Hanhan and I were in the song hall on the night of our first date, we were in love, this is a surprise that makes people feel unexpected, or a kind of natural and easy-to-go, anyway, I can't say, but I believe that there may really be providence in the dark.

We have been in a formal relationship since that night, but, maybe it's because of the second marriage, the second marriage is because they have concerns in their hearts, so no matter how much they pay, but the concern in their hearts can't be left behind, especially for me.

I have a daughter who is in the third year of junior high school, it is the key year of the high school entrance examination, the love I give to Hanhan should not conflict with the love given to my daughter, Hanhan also understood my approach at the beginning, after all, she also has a daughter, although the child was not awarded to her when the divorce occurred, but as a mother, Hanhan will still pick up her daughter home every weekend.

After the divorce, Hanhan lived in a very small house in the city, which was a unit converted from her parents, very small, but in the city center, in addition to the small and simple house, shopping consumption is very convenient, Hanhan's parents moved back to their hometown in the countryside after retirement, and this house just gave Hanhan a place to live after the divorce.

Since we dated that night, we have started to have a formal relationship, I will use the weekend time to go to Hanhan, but in any case I will definitely go back on Sunday night, because Monday is the day of my daughter's school, at that time I was still very clear-headed, and I no longer have the courage and courage to love someone desperately, because we have each other in our hearts, and there is a shadow of the old people; Because we still have children in our hearts, children are our endless hope. A person, whether a man or a woman, you can choose to abandon your husband or wife, but you must never choose to abandon your children, if so, you don't even have humanity, will you still get love? , people promise, and heaven will not agree!

In this way, every weekend, I would use one day to arrange for my daughter to be at home, and then go to the city to be with Hanhan.

Han Han is a woman who loves neatness and cleanliness, and my characteristics are also neat and clean, and I see that the small house in Hanhan's house is always cleaned up and organized by her. Han Han said that she hates the hair that falls on the ground the most when she cleans, whenever she sees the hair falling on the ground, Han Han will always squat down and pick it up with her hands, but the extremely fine hair sometimes can't be picked up by hand, Han Han had to call me to hand her a tissue, she will use the tissue to carefully wrap her hair and pick it up, and by the way, she will take this not very dirty tissue to wipe other places on the ground that seem to be a little dirty, that kind of concentration makes me feel really cute and funny, and it also adds to the unique sexiness of women.

But Hanhan has a shortcoming that always makes me linger, she always asks me for money to spend as a matter of course, or buy more expensive gifts, I don't care at the beginning, men, after all, I should take on the responsibility of earning money to support my family, not to mention that at that time my financial tension has been alleviated, but sometimes her request is obviously beyond my bearing.

There are many women in the world who are really stupid and stupid, they think that they are women, just because they are women, they can spend men's money unscrupulously and deservedly, I don't know what kind of logic this is! A man takes the initiative to spend money on you, that's love; If you take the initiative to ask a man for money to spend, it is begging, of course, this situation has nothing to do with becoming a husband and wife after marriage, and it is still in the relationship period after all. Many women just don't understand this truth, and the final outcome is often a chicken and egg fight.

Later, I analyzed it, if a woman takes the initiative to spend a man's money, one situation is to meet a scumbag, this kind of scumbag is very scheming, she will always make up various reasons to spend a man's money, if they get married later, it means that the man loves her very much; If she has not come to the step of talking about marriage, then such a woman has made enough money and will not suffer losses. The second kind of woman who takes the initiative to ask a man for money is purely a liar, and she can't catch up with a scumbag, a scumbag girl has at least two plans, and this kind of woman has only one plan, that is, just to cheat a man's money, you just can't feed her no matter how much you give her, because she doesn't want to be with you at all, and she is only with you for money. The last kind of woman is the most universal, that is, she thinks that she doesn't have to rely on anything, just because she is a woman, she can spend men's money unscrupulously and let men support her for a lifetime, and the fate of this kind of woman is often very sad.

The interaction between people is actually an exchange of interests, many beauties marry into a wealthy family with their beauty, but she is just a beauty, men give a lot of money for beauty, this exchange of interests is reciprocal, but as the years of water quietly slip away, such as flowers and faces are no longer there, then the money paid by this man and your person Lao Zhuhuang will have a serious asymmetry, at that time, such a woman will definitely be kicked out, such examples abound, There are even beauties who have even gotten mixed up on the streets in their old age!

When something like this happens, you can't blame the man for being a negative man, but you should blame you for getting yourself wrong. Men spend money on beauty, but men don't like beauty as a wife. What a man needs is a gentle, virtuous, self-respecting and self-loving woman to help him fight the country and raise children together, not just a beauty to dress up the façade. When your value is only limited to beauty, then when your face fades due to aging, you are not worth that money, and your exit will be taken for granted.

A wise woman must be a wise woman, she will respect herself and love herself, and she will attract men with her inner excellent qualities, not just by her own appearance and gender. However, just by virtue of her identity as a woman, there are too many women who yell at men and spend men's money as unscrupulously as a parasite.

I don't know what kind of woman Han Han belongs to, but one thing I can be sure of is that Han Han is definitely not the second type of woman mentioned above, and I can't say anything else. Don't try to guess the human heart, because the human heart is incomprehensible.

However, at that time, I didn't care about this, and I didn't know what a woman's routine was, I just naively thought, maybe it would be good to wait until we got married, and then I would hand over the payroll to her, and I would be fine.