I fell asleep in a daze with a fluke mentality.

The next morning, I still took the baby to the street for breakfast, and then went to work and school, the baby is already in the fifth grade of primary school, and before I know it, the baby has grown up. However, since Ye'er and I had a baby, Ye'er has hardly interrupted gambling, interspersed with dancing ambiguously, Ye'er has gone from playing mahjong as a pastime at the beginning to a gambler who can bankrupt your family, break up your wife, and ruin your family.

I was giving my child the first lesson in the classroom, and Ye'er really came to the school where I worked and asked me for money. I saw Ye Er walk directly into my classroom, and said to me with an expressionless face, I'm here to get the money, if you don't give money today, then you don't have to go to class. After saying it to me, Ye'er said to the students again, you teacher has something to do, you should go to self-study first.

Ye'er is already crazy, I guess today's day must be the last day for those loan sharks to set for Ye'er to repay the money, otherwise Ye'er won't be mad and inhuman to such a point, I really want to step forward and smack her with a big mouth, and then a fish will die!

However, I had my baby, and I had a class of forty or fifty children who looked at me in astonishment and panic, and I had to say to the students, "It's okay, you can do the exercises in the book first, and the teacher will go out for something." ”

Then, I walked out of the classroom, I didn't get angry, for so many years, I have become accustomed to not being angry, when you meet such a woman, you will either be ruthless, the fish will die, and divorce! Either she is forbearing, just as she is air, you just have to be yourself, because she no longer belongs to people, she is just a biped.

A male colleague of mine is a person like Ye'er, except that he doesn't play pai gow, he is only addicted to playing mahjong and gambling for money. Every afternoon after getting off work and not going back to the casino, and then it is to play mahjong and gamble all night long, until dawn before returning to school to work, every class is almost for students to study by themselves, they are sleepy, lying on the podium table to sleep, in a daze sleep, often cold out of a few dream words: "nine, Hu", "two cakes, touch"。。。。。。。 At that time, the school leaders did not have an effective management mechanism to restrain this kind of person, in fact, even with the corresponding management mechanism, you could not effectively manage this kind of person. Because he, like Ye'er, no longer belongs to the category of human beings, they are just bipedal animals, they no longer have human nature, let alone conscience, morality, and so on, which are beautiful emotions that only human beings have.

Once, he met a more upright and strong principal, who did not arrange for him to substitute for the new semester, and asked him to find another job to teach in a remote mountain village primary school. This gambler colleague of mine, when he heard this decision, just smiled contemptuously, didn't say a word, walked directly into the principal's office, didn't say anything, just sat quietly in the principal's office to read the newspaper and drink tea, and when it was time to get off work, he followed the principal, and went directly to the principal's house one after the other, and then he didn't say a word, served his own meal, and after the meal, he lay down on the sofa in the living room of the principal's house to sleep。。。。。。 In this way, in less than a week, he was not crazy, but the principal was going crazy, and in the end, the principal had to take back his words and help him rearrange his lessons.

The kindness and forbearance of human beings only exacerbate the greed, intensification and unscrupulousness of these bipeds! In this way, our honest and kind and somewhat strong principal compromised, as did the wife of my colleague.

This colleague of mine and his wife have two children, a boy and a girl. Whenever I find that my colleague does not return home from work, his wife will go crazy door to door every casino to find my colleague who loves gambling money, when she finds her husband like discovering the new world, her husband is always very calm and calmly playing his mahjong cards, and then not surprised to say to his wife slowly: "I am like this, if you can't stand it, you can divorce at any time, I will not affect you, and I will never drag you back half a step." As for the child, whatever you want, anyway, my hobby is to play mahjong and gamble for money, and the child will be raised by me, and he will starve to death, whatever you want, the child you want to want, and if you don't want it, throw it away, don't pester me in the future! ”

My colleague's wife had no choice but to compromise, we didn't understand his wife's approach at that time, why didn't she choose to divorce when she met such a scumbag husband? Later, we learned about his wife's hardships, and his wife said to others that the reason why they swallowed their anger and chose not to divorce was because they already had two young children, even if his husband was addicted to gambling every day and did not return home like a living dead, but as long as he did not divorce, then the family was still a complete home after all, and the two young children at least had a father. If she chooses to divorce, she has two children, and it is almost impossible to remarry, and even if she remarries, who will treat her children as their own? If you get divorced, the home will be gone, and the child's father will be gone, since this is the case, it is better to swallow your anger and toss with him, after all, it is better for the child to have a father of the living dead than nothing!

This is the heartfelt thoughts and helplessness of a heartbroken mother and wife, none of us can understand the helpless choice of this mother and wife, we always think that her approach is stupid and unworthy. But now I understand that many things don't happen to me, and others will never be able to empathize!

Ye'er followed me out of the classroom and said to me, "If you give me money today, I won't ask you for money again in the future, whether you win or lose." If you don't give me the money today, then I'll immediately go back to the casino and borrow from a loan shark, and as long as we don't divorce for a day, you'll be obliged to pay it back! ”

I said, "Don't be foolish about dreams, even if you want money in the future, you won't be able to get it." Because this is the only 30,000 yuan in the family, if it is given to you, the family will not have a penny. ”

"That's right, if you give me all the money, I will die in the future, and this will cut off my thoughts!" Ye'er said.

Yes, I gave Ye'er the only money I had at home, and Ye'er would stop thinking about winning or losing gambling in the future, and I also took the opportunity to get rid of Ye'er's entanglement day and night. Maybe what Ye Er said is right, maybe it's really a good choice! Maybe I gave all the money left in the family to Ye'er, and Ye'er will have no financial resources in the future, maybe Ye'er will really get lost, turn back, and stay away from the casino.

Now I finally understand what my colleague's wife did, what a helpless, heartbreaking, and kind choice it was!