Chapter 31: A Lot of Joy and a Lot of Sorrow
The three of us lived in the same ward, and after a short time, we became very familiar, there was no strangeness and vigilance, and more of a mutual sympathy and encouragement for our common destiny, we were as lively and warm as a big family, and the in-service company commander of this unit always shouted "second brother" on the left and a "second brother" on the right when he saw me, and the 50-year-old provincial man was respectfully shouting "big brother", and his age was the youngest of the three of us. But Yanzi, who was still depressed just now because she couldn't give birth, after listening to everyone's introduction, her face suddenly became extremely ugly and disgusting.
After everyone introduced each other and got acquainted with each other, the attitude of the woman Yanzi towards the two couples who shared the same ward with us took a 180-degree turn. For the military couple with a better family background, the swallow is always full of smiles, perhaps more of a flattery and flattery, like the charm of spring; As for the other couple of old husband and young wife, Yanzi is reluctant to take care of others, the expression on his face shows his superiority and discrimination against others, as cold as winter and full of discrimination, this is really a dirty, ugly and hateful woman!
She is one of the most shameless and ugly parasites in the world, and she discriminates against others in turn, the crux of the matter is what qualifications does she have to discriminate against others? She has no qualifications, it's as if she discriminates against me, she doesn't have any capital to discriminate against others, I don't know where she learned this ugly mentality! Where does her confidence come from? It's just the only daughter of an ordinary retired worker's family, with a thick figure and a face that people dare not compliment, and nothing else. Every time I come back to the ward from the outside, I can always see the swallow eyebrows dancing and the military wife talking and laughing, and the old husband and young wife sitting on the hospital bed are just there awkwardly looking at the mobile phone, in order to get rid of this embarrassment, every time I encounter this situation, I always find a topic to chat with the old husband and young wife, we talk about our customs here, talk about the geography of their hometown. They were very surprised that my understanding of the geographical environment of their hometown was far better than their own understanding of the geographical environment of their hometown, mountains, rivers and lakes, customs, minerals, city coordinates。。。。。。 At this time, they always showed amazement and admiration, because they didn't know that I was the best in geography and English when I went to school, but by mistake, I ended up being a math teacher who taught math.
The two couples have already started to successfully carry out embryo IVF, while Yanzi has to endure the pain of the doctor performing the fallopian tube unblocking surgery on her every once in a while. Because the swallow's bilateral fallopian tubes are blocked, it must be dredged so that the eggs can be discharged from the fallopian tubes, and with the discharged eggs, there is the possibility of IVF. Every time Swallow has a tubal unclogging operation, it is always in pain. Tubal dredging surgery is like a master worker holding a steel bar or a wooden stick to unclog a clogged sewer, so violent and so determined to succeed, you can imagine the incomparably painful pain of the swallow every time he undergoes the tubal dredging operation. Every time Swallow came out of the operating room after tubal dredging surgery, I could see tears in Swallow's eyes because of the pain of the operation, but when I thought about this woman's attitude towards these two couples in the hospital room, I lost the sympathy I should have.
In the days that followed, the embryos of the two couples had successfully grown and germinated in the test tube. After a few days, the embryos that had already sprouted were successfully transferred to the mothers of the two young mothers, and the baby could grow up in the mother's womb with peace of mind. We are all happy for them, in the next few days, they just need to go home to take care of the fetus and take care of their bodies, ten months later, these two young wives can fulfill their dream of motherhood, and these two husbands will be fathers, looking at their joyful appearance these days, it feels more lively and festive than anything else.
Yanzi and I were also full of joy and anticipation from this festive atmosphere, it seems that this is really a first-class women's and children's hospital, and I feel that it doesn't take much to fulfill the dream of the mother of these two young wives, and I am really happy for them. Their success also indicates that we will also succeed, and the swallows in those days are always happy, with a smile on their faces wherever they go, and their attitude towards the old husband and young wife is also much gentler.
The two couples went home one after another, and when they parted, the mother-to-be and Yanzi left each other's phone numbers and home addresses, and they agreed to visit each other when they came home and settled down.
They are gone, and we who stayed have entered the time to retrieve eggs and cultivate embryos, but several times in a row, all the eggs taken out of the swallow's body are not qualified, and some eggs are like very small balloons, there is no egg nucleus in them, and the eggs without the egg nucleus cannot be cultivated embryos, and the few eggs with an egg nucleus do not have the conditions to cultivate embryos. The swallow is blinded, the swallow's mother is also blinded, although I am not so exaggerated, but I just can't figure out the eggs that can be retrieved through the dredging surgery of the fallopian tubes, but these eggs are useless eggs, which is really incomprehensible! There are still useless eggs in the world, so how can the eggs of those two expectant mothers be useful, but the eggs of the swallows cannot be used!
The joy and anticipation suddenly plummeted, and Swallow and Swallow's mother still did not believe the result, and they begged the doctor to keep giving ovulation induction injections and asked the doctor to take more eggs to try, but their request was sternly rejected by the doctor. The doctor said that they had done their best to do their best, and if they continued like this, it would be extremely irresponsible for the patient's health, and it could lead to huge medical accidents, and no one could afford the result and risk.
When we went through the discharge procedures and discharged from the hospital that day, Yanzi's mother was also there, I walked in front with a solemn expression, and Yanzi followed me closely with red eyes and tears, at this time, Yanzi swept away the kind of high-minded discrimination against others a few days ago, she was like a lost dog, listless, dull expression, eyes full of tears, however, at this time the swallow really made me a little pitiful, after all, having a baby of their own is the greatest expectation and achievement of all women in the world.
Faced with the doctor's instructions to "go home and take care of your body, and try again in a few years, maybe it will be successful", Yanzi's mother just walked out of the hospital gate, and scolded her daughter in extreme disappointment: "I won't do it in a few years!" The body has become like this, and when you get older in a few years, you won't be successful! Every day at home, I know that I am lazy to eat, I don't want to do anything from childhood to adulthood, I know that I eat, sleep, sleep and eat all day long, and those women can give birth to a few if they want to, and you can't give birth if you spend money. When I get home, you immediately go out for me to find a job, and don't let us keep you anymore! ”
Along the way, Yanzi's mother chattered and scolded her daughter.