Lu Guogong Ye Wei looked at Zhen Zhen's childish face, the tone of Chengzhu in his chest, and the words he said did not look like a fourteen-year-old child, so he asked: "Miss Zhen thinks that Xiaoyu's vomiting for more than a year is caused by me hugging Qian'er but not hugging her?"

Zhen Zhen said: "Yes. She feels left out in comparison to her younger brother, which creates concerns that she may not be liked by her parents. By vomiting, she was able to release this worry, and she also managed to attract the attention of her parents, making her confirm that she was still liked by her parents. If her parents can use words and actions to express their care and affection, so that Xiaoyu can feel her parents' hearts, she will not vomit again. ”

Chen felt a little wronged, and defended: "We have always loved Xiaoyu very much, and you have seen it in the mansion, eating, wearing, using, everything is the best for her." How can we say that we don't care about her? How can there be parents in this world who don't love their children? ”

Zhen Zhen said: "Children are relatively young, and they may not be able to understand their parents' intentions from the aspects of food and clothing. Therefore, your love for your child is not deeply felt by your child. ”

Chan said, "Then what should we do?"

Zhen Zhen said: "You have to give your children the opportunity to understand your good intentions. For example, when the house is handing out items, you can let her watch from the sidelines and let her know what she has gotten, what others have gotten, and why you are doing so. In this way, she knows her position in the house. In the future, if she has the opportunity to host the feed, she can also learn your method. ”

Ye Wei agreed: "This is a long-term idea." Then he asked: "According to what you said, Xiaoyu doesn't need to take medicine or acupuncture, but I hug her from time to time, and this vomiting can be fine?"

"We'll see." Zhen Zhen said confidently.

Chen asked worriedly, "You say, is Xiaoyu jealous of Qian'er?"

Zhen Zhen said: "So far, I have not observed obvious jealous behavior or heard such words, so I can't make this judgment." Do a good job of guiding and letting Xiaoyu know that Qian'er has a very important mission for this family in the future, and she, as an older sister, should help her younger brother and stand with her younger brother, so that no matter where she marries in the future, the Luguo Mansion will be her strong backing. ”

Ye Wei said: "Miss Zhen, let me take the liberty of asking, if the child vomits again, what should we do?"

Zhen Zhen said: "It's normal to have repetitions. As long as the interval between vomiting is getting longer and longer. I will come back a few more times to solidify the results for her. ”

Ye Wei asked again: "In the past ten or twenty days, I haven't hugged Xiaoyu, hasn't she vomited again?"

Zhen Zhen said: "The purpose of vomiting is to attract attention. Of course, this is not something that the child does on purpose. I think my presence made her feel that her parents cared about her, that she was relieved, that she had nothing to reject, and that she wouldn't vomit anymore. In the future, the interval between my visits will be longer and longer, or after I finish the treatment, then she will feel the love directly from the two of you, so I have to communicate with you two today about what you should do at home. ”

Ye Wei said: "If this is the prescription, it is so easy to do. We all have a good thank you as a family. ”

Chen still had some drumming for Zhen Zhen in her heart, but her husband had already said such things, and she could only nod and smile on the side.

Zhen Zhen said: "You are too polite! Grandpa Guo, Mrs. will definitely have children in the future. My advice is that every child has a fixed day on a regular basis when you and your wife are by your side. When accompanying children, parents talk less and let children talk more. In this way, parents have the opportunity to listen to their children's hearts. Even if your child says something wrong, listen to him first, and then find a way to help him change it. ”

Ye Wei looked at Zhen Zhen talking eloquently, not timid at all, and couldn't help asking: "Forgive me for taking the liberty of asking, Miss Zhen is young, how can she know so many ways to educate children?"

Unexpectedly, Zhen Zhen did not answer him directly, and asked rhetorically: "Grandpa Guo has never fought a war, if one day the country needs Grandpa Guo to go to the battlefield like an ancestor, how can Grandpa Guo know the way to lead troops to fight?"

Ye Wei was stunned for a moment, and then laughed: "Hahahaha, teachable, teachable." It's a great day to learn. Dr. Zhang is honest and I don't deceive! ”

Zhen Zhen generously accepted Ye Wei's praise: "Thank you, Grandpa Guo." I still want to see Xiaoyu again today, I don't know if it's convenient or not? ”

Ye Wei said: "What's inconvenient? Let Madame accompany you in. ”

Chan stood up and made an inviting gesture. The two left together.

When he came to Xiaoyu's room, Zhen Zhen hadn't spoken yet, Xiaoyu had already pounced: "Sister Zhen, you're here!"

Qingqing walked out, and said before closing the door: "Miss Zhen, the eldest lady has been waiting for you for a long time, and she has been talking about you."

"How are you doing these days?" Zhen Zhen asked.

"Like you said, I can't hold it in my heart if I have something to say, I have to talk to my father and mother. I told my dad that I liked to let him carry me, and that day he carried me back from my grandmother's room. Sister Zhen, your method really works. Ye Xiaoyu couldn't suppress the excitement on his face.

"It's not really my sister's fault." Zhen Zhen said, "That's because your father and mother like you, and your words will work." ”

"Well, Sister Zhen is right. Mom and Dad love me! ”

"Daddy likes you, what can you do to make this love last longer?"

"I want to be filial to my father."

"How do you do filial piety?"

"Listen to Daddy."

"What if Daddy's words are different from your heart?"

"I ......"

"A lot of things are mutual. You like your father, and your father likes you. You listen to your father, and your father and mother listen to you. ”

"Does Daddy want to listen to me?" Ye Xiaoyu asked in surprise.

"Of course. If no one pays attention to what you say, what's the difference between that and not saying anything? ”

"That's right."

"Also, you want your father and mother to know your thoughts, so do you know your father's thoughts?"

"How can my father's mind know?"

"Think for yourself, ask for yourself. Also, listen carefully when your parents speak. For example, let me ask you, in addition to the fact that you are carrying you, what other thing does your father like about you? Zhen Zhen slowed down his speech and asked solemnly.

Chen looked a little nervous and waited for his daughter's answer.

"My dad would buy me beautiful cloth, buy delicious things, and write with me."

"What about your mother?"

Chen didn't dare to come out, biting his lower lip and waiting for his daughter to answer.

"My mother played with me and made clothes for me, and when I was sick, my mother cried."

Chen's eyes moistened.

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