Chapter 57: Manifestation

Chen looked at Zhen Zhen in surprise when he heard this, "Huh? What the? "How is it clear?

Zhen Zhen doesn't care, if everyone in the world can figure it out for themselves, what do you want a psychiatrist to do?

"Madam, I want to talk to Grandpa Guo and you about the eldest lady next time I come. Or you can send someone to tell my grandfather when he is free, and I can come over. ”

"Then book it for the next time you come." Chan said.

Zhen Zhen made an appointment with Chen, and played with Ye Xiaoyu for a while before leaving the Lu State Mansion.

When she returned home, her father Zhen Cheng was already waiting for her in the study at home.

She knew how to treat it. But the "political mind" related to the treatment still needs the help of the father.

As soon as Zhen Cheng saw his daughter's smiling face, he knew that today's progress was good: "There is good news?"

"Hmm." Zhen Zhen picked up the kettle on the table and poured himself a cup of tea, and after drinking it all, he told him what happened today.

Zhen Cheng asked with a puzzled face: "Then why do you think Miss Ye vomited?"

Zhen Zhen said: "She was worried and afraid of being abandoned by her parents."

"Is that going to cause her to vomit for a long time?" Zhen Cheng will be skeptical.

"Dad, you have to trust your daughter's judgment. If you don't believe me, there is no need for us to talk about it later. Zhen Zhen said.

"So how do you prescribe a prescription? Do you want to tell Grandpa Guo not to abandon his eldest daughter? This is not going to happen. ”

"Yes. It's really something that can't happen, but it's something that only adults can understand. The eight-year-old girl probably can't understand so deeply, that's why she has so many worries and fears. ”

"Can't understand? Too deep? ”

"So I would like to suggest that the couple show their love for their daughter so that her daughter can feel it, so that her worries and fears can be eliminated."

"How?"

"For example, increase the amount of time you spend alone with your daughter."

Zhen Cheng can be regarded as an ancient "educator". He is still very clear that "students cannot understand esoteric content, and teachers must improve methods".

He did not deny his daughter's suggestion of "showing love", but consciously reflected on it: "I suddenly wondered, do I also need to increase these performances?"

"Dad, you're so interesting. To be able to say this means that you love us. Huihui is still young, especially in need of her father. When you're not resting at Aunt Tian's, you can also go and have a look. ”

"Well, that makes sense. It's better to choose a day than to hit the day, I'll go and see it now. ”

"Dad, don't you listen to me about Fang Zi anymore?"

"You're doing a great job. I am very relieved to be a father. If you go to the Lu Guogong Mansion in a few days, you can say what you think. ”

"Dad, don't forget, keep it secret!"

"Got it! Dad will still pay attention to these aspects. Zhen Cheng felt that he was the one who was educated in this matter. Since no outsiders were involved in Miss Ye's vomiting, he couldn't give advice on how to treat it.

When her mother asked about the Ye family, she said in one or two sentences, and she said that she had eyebrows. After all, the more people who know, the less secrecy they have.

The mother couldn't ask for a result, and she was angry with her for a day.

Zhen Zhen then hid in the room and wrote a summary of the day's case, and waited for her mother to lose her anger before showing up.

In the past few days, the Chen family has not sent anyone to change the meeting time, and it seems that there is no problem.

When Zhen Zhen went to Lu Guogong's mansion for the fourth time, he finally saw the legendary Lu Guogong himself in the study of the outer courtyard, and of course his wife Chen was also there.

Ye Wei is a big man, his body is very strong, at least one meter eight tall, with a beard, and a pair of phoenix eyes bursting with sharp light. Dressed in a gray robe and wearing a scarf, he showed a bit of literati temperament.

As soon as he saw Zhen Zhen, he was quite polite, and he didn't let Zhen Zhen salute: "Miss Zhen is very grateful for the little girl's illness." The ceremony is exempt. It doesn't have to be so polite. ”

After the greetings, Zhen Zhen went straight to the point and said to Lu Guogong and his wife: "The crux of Miss Ye's problem has been found."

"Oh? What is it? Last time, the insider told me that you asked a lot of details about your daughter's vomit at that time. Then he said that he wanted to see me, and I knew there was a play. ”

"Later, no matter what I say, I hope that Grandpa and Mrs. Guo can listen to me calmly before making the next decision." Zhen Zhen made a request.

The couple agreed.

"The cause is in Grandpa Guo, you." Zhen Zhen calmly gave a conclusion.

"What! That's impossible! Nonsense! I said it last time, Grandpa Guo was not there, and Xiaoyu vomited. Chan was even more agitated.

Zhen Zhen put his index finger in front of his lips. Chen rolled his eyes and didn't continue.

"Miss Zhen, please continue." Grandpa Guo's voice was a little cold and hard.

"The reason for the vomiting was that Grandpa Guo hugged the second son in front of Xiaoyu."

"This ...... This doesn't work? Ye Wei felt that this diagnosis was really strange.

"Whether it's okay or not depends on what Xiaoyu has experienced. I know that the two of them have a child between Xiaoyu and Qian'er. When did he leave? ”

"Three years ago." Ye Wei replied lightly.

"Is Xiaoyu playing with him?"

"Sometimes you can play together." Ye Wei said.

"Did you hug her a lot at that time?"

"At that time, I could hold one in one hand. Now, when the child is older, it must be no problem to hold one in both hands. ”

Xiaoyu remembers the award-winning details of the mountain climbing on the Qingming Festival. She especially likes the part of the road you carry her. Unfortunately, only once a year. ”

"This girl likes to climb mountains." The curvature of the corners of Ye Wei's mouth finally softened a little.

"Probably Madame also told you about the last time. There may be a misunderstanding that the child will not hold her, thinking that this is a sign that the parents do not like her. What I just said about the root is yours, which means that you have less actual contact with your child, so she is worried about losing the favor of her parents, and even afraid of getting married. ”

"Well, I heard." Ye Wei said, "I told the child the next day that my father and mother still treat her as a baby." ”

"Has the child vomited again in the last few days?" Zhen Zhen asked.

"Xiaoyu really hasn't vomited recently." Chen thought for a moment and said, the expression on his face softened a little.

"Vomiting is a physical manifestation when a child rejects something and hates it. It's like an expression on your face. In other words, vomiting is caused by the child's heart disease. When the heart disease was cured, the vomiting stopped. She needs her parents to always tell her that she is important and that her parents love her. ”

Lu Guogong and his wife looked embarrassed.

If the ancients said "love", it was very difficult to express emotions. This kind of behavior has to be cultivated slowly, and there is no urgency.

Zhen Zhen said again: "If you two want your child's heart disease to improve, then you have to change."

"How do you change the law?" Ye Wei asked.

She needs her parents to be close to her from time to time, such as hugging, patting her shoulder, touching her head. It's not that hard, right? ”

The couple on the opposite side looked relieved, nodded in agreement, "It's not difficult, it's not difficult." ”

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