Chapter IX Whose Question

"How did I change?" Zhen Zhen asked Hongyun.

"You rarely spend a day in the house. But after coming to Shangdu, it was obviously much quieter than before. Hongyun said.

"I don't have any friends in Shangdu, and I don't know the road well, so running around all day will only make my mother angry and worried, so it's better to read a few books in the house. People always have to grow up, and they can't wander around like children every day. Zhen Zhen knew that his quiet and calm personality was different from Zhen Zhen's liveliness, and he had already thought of a rhetoric about it.

"Reading is different, no wonder you know so much now." Hongyun helped Zhen Zhen make an attribution.

It seems to be so, although not read in this world. Zhen Zhen also smiled, and instead of correcting her, he asked, "Is it the reason why you don't talk because I talk more or less?"

Hongyun smiled and said, "Look at what you said, how is it possible?"

"You're not afraid of saying the wrong thing in front of me?"

"Well, it's usually fine, but I don't dare say anything when you read the book." Hongyun bit her lip.

"Okay, I got it." Zhen Zhen gave her an encouraging smile.

After Hongyun left, Zhen Zhen recorded the interview process in the afternoon according to his previous habit of recording cases.

After five days, Zhen Zhen took advantage of the fact that the two of them were in the house and asked how Hongyun felt these days?

Hongyun shook his head: "It's almost the same as before, I don't feel anything special."

"Then who have you been talking to these days besides me? It's okay, I'm just just asking, and I'll say whatever comes to mind. ”

"Two days ago, I went to Mama Wang to ask for cotton and cotton cloth, and I wanted to make a pair of cotton shoes for you, Miss. She has been complaining that the cotton in Shangdu this year is not good, not as good as Dazhou, and that the water in Shangdu is too cold. ”

"And what did you say?"

"I didn't say anything, just hummed." As if he felt that he had said something wrong, Hongyun's voice became quieter and quieter.

"Do you also think that the cotton in Dazhou is better than Shangdu?"

"I heard that the cotton of our Daning Kingdom is all transported from the Hebei Kingdom in the west, and it is all the cotton of the Hebei Kingdom. I don't see any difference anyway. ”

"Hongyun, you see this is about one thing, different people have different opinions. Where is cotton good? Mama Wang said that Dazhou is good. You say just as good. If you ask me, I can only answer that I don't know. You see, here, when we speak, we don't really want to argue about who is right and who is wrong, we just want to express our opinions. That's why people speak. What do you think? ”

"If I tell Mama Wang these words of mine, will she be unhappy?" Red Cloud was worried.

"What if she's not happy?"

"She'll keep nagging."

"Why can't you just get things done and leave? Why endure listening to her nagging all the time? ”

"What if she doesn't help me?"

"Red Cloud, what you just said has blocked your own path. If you just express your point of view and don't mean to accuse her, and she is going to be angry about it, is that your problem or hers? ”

"Hers?" Hongyun replied unconfidently.

"Mama Wang's unhappiness is actually her own business, she is so old, does she want someone to make her happy when she is unhappy? Like a little kid? Between people, you should respect me, I respect you, and understand each other, right? Why do you want to forgive her alone? ”

"Can I really talk like that?"

"You'll find out if you give it a try."

"I'll give it a try."

"Come back and tell me when you're done. After talking about Mama Wang, let's talk about you. Red Cloud, what do you think is wrong with you? Why didn't you dare to talk to Mama Wang? ”

"I ...... Miss, don't be embarrassed for me, you say, what did I do wrong? I change. ”

"No, you'll have to figure it out for yourself. Otherwise, it's useless to say more. ”

"My problem is that I don't dare to speak."

"Hongyun, you don't dare to say that the two kinds of cotton are as good as the same, because you are afraid that Mama Wang will be angry. But did you come up with it yourself, or did it really happen? ”

"I thought."

"In other words, Mama Wang's anger is just your idea, not reality."

"Yes."

"You're scaring yourself with something that didn't happen, right?"

"Miss, Mama Wang will be angry!"

"She's angry, she's angry! What can I do to you! In this way, imagine if it was Cuizhu, would she dare to say it? ”

"Of course Cuizhu dared."

"What will Cuizhu say to Mama Wang?"

"She will say confidently, Mama Wang, I can't see the difference between these two kinds of cotton!"

"Cuizhu can say, why can't you?"

"Cuizhu is the old lady's maid."

"You're still my maid! Can't I cure her Mama Wang? ”

"Miss......" Miss had never asked about things between people before, but now that she said such a thing, Hongyun was really surprised and couldn't believe her ears.

"Don't worry, things in this world are like this, she is stronger than you, and she is soft. You think there's me behind you. ”

Hongyun's current behavior pattern is actually related to her experience of her parents dying early and being helpless since she was a child, because there is no support, so her correct behavior is not affirmed, but her wrong behavior is constantly reinforced. Then now it is up to Zhen Zhen to act as her supporter and reshape her behavior pattern.

At the end, Zhen Zhen remembered one more thing, she asked: "Hongyun, you just said to make shoes for me, do you have cotton shoes for the winter?"

A warm current flowed in Hongyun's heart, and Miss would care about people: "Miss, aren't your cotton shoes last year already small?" Of course, it's going to be new. My feet won't grow any longer, so I'll just wear last year's. ”

Zhen Zhen suddenly remembered that he was only fourteen years old, and he was growing his body, and Zhen Zhen's development was relatively late, which may be a nutritional problem, and he ate more vegetarian food after coming here. It's also interesting to think that I'm going through adolescence again.

In her previous life, when she was in junior high school, she made a few very good friends, both men and women, it was really a pure friendship, but later Zhen Zhen was admitted to the high school with the highest admission score, and her friends went to other schools, and then she went to other places to go to Normal University, and then went to graduate school, and the contact with her friends gradually decreased, less, almost nothing.

But there is nothing to regret, life is like a train, when it arrives at the station, some people get on the train, some people get off, and almost everyone can only accompany them for a while. Only if you can accompany yourself completely, you have to be kind to yourself.

Zhen Zhen's thoughts drifted away all of a sudden, and he didn't notice that Hongyun gently closed the door and left.

Chapter 10: Be Bold

After a few more days, Hongyun ran into the house in a hurry and said to Zhen Zhen, "Miss, I dared to say Ah Xiang just now."

"Oh? What's going on? Zhen Zhen put down the pen in his hand and looked up at Hongyun.

Hongyun put down the basket in his hand, opened the lid, and took out a plate of radish cake: "I just went to the kitchen to get today's snacks, Ah Xiang said that today's firewood is not good to burn, it is too wet, and there is a lot of smoke." I'll just tell whoever buys the firewood to go to whom, and tell me what's the use, and the firewood won't dry out. Then Ah Xiang looked at me stupidly and didn't speak. I think her expression is particularly funny. ”

"What were you thinking?" Zhen Zhen asked.

"I, I just thought what I would say if Cuiyun was here."

"Well, that's good! Come, eat a piece of turnip cake and reward you for speaking bravely. Zhen Zhen pushed the plate towards Hongyun.

Reward and praise for expected behavior.

Hongyun picked up a piece of pastry and ate it happily: "Well, it's delicious."

If you are in a good mood, something bland will become delicious.

Everything was difficult at the beginning, breaking through the magic barrier in his heart, with this first time, Hongyun dared to speak more next. Zhen Zhen found that she didn't have to talk about it six times, and the effect was obvious.

For example, Hongyun spoke more naturally in front of Zhen Zhen, and did not have as much restraint and resignation as before. She will tell Zhen Zhen the people and things she comes into contact with as soon as possible. Zhen Zhen also understands that she has an urgent need to express herself.

"A few days ago, a new coachman came to the house. Today I met him in the kitchen to deliver New Year's goods, and I saw a bird with three feathers on its tail that was particularly long, which was particularly beautiful. I originally wanted to ask for one, but he said that when I entered the door, I met the eldest young master, and the eldest young master took a fancy to it first, and he was leaving, and he would send it to the eldest young master later. ”

Zhen Zhen smiled: "It is estimated that it is for Yiyun, let's not grab things with juniors." Did you speak directly to the driver? ”

"Of course, how about feathers?"

"Are you nervous? For example, if you want to ask for it, you don't dare, for fear that others will make irresponsible comments. ”

"Huh? Miss, I only remembered your reminder, and when I saw that the feather was beautiful, I asked him directly, and I didn't think about it so much at all. ”

"Well, then I have to praise you even more. It shows that you are tolerant of yourself. Don't be afraid of saying the wrong thing yourself. Eat another piece. Zhen Zhen said with a smile.

"Oh, I've eaten it, miss, you haven't eaten yet."

"Let's eat together." Zhen Zhen took a piece and put it in his mouth, "Hongyun, although it seems that you are no longer critical of yourself, in fact, you will slowly accept the shortcomings of others." You will also shift from judging others to focusing on what you say. ”

"But I still feel like sometimes I don't know what to say."

"For example?"

"For example, at you, Miss, I saw you reading and writing, but I didn't understand anything. Sometimes I want to help you clean up the table, but I'm afraid of messing up your things, and I don't know what to say, I get nervous and feel stupid. ”

"Hahaha, I didn't expect the problem to be here. Hongyun, you can talk about your discomfort, which in itself is a sign of overcoming tension. And do you think there will be people in this world who are not nervous? I'm nervous, too. Sometimes, when my father asked me about my homework, I was also very nervous, afraid that I would not be able to answer. ”

"So what should I do?"

"Don't be nervous. No. You have to think that you look so much better now than you did a month ago. You can allow yourself to be nervous, to allow yourself to have some deficiencies today, but to believe that you will be better tomorrow, so that you can allow tension to exist, but it will dissolve the tension. You see that you are very relaxed right now, so that you can say what you want to say. ”

"Miss, I've found that as long as I talk to you for a while, I can be a lot happier."

"No one is born with a penchant for not talking, I just happened to reach out when you needed a pull. Talking itself is actually a way to make yourself happy. But you have to master the scale, otherwise if you become the next Mama Wang or Ah Xiang, then my ears will suffer. ”

"If I had known this, I should have said a little more."

"It's hard to buy a thousand dollars, and you know it early."

Hongyun's mood gradually improved, and the expression on her face softened a lot, and the old lady Liu couldn't help but praise her when she saw her change: "This girl is becoming more and more clever."

The New Year is approaching, and there is more movement between relatives and friends. Zhen Cheng is the only son in the family, originally had an older sister, died early, leaving a son named Li Jie, in Dazhou. This is probably the closest relative, but there is only an occasional correspondence.

Most of the relatives in the capital are relatives with the surname Zhen in Dazhou. I don't know how many layers and generations of aunts and aunts are relatives anyway, Zhen Zhen stood beside his mother and followed a few people.

Mother's intentions, Zhen Zhen understands. It's nothing more than trying to publicize through my relatives that my family has a girl who has just grown up.

When he thought of marriage, Zhen Zhen had a big head. In her previous life, she was free to fall in love, and she couldn't choose who she wanted to marry, let alone find a wishful husband in this blind and dumb place.

Do you really want your parents to point out a husband, and then she will take a sneak peek behind the curtain or through the crack in the door and decide whether to marry or not?

This is ostensibly soliciting opinions, but what can be seen?

Appearance, appearance or something, it's too unreliable.

Thinking that her two sisters-in-law were both fifteen or sixteen years old and married into the Zhen family, she felt that her good days were coming to an end.

No, you can no longer read books at home all day, you must enrich your life. Enjoy the quality time before you get married.

Coincidentally, I chatted with an aunt of a clan relative that day, and the aunt taught her mother that when she handed over the home to her daughter-in-law, she let several daughters watch and learn from the side, so that after her daughter got married, she would not understand anything in her mother-in-law's house.

She also said that Zhen Zhen is the eldest daughter of the eldest daughter, and it is very likely that she will marry the eldest son of a big family in the future.

When my mother heard this, she fell in love. Zhen Zhen was asked to follow the Jiang family every day to deal with the affairs of the house.

Zhen was really bored, he was really sleepy and touched the pillow, so he agreed.

Jiang first taught Zhen Zhen to read the account books. Zhen Zhen recognizable the characters in the account book, and although the use of Chinese characters to record various payments is not as intuitive as Arabic numerals, it is not impossible to do so. But she had to act like she had just learned.

For the Jiang family, the most difficult thing is to settle accounts. For ordinary people in this era, it is no problem to add or subtract two or three digits, and what she is most afraid of is to calculate the general ledger, that is, to add or subtract the accounts of a few days or a month. Mental arithmetic can't do it, she has to resort to abacus.

Not long after Jiang Shi learned to plan the game, he played very slowly and taught very slowly. One page of accounts, Zhen Zhen's true arithmetic has been completed, and she is still slowly fiddling with the abacus beads. Because she is not confident, she usually counts twice, and when the two times are different, there is a third time.

College students take elementary school math classes. suffocated Zhen Zhen so badly that I couldn't say I would, I didn't want to learn. That's how many people have to be frightened.

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