's up to me to do more. I earn money to support my family, cook food, clean and tidy up the housework, however, I don't wash the swallow's clothes, I only wash my own clothes, it's not that I don't want to wash, but in the face of the swallow who has nothing to do all day and is lazy to eat, I think I really shouldn't be so cheap! Yanzi wants to manage money, I gave her my salary card, and even my medical insurance card was asked by Yanzi, Yanzi is a woman who has a strong desire to control money, but the key to the problem is that she does not control her own money, she just does not work or earn money but enjoys relying on men to support her with peace of mind. After all, my active cooperation and diligent efforts made Yanzi and his family unable to find anything that made them feel dissatisfied, with the fetters of home and the nagging of women, my wine was almost never drunk again after marriage, my well-being is the greatest happiness for my daughter, thank me for waking up in time!

In this way, we have been married for almost a year, and recently housing prices have begun to skyrocket, and we who were planning to save a down payment for a house in a few years were frightened by the recent skyrocketing housing prices, and only lamented that we did not have enough money to pay enough for a down payment to buy a house.

My anxiety also made Yanzi's parents feel stressed, Yanzi is their only daughter, Yanzi's happiness is directly related to their happiness, and they also feel the reality that housing prices have started to skyrocket recently. One weekend, when Yanzi and I went to her parents' house for dinner, her mother asked me about my plan to buy a house, I didn't want her family to contribute money to help buy a house, and it was not too late to buy a house after I had earned enough down payment, so I told the truth, I don't have that much money on me now, and I can't borrow so much money to make a down payment on a house, and I only have to wait a few years to save enough for a down payment to buy a house.

In fact, about our purchase of a house, they have discussed it behind their backs, only to hear Yanzi's mother say, when you have saved enough for the down payment to buy a house, at that time, the house price does not know how much it will rise, it is better to buy late than early, it is better to do this, we take out 100,000 yuan, if the remaining money is not enough, you find a way to borrow a little, you buy the house first, anyway, you have a housing provident fund, and there is no pressure to repay the loan in the future.

I wanted to refuse the kindness of the two old men, but considering that the house we are buying now belongs to buying a house after marriage and belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, since we buy a house after marriage, it is reasonable for Yanzi's parents to be willing to contribute some of the money, after all, buying a house now is not for me alone. Although the house price at that time was not high, nearly 3,000 yuan per square meter, Yanzi's parents took out 100,000 yuan, which was only a small part of the purchase price, and most of the purchase price and future loan repayment need to be borne by me alone.

Thinking about it this way, I can't be considered a parasite, let alone a parasite, so I agreed to Yanzi's mother's arrangement to buy a house. Who would have thought that what I thought was reasonable at the time would make me lose my dignity in the future, and I would always be ridiculed by others in the future, so that my marriage with her would be completely buried!

In the following days, I still went to work every day, Yanzi and her mother went around to inspect the house, they finally looked at a house not far away, nearly 100 square meters, Yanzi informed me, and when I got home in the evening, Yanzi and I went to visit the house again, and it was quickly settled. The next morning, I took a leave of absence, and Yanzi and I took the 100,000 yuan sponsored by her mother and some of the money I borrowed, and paid the down payment for the house.

Then there is a complete set of various procedures for buying a house, paying various deed taxes, bank mortgages, handling real estate certificates, and the house keys are quickly obtained. The whole family was immersed in a joyful atmosphere, but I was not happy, I always felt that I was a man, and I spent 100,000 yuan that my parents had worked hard to save, and I felt uneasy and guilty.

At this time, Yanzi didn't mention how proud she was, she spoke with a lot of confidence, and she didn't discuss with me about the decoration of the house at all, and she didn't even ask for my opinion, so she volunteered to be responsible for all the matters related to the decoration of the house with her parents. From the signing of the decoration contract and the style of decoration, to a basin and a shoe cabinet。。。。。。 All matters related to decoration were taken care of by Yanzi, and in those days, Yanzi could clearly see her ugly appearance of "turning into a serf and becoming the master".

Why should people have such a mentality? It's just that her parents took out 100,000 yuan, and the 100,000 yuan was not given to me at all, and the house was not bought for me to live alone at all, as for this ugliness? Forget it, after all, my parents paid 100,000 yuan for us to buy a house, and I should be grateful to them. Besides, I go to work every day, and I don't have time to worry about the details of the decoration of the house, since the swallow is happy, and she has nothing to do at home all day, she is happy, let her be happy and busy.

Soon, in less than two months, a house of nearly 100 square meters with nondescript decoration style was renovated, and almost all the decoration materials were made of the lowest end of building materials, which could not be blamed on Yanzi and her parents. After all, Yanzi's parents are just ordinary retired workers, it is really not easy to save this money from between the teeth for a lifetime, Yanzi spent a lot of money on their first marriage, Yanzi spent a lot of money to marry after the divorce, and Yanzi spent money to Yanzi to open a clothing store, and now he has taken out 100,000 yuan for us to buy a house, Chinese-style parents are really great.

At that time, this house cost us nearly 300,000 yuan, 40,000 yuan for the down payment, decoration and various deed taxes, etc., and I borrowed 150,000 yuan with my housing provident fund, a total of 300,000 yuan. Among them, Yanzi's parents sponsored 100,000 yuan, I borrowed 50,000 yuan, and the remaining 150,000 bank loans and the interest generated by them will be repaid by my provident fund. In this way, I didn't lose money Yanzi and their family or anything, after all, I made a big deal out of the purchase money, Yanzi didn't pay a penny, Yanzi's parents made a small part instead of Yanzi, that's all, the family should live a good life regardless of each other, not should be calculated by each other.

After thinking about it like this, I can't be considered to have lost money to their family or anything, but I still feel very guilty in my heart and feel uncomfortable, after all, I spent my parents' hard-earned money to buy a house. What I have left in my heart is uncomfortable and guilt and gratitude to Yanzi's parents, but Yanzi has since used her parents to take out 100,000 yuan to show off and despise my contempt for my efforts, in the eyes of her and her parents, it was I who spent their money to buy this house that belongs to me, but the key to the problem is that this house does not belong to me alone, Yanzi accounts for 50% of the share, I really don't know what they thought in their heads at that time! Since then, Swallow and her parents have fallen into such a great imbalance and cannot extricate themselves; Since then, Swallow and her parents have tried to trample me underfoot.

I really think it's funny, and I'm not one of the kind of men who can step on the soles of their feet if they want to!