In the midst of all the stakes, I agreed to my request to marry this woman, and when I got home that night, I took a deep breath, like a warrior about to go to war, and sent her a text message with the spirit of fearlessness in the face of death: Okay, let's get married.

We made an appointment to get together again on the weekend, and in the following days, we didn't have any passion, and we had already made an appointment to get married, and we didn't even want to send text messages, let alone talk about talking on the phone, I felt as if I was forced to complete a task, no surprises, no loss, and it felt as if everything was so natural. Now I am really amazed why I had so much courage at that time, and it was an extremely irresponsible behavior for myself!

I don't blame myself at that time, three years of loneliness and loneliness made my cognition and judgment skewed, and the days when I was alone with children made me fall in love with wine. The key is that if you can control yourself from drinking less or not getting drunk, it is not the charm and unique attraction of wine, every time I drink, I always get drunk to death, and every time I get drunk, I swear that I will never get drunk again next time, so repeatedly, so drunk and messy.

The magic of wine lies in this, people are really a very lowly species, you have to taste the sweets and sours of the world, bitter and salty, to know the true taste of life. Everyone yearns for the sweet taste, but once the sweet things are eaten too much, and they can't even eat a few bites, people want to change to spicy, a very spicy taste, straight to the throat, nose and mouth, but people are very masochistic to enjoy this spicy taste. I eat too much spicy food, and I want to change the sour one; I eat too much sour, and I want to change the hemp one; The hemp eats too much, and wants to change the bitter one; I have eaten too much bitterness, and I want to change the salty 。。。。。。 That's it, we have to taste all the flavors of the world, I think this is our human masochism, not because of curiosity. Therefore, in the future, people should stop sighing so hypocritically: the world is really good, but it is too bitter. With such a variety of flavors in the world, it has only changed the world, who can blame it? It's all done!

Other animals don't have the masochistic quirks of us humans, they always enjoy their tastes unchanged, so they live very contented and comfortable. "The world is really good, but it's too bitter", in fact, the world is not bitter, the reason why people generally feel that the world is too bitter is definitely because of people's dissatisfaction and masochistic eccentricities, which is our masterpiece of human beings.

Yes, take a child at home, cook something delicious, pork stewed vermicelli, roasted beef with Chinese cabbage, and eat two large bowls of rice, how comfortable this life should be. But why do self-masochists add the word "drunk" in front of the word "full"?

It turned out that I didn't understand a sentence very much: don't be too good to a woman, and the end of you being too good to a woman is to accelerate this woman's betrayal of you; Don't be too nice to a woman, the end of you being too nice to a woman is to hasten her departure.

Now I understand, if you are too good to a woman, it is like eating too much sweets for her, and this woman will feel greasy, and after a long time, this woman will want to go out and eat something bitter, spicy, and sour。。。。。。 Although life on the outside may be bad, she enjoys the stimulation of this masochistic behavior. Because there are all kinds of flavors in the world, there will be all kinds of things in the world. How good is the red apricot in the yard, there are tall courtyard walls around it to reduce the damage of wind and rain to it, but it would rather take the risk to get the red apricot out of the wall, maybe it just feels really tired of being in the yard.

Yes, maybe it's because I was so good to Ye'er before, that's why I've come to this point.

However, I understand this truth, but I still can't figure it out, and it's even more impossible for me to be bad to my own woman, maybe it's the cheapness that comes with me in my bones.

The weekend is coming soon, I arranged my daughter in advance and asked for leave with the unit, I wanted to go directly to her small shop to have a look. According to the address she gave me in a text message, I quickly found her shop at about 3 o'clock in the afternoon that weekend. It's really a small shop, a small storefront, there are shelves in the middle with a lot of clothes hanging, and the walls around her are also used by her, hanging all kinds of dazzling women's clothes, she saw me come in, looked at me in surprise, and said: "Ordinary people can't find it, how can you find it so easily?" ”

"IQ!" I replied in a contemptuous and proud tone.

I didn't see any customers in the store, and she was sitting at the cash register playing a computer game, a small laptop. We were all embarrassed to say a few polite words. She said, "Do you know why I'm in such a hurry to marry you? ”

"I don't know!" I'm for my children, who are you for? This answer seems irrelevant to me. She said that she was for her mother, since the divorce, she moved back to her mother's house, in the face of her mother's nagging all day long, but also in the face of her own growing age, she decided to be able to find a man to marry soon, in order to get rid of her mother's constant nagging. It seems that she decided to get married in a flash for her mother, and I was for my children, and under this special need to take what we wanted, we both took risks and decided to get married in a flash. But she didn't know why I was in such a hurry to get married, and I didn't tell her, I guess even now, she doesn't know why I married her in the first place.

At dinner that night, she looked very excited, with an eyebrow raised, her face flushed, and even the sweaty oil could be clearly seen on her head. The place for dinner on this weekend date was also chosen by her in advance, it was a large private room in a larger hotel, and when she led me into this private room, it was already full of people, and when I wondered if I was in the wrong room, she pulled me and said, yes, this is the room. She said she was going to bring her siblings and best friend to me tonight. Why didn't she tell me in advance when I was in her shop just now? I had no choice but to bite the bullet and follow her in.

After a while, everyone came, I seemed very attentive to hand them cigarettes and poured drinks and drinks, and several of her girlfriends looked at me very curiously, excitedly and enthusiastically, and then happily took the drinks and said, "You're welcome, we'll come by ourselves." Her siblings seemed to ignore my presence, and it was obvious that they were just a family party, or that they were here to make up the numbers.

During the first meeting, the woman named Yanzi introduced me to her relatives and friends, and she made a special point of emphasizing that we were getting married. Several of her best friends took the opportunity to coax: "When?" Just get married at the end of this month"!

I was noncommittal, and she was very excited to toast one by one, and she seemed a little incoherent when she was so excited that she even spoke.