Fang Piaolan sighed lightly and said, "I understand. It's just that...... How good would it be if I were strong...... I don't have the ability, so I drag people down and hurt people...... Remember you said before that you would most like to see me get stronger and stronger...... But not only did I fail to do it, but I also hurt you because I didn't have the ability...... My incompetence is my own sorrow, and it has become your sorrow. A person's incompetence is the sorrow of herself and all those who have a good relationship with her. Even if she doesn't drag others down, but she lacks the ability, how many people will be helped to do how much? But I didn't have the opportunity to learn anything since I was a child, my grandfather gave me the best food and clothes he could give, he greeted me with warmth, cared for me, and he would try to meet my other wishes, and I was always very grateful to him, but he didn't want me to learn skills, and my grandfather said, 'Skills will kill people!' His only brother and his beloved wife both died because of his skills, and he was extremely stimulated in this regard, so he didn't let me learn the skills I can understand, although I have always wanted to learn, but grandpa bought me, raised me, has given me too many favors, I can no longer ask him for anything, let alone touch his bottom line to do what he is least willing to let me do. I didn't learn any skills since I was a child, so I didn't do well at first when I entered the Iron Cangting, but I was very attentive, and then I made some progress, but I was too late for many things. A person's ability is not necessarily easy to kill himself because of the tree's big wind, which also depends on other aspects, but if a person has no skills, not only will his own survival be affected, but also bring trouble to others, which is harmful to himself and others. If I can start all over again, if I have the opportunity to learn skills in my new life, I will definitely make myself as strong as possible, not only will not harm myself or others, but I can also protect others and protect you, just ...... It's just that there are no ifs in this world......"

Fei Cunyi saw that she was still so self-blaming, and said: "Indeed, I said before that I would like to see you get stronger and stronger, because I love you sincerely." If a person's affection for another person is a genuine love from the heart rather than possession filled with lust, then he must want that person to grow stronger and stronger. If you love her, you will want her ability to survive and develop stronger. If you not only don't want the other party to become stronger, but also try to reduce the other party's ability to survive and develop independently, then the idea is tantamount to cruel murder. Most of the two parties who come together in this world will not die at the same time, and most of them will not be together all the time, so when both parties are together, they should consider the other party, and try to ensure that even if they are not by the other party's side, the other party has the ability to continue to live alone. When two people who love each other are together, they should grow together. Love is not a bundle that binds the development of either party, but a force that makes both parties stronger, even if they have to face life and death in the future, either party is easier to continue to live because they have grown stronger than they once were in love. Of course, this strength is not only in terms of survivability, but also in spirit. I want you to be strong, just because I love you. On the other hand, if a person truly loves the other person, he will never judge and measure the other person by how much ability that person already has, and will not be close to or dislike the other person because of his or her ability, because only the other person is loved. Hoping that the other party will become stronger and stronger is just wishing that the person you love will be easier to survive and develop, and it is by no means coveting the other party's strength to bring you any convenience. ”