Chapter 13 This Time Is Not a Trouble
I'm not an alcoholic, an alcoholic is a kind of person who can't live without alcohol, and I just use the effect of alcohol to temporarily paralyze and vent my bad mood, or the resentment in my heart, I don't need a psychiatrist, alcohol is the best medicine to blindly treat this complex psychology.
The recent drunken accidents have been reaching my ears one after another.
In a unit not far from us, two of their employees, one was disabled due to drunkenness, and the other was in a car accident due to drunkenness, and the person was lost on the spot. Because their unit is not far from our school, and we are both locals, we are not very strangers to each other. One of the people who was disabled by drunkenness is not the first time this has happened, he is an alcoholic, loves to drink, and he will get drunk whenever he drinks, maybe this can't blame him, his life pressure is indeed very heavy.
People of our age are almost all five or six brothers and sisters in every family, and he is no exception, and the brothers and sisters in his family are six together, and they are all married, and he has three more children, and he was just trying to have a boy, the first two are girls, and the youngest is a boy. The key is that the wife he married also has many brothers and sisters, eight brothers and sisters, and they have also started a family.
His monthly salary is not to mention supporting the elderly and raising children, just the gift money every month is sometimes not enough, and he also talks about the quality of life! Because the husband and wife together have fourteen brothers and sisters alone, one child is married, the other child is 10 years old, and the other family is 20 years old。。。。。。 A cycle has not ended, and when the married younger generation has a child, the full moon ceremony, the 100-day ceremony, the first birthday ceremony, and the 10-year-old ceremony, one after another, so many etiquettes make him always overwhelmed, and his salary is sometimes not enough to cope with these etiquette. His wife only works day and night for others, often doing two different jobs a day, only in this way, his family's life can barely be maintained, you can imagine how much pressure his life is, only drinking, and only drinking may make him temporarily forget the troubles of life, sadness and difficulty.
There are three kinds of money that cannot be saved. One is the money for etiquette, which is the money that a family has to spend to support the door; The second is the money for eating, the body is the foundation of everything, so the expenses for eating cannot be saved; The third is the money for education, only if you are willing to spend money on education, can you gradually get rid of the fate of this kind of bottom people, and you can also earn more money because of your high education, so as to completely change your quality of life.
I often hear about what happened to him because he was drunk. Once, after drinking too much, he rode home on a motorcycle, and the narrow road could only meet two cars, so he had to stop on the side of the road and ride on the motorcycle, so that the motorcycle would not fall crooked. He drunkenly cursed why the damn road was so narrow in the first place, while waiting for the truck behind him to slow down. If it is a normal person, when he sees the truck behind him slowing down and the truck on the opposite side of the road, he will definitely try to stop and wait on the side of the road, and will definitely shrink his feet as much as possible, but because he was in a drunken state at the time, they all said that drunk people are heroes, and he looks like he is not afraid of heaven and earth, when he sees that the truck is about to pass by him, he not only does not shrink his feet as much as possible, but insists on stretching out, just like that, only to hear a scream, his feet were pressed by the truck.
Fortunately, the speed of the truck was not fast at that time, and fortunately, the truck driver found it in time and hurriedly stopped, but just like that, his left thumb was still crushed by the truck and fractured, and he rested in the hospital and at home for about two months, and he rode a motorcycle to work again.
When he arrived at work, several friends who usually drank with him competed to celebrate his health, return to the wine field, and return to work. It's really good to forget the pain, not only did these drinking and meat friends not learn a lesson from his accident, but they instigated one by one to say, what are you afraid of if you have a broken thumb, the doctor just sawed your thumb, and it still doesn't hinder your work, doesn't hinder your walking, and won't hinder you from drinking.
With such a group of bad friends, I am really speechless.
In this way, at noon on the first day of his return to work, he went to the hotel surrounded by a group of his friends. At that time, the unit generally did not explicitly prohibit employees from drinking at noon, and drunk driving was also a very normal behavior. At that time, our main mode of private transportation was motorcycles, but whenever we went to work a little further away from home, we usually rode motorcycles.
He hadn't drunk for a month or two, and he didn't need to be persuaded by others, he was the first to fill his wine glass, looking at the group of rotten brothers around him, the feelings were so sincere, the atmosphere was so warm, they had already thrown out the last time they broke their thumb due to drunkenness.
One by one, they got carried away, left and right, and before they knew it, almost everyone was drunk. In fact, there are no major events in the afternoon in their unit, they are all units with people floating in things, and the work of their unit is usually relatively leisurely, and the management of the unit at that time is not as sound and strict as it is now. After eating and drinking, he decided to go home and sleep in the afternoon, and another of his friends happened to go out with him to run some errands, and the two of them said goodbye to the others, and the motorcycle roared, and they drove in the direction of their home at a gallop.
He rode a motorcycle in front, and his friend followed closely behind him, one by one, running wildly down the road. Suddenly, his car hit a stone near the side of the road, and in an instant the motorcycle fell, slid sideways and fell on the side of the road not far away, and he was thrown out more than ten meters away, fortunately he was wearing a helmet at the time, otherwise, a small life was gone, but although he was wearing a helmet at that time, there were still two broken ribs, and the helmet was also broken, you can imagine how dangerous and tragic the situation was at that time.
And his friend, who was also riding a motorcycle behind him, instinctively turned the handlebars and changed direction when he saw the motorcycle in front of him accidentally fall and slide, it was this instinctive dodge action that made him hit a big truck speeding on the opposite side, he didn't have a helmet at the time, people, a person who was still talking and laughing at the wine table just now, just now disappeared in an instant.
In this way, he had an accident two months ago because of drunkenness, and at noon on the first day of work when he returned to work, such a tragic car accident occurred, resulting in one injury and one death.
When we heard the news, my friends seemed to think it was just an accident, and for me, it was a spasm!