When I started to fall in love with Hanhan, I had already made it very clear to her that I still have a daughter who is in the third year of junior high school, and I have to take care of the child, as for getting married, at least until the child successfully enters high school, at that time, Hanhan also agreed with my idea. However, after about five months of our relationship, Hanhan began to become very clingy to me, insisting that I go over to accompany her every night, but this is something I can't do, at least for now.

We were in a cold war, and I still arranged for my daughter to go to the city on Sunday to accompany her. It was Sunday afternoon, and Hanhan insisted that I wait until Monday morning to go back, but my daughter was about to start a new week of classes on Monday morning, so I didn't promise her anyway, and in the end, I had to promise her to finish dinner with her before leaving. But when I had finished dinner with her, she still refused to let me go back, and said some nonsense that she did not have in my heart as important as my daughter's heart, and no matter how I explained it, she would not listen.

Finally, when she saw that I had made up my mind to leave tonight, she said to me, "You can go, but from now on you don't come again, let's break up"!

At that time, I thought she was just saying an angry word, and I didn't take it seriously, so I went straight home.

She may have taken it seriously, and when I called her when I got home, she just wouldn't answer and wouldn't reply to texts. On the weekend, I had to buy a small gift and go to her, but no matter how much I knocked on the door, she wouldn't open the door. I heard her in the house, but she wouldn't open the door。。。。。。 It was like this for several weekends on end, and my heart grew cold.

It was like this for several weekends, and I thought she might just be angry, not really breaking up like that.

Another weekend, I went to look for Hanhan, she still didn't open the door, disheartened, I came to a small bar not far downstairs, drunk. When I came to the door of Hanhan's house again with the strength of wine, Hanhan still hid in the house and did not open the door. I patted her door over and over again, and the sound of banging on the door became louder and louder, at this time, Han Han looked at me as if she was going to slap the door of her house, and finally said to me coldly through the door: "You go, we are already over." If you bang on the door again, I'll call the police. ”

I thought she said this maybe just to scare me, I didn't take it seriously, I still banged on her door, maybe she would open the door later, and we would get back together, after all, there is no irreconcilable contradiction between us, and there is no deep hatred.

After a while, the police car really came, and she really called the police. Hearing the sound of the police coming, she finally opened the door and came out, pointed at me and told the police that she didn't know me at all, and made up nonsense that I often stalked and harassed her, hoping that the police would detain me immediately! This is really a vicious woman, like a vicious dog, you can call the police, but you can't make it up, you can't let the police detain me, the former warmth fell apart in an instant. Fortunately, in the face of police interrogation, I was able to fluently say Hanhan's name, household registration location, as well as her ID number and mobile phone number, which made the police believe that we belonged to an ordinary dispute between lovers, and did not belong to that kind of malicious harassment.

The police are gone, it's time for me to go home, this woman is so vicious and indifferent, I don't want it!

When I got home, it was twelve o'clock at night, and although my mood was not so low, I still couldn't sleep. Maybe this is the difference between the second marriage and the first marriage, the first marriage is difficult to let go, but the second time you meet the person can be let go so easily.

I know, it's not that there is any essential difference in the relationship between the first time and the second time, but because the first time the two have been together for too long, there are too many tangled things, there are common children, there are those family assets that have been saved because of common hard work, there are so many days and nights, there are family and friends who are already very familiar with each other, and the heart of the first time is like a blank sheet of paper, and it has never been loaded with others。。。。。。 And this love with Hanhan seems so short and pale, our hearts have been filled with others, we have been together for a short time, there are not so many handovers and entanglements, maybe we just slept, and we didn't really love, we can let go, that's inevitable.

The next day, I got up early to make breakfast, my children and I had to go to work and school, and in the morning I received a text message from Han Han: "The police found me in the morning and said that they were going to detain you, what are you going to do?" Otherwise, you give me 5,000 yuan, and I will dredge up with the police so that the police will not detain you! ”

Dizzy! Women are really a special species, a special species that is more ruthless than wolves, and more poisonous than snakes. I didn't do anything illegal and undisciplined, at most it can only be regarded as a conflict between lovers, to put it seriously, it can only be said to be entangled, why should the police detain me? I ignored the text message, which also strengthened my determination to break up.

After I read this text message, I just smiled and didn't have any reply, I'm glad she would send me such a text message, so that I can further see her ugly face, why do women who have broken up like to bite back indiscriminately?

Unexpectedly, in the afternoon, seeing that I didn't make any action, she took the initiative to call: "You think clearly, give me 5,000 yuan, and I will let the police not detain you, otherwise, don't blame me for not reminding you."

"Thank you for your kindness, you can let the police come to me." With that, I hung up. However, the police never came to me, and I knew that this was this woman's extortion of me. However, with the lessons that Ye'er, a woman, once gave me, when I met other women blackmailing me again, I seemed so calm and strange.

I'm glad that the relationship between me and Hanhan ended like this, there was no injury, no pain, just such a faint experience like the wind blowing.

About a week later, the female colleague who had introduced me to Hanhan and I found me, and when we met, she said to me, I'm really sorry, and when she heard the news of our breakup, her heart was no longer entangled.

It turned out that this female colleague of mine really didn't know much about her female classmate Hanhan, and at that time, she only thought about the beauty of adults and introduced Hanhan to me without thinking. Later, she learned from other classmates that Hanhan's divorce was because she cheated on herself, and her husband, who was driving out to pull ore, suddenly came home one day to pick up something and bumped into her, and her crazy husband threw all her clothes and other supplies out of the house on the spot, making her disappear immediately. Within a few months, Hanhan received a summons from the local court, her husband sued for divorce from her, and she had no choice but to embark on the road to the south. She originally thought that even if she divorced, she should at least get a share of the family property of hundreds of thousands or even hundreds of thousands, because they had two cars that traveled between mines all year round to pull ore, and the income was quite considerable.

But that all changed when she went to court. In the months since she left, her husband has turned all his assets into negative numbers, and he has also taken out a large stack of IOUs to prove that he is operating in debt. At that time, Han Han was stupid and blind, and all the beauty and luck instantly came to naught. She wanted to refute, but what was the use of rebuttal! Because just because she cheated and was caught red-handed, the court can sentence her to leave the house and divorce, and anyone hates a woman who does not keep her duty.

Hanhan had to swallow the bitter fruit she planted, but when this female colleague of mine knew all this, she found that we had begun to be in love, and she only silently thought about our good in her heart, until she knew that we broke up, she told me the news.

It's no wonder that on the night of Hanhan and I went on our first date, in that song hall, she would sing the song "The Sea" over and over again so emotionally and devotedly, she was regretting that she had made her mistakes and let everything go down the drain.

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If the sea could

Take away my sorrows

It's like taking every river

All the injuries that have been suffered

All the tears that have flowed

My love

Please take them all!