83 was diagnosed with autism in school, and Xiaotang was shocked
At around seven o'clock in the morning on Tuesday, He Zhiyuan, who was sleeping, suddenly received a phone call from his father-in-law. As soon as I heard the old man say that he was not feeling well, he couldn't send Yangyang, and Zhiyuan didn't wash his face and didn't wear socks and went straight out. After sending Yangyang to buy breakfast, I wanted to take my father-in-law to the community hospital, but when Zhiyuan arrived home, the old man was sitting on the balcony and smoking hookah with Erlang's legs crossed.
"Dad, what's wrong with you?" Zhiyuan brought breakfast.
The old horse put down the hookah and began to eat the buns, took a bite and replied: "This bun is good!" There's nothing wrong with me, I felt dizzy in the morning, but now I'm fine! I think it's a cold. β
"Oh! If you still don't feel well, go to the hospital. β
"Don't get in the way!" The old horse moved a stool to Zhiyuan with his feet, and Zhiyuan sat down.
"Are you tired lately?"
"What's so tired? There is no heavy work in the field and there is no need to run, and there is no need to worry about it every day, so what's so tiring? The key baby is also close to me now, and it is easy to bring it up. After the old horse finished speaking, he picked up a fritter and ate it.
"That's good. If you have something, come to me directly, I have been waiting for the call, but whenever you see a missed call, call immediately. β
The old horse was very comfortable when he heard this. This son-in-law is not far from him, not as close as Xingsheng, and not as distant as Xingbang; The son-in-law is basically available, mild-mannered but assertive; The lack of delicacy in Gui Ying has been made up for in Zhiyuan, and it is really as the old saying goes, "a son-in-law is half a son". The old horse is not at a loss, and he is very pleased.
"You...... What's wrong with your job? The old horse pretended to ask casually.
"Looking for ......"
Before Zhiyuan finished speaking, he was strongly interrupted by the old man: "Don't be in a hurry, don't be in a hurry, your heart must be determined!" Take your time, there are not many good jobs, and good jobs suitable for individuals are even rarer, and they are not in a hurry. β
"Hmm." Zhiyuan heard that his father-in-law was all speaking for himself, and his heart was hot.
"Yes...... You have time to call Yingying, she is busy, has a lot of things, and has a lot of troubles, sometimes I want to find someone to come up with ideas, and I and the babies can't help her. After speaking, Lao Ma solemnly glanced at Zhiyuan, and then looked for a tissue to wipe his mouth.
"Hmm." Zhiyuan nodded responsibly.
"She is tired from work day by day and comes back late, so she cares more about her."
"Hmm."
The reason why He Zhiyuan has been a little alienated from Gui Ying recently is, in the final analysis, related to Wang Fuyi. He was angry that Guiying was always confused with irrelevant people, but he implicitly forced him to never pick and not speak, and as a result, Wang Fuyi became an internal ghost between their husband and wife, which made the two uneasy. The conflict between husband and wife is either a disagreement or poor communication. When encountering He Zhiyuan, who is emotionally sharp, there is really no way. Listening to his father-in-law's words today, the man sighed and blamed himself in his heart, and couldn't help but sigh.
"I've had a couple of good interviews lately, but none of them worked. Now that I reflect on it, I also have a lot of shortcomings, and I have forgotten a lot of things in my original major. Whether it's work or study, losing it for four or five years is almost the same as leaving this industry, so I've been reading books lately to make up for what I forgot a little bit. Zhiyuan said frankly.
"Good, good!" The old horse looked at his toes and nodded frequently.
"I found that I have been revolving around Yingying in the past few years, what are her colleagues, what are her wonderful customers, and what new measures are her leaders...... I know everything she says. She was willing to talk to me because I understood everything she said and could pick up the conversation. But in addition to Zai Zaiyang, only her job remains, and in addition to her children's schooling, she has an exhibition twice a year. It's not that I don't support her, I'm quite envious of her, and when I talk about work, I talk about it and are very energetic......"
"Aren't you looking for it too! It's the same when you find a new job, you start to get in touch with society again, you start making friends again, and the circle will slowly open. The old horse understood and comforted.
"Hmm. I didn't work for the present, for the sake of Yangyang, but now that I have you, I have to think about the future. β
"Don't worry! Now I'm going to take the baby, I can move for a few years and bring it to you for a few years. It's hard to make time, and you're busy with your own business. β
He Zhiyuan heard that his seventy-one-year-old father-in-law was willing to take care of the child for him for a long time, and he was grateful for a while, biting his lip and nodding, but he couldn't say a word of thanks.
"My anti-interference ability is very weak, and when Yangyang cries at home, I can't help it, and my heart is immediately chaotic. Gui Ying doesn't understand, but I live outside now......"
The old horse interrupted again: "You might as well live yours!" Come back on Sunday, go home as usual for the holidays and New Year, and treat living outside as work and study, don't avoid not coming. Let's talk about business first, Yingying is a woman's family, but she is not a confused worm who doesn't know things. β
Speaking of this, Lao Ma also remembered that Wang Fuyi, he knew his son-in-law's mustard, and only opened his mouth to guarantee: "With me at home, everything is fine, if you can't get out of the score, don't that heartless eyebrow." β
In a concise and concise word, there is a lot of energy. Zhiyuan didn't understand the deep meaning, but after his father-in-law's words, he was properly organized and more energetic.
After a long time, Zhiyuan said: "Okay." I've been moving some books from home, and I've been spending time reading a lot lately. β
"You get yours, get busy."
Zhiyuan got up to find the box, and then pulled out the books he needed recently, and finally found that the house was very messy when the whole bookshelf was completed, he cleaned up the house by the way, and cleaned his son's room again, and when it was near lunch, he ordered a takeout for his father-in-law, and then pulled the big box and left.
Nan'an Group, at ten o'clock in the morning, Jiang Minyi was wearing a suit to greet the people from the Labor Bureau. Sister Li didn't show up, and kept waiting for news in the office, and Joden was lucky at first sight. In the public office area, everyone bowed their heads and ears, listened closely to the conversation of the Labor Bureau, and stared at the figures of the three people in the Labor Bureau.
The people of the Labor Bureau first learned about the situation with Jiang Minyi, deputy general manager, Li Fang, personnel manager, and Ning Guanghua, manager of the design department. Later, people from the Labor Bureau called several colleagues from the design department to inquire about the situation. After half an hour of investigation, it was determined that the situation was true, and the labor bureau finally made a judgment - a fine. First, Nanan Group will be heavily fined, and second, Nanan Group will be fined to make up for the compensation due to the layoffs. Near one o'clock in the afternoon, Jiang Minyi finally sent the people from the Labor Bureau away with kind words, and then reported the situation to Li Yubing. Considering the cost of the next layoffs, Li Yubing fell into sorrow.
At two o'clock in the afternoon, Manager Ma was going to pick up Hyosung's mother and son, so he asked Long Shisheng to substitute for her. Long Shisheng wished there was a clean place, good tea, good table and good sofa, he called Huang Lixiong, Gao Baibing, Lei Chunyan a few old businesses, around the table to make tea, and chat about gossip. Recently, the earthquake inside and outside the company has been serious, everyone is panicking, they are all Nan'an people, who is not worried about their jobs and the company's future? How can I talk after work, I get together at work, and I can talk happily with the thunderbolt.
Gui Ying set off a little late, and immediately rushed to Peking University Hospital after receiving Hyosung's mother and son. Ma Guiying hung up the psychological and psychiatric department, and rushed to the department after getting the number in the hospital hall, at that time there was only one person in front of him, and the three of them didn't have time to sit down and rest, and they were called to see the doctor five minutes later.
"What's wrong?" The young doctor with glasses asked.
"Uh...... The child was beaten by his father half a month ago, and his ear was injured and he is recovering. Since then, the child is not very talkative, does not eat well, and will do his hands when people touch him. What I didn't have before, I never hit someone before. Bao Xiaoxing replied.
Gui Ying stood on the side and remained silent, Xuecheng was hugged by his mother, staring at the table legs, as if he didn't know where he was.
"Do you like to talk or don't talk?" The doctor asked, glaring.
"Don't speak."
"Do you not talk to the person who beat him or not to everyone?"
"Everyone."
"How long? How long have you not spoken? β
"It's been about two weeks."
"What about school?"
"I've been on leave because of an ear injury, and I went to school yesterday while I was in school...... The teacher asked him to answer the question, but he didn't speak, and when the teacher went to pat him or touch him, he hit the teacher with his backhand and hit the tablemate. β
The doctor glanced at the child, sighed, and then picked up the pen and asked, "How old is it?" What is your name? β
"Eight years old, called Zhong Xuecheng." Knowing that his son didn't answer, Hyosung answered.
"Is he usually naughty at school and doesn't like to study?"
"He is very well-behaved in school, he loves to learn, and his grades are okay."
"Have you ever tried to get a child of your age to enlighten him?" The doctor asked.
"Tried, was beaten."
"Oh...... Ah, I'll give you a table, and I'll test the child's state first. The doctor rummaged through the drawer underneath and pulled out a piece of paper, and when he was sure that the title of the paper was correct, he handed it to the parents.
"Is it a parent or a child?" Hyosung asked.
"Can he fill it in? Parents, of course. β
The doctor seemed a little impatient at a young age, but in fact he was angry. He has seen a lot of children and women who have been deeply hurt by domestic violence, and he probably already knows that he has almost no need to ask too much about his condition, but in order to be correct and foolproof, he must go through all the steps carefully.
Hyosung was filling out the form, and Gye-young leaned over to look at it, a little surprised. The title of the form reads impressively β Diagnostic Scale for Autism in Children. There are fifteen items in total, and some of them are really in line with the current state of study. For example, the first "children will not take the initiative to socialize with others, and they are not willing to play with children", which is in line with this, and Xuecheng does not have a friend in school and the agricultural market. The second item is "talking to the child, the child doesn't hear it, it doesn't seem to hear", this is too accurate, even Ma Guiying is very sure. Seventh, "Children will behave strangely", Hyosung chose the right sign. Items 8, 10, 13, 14, and 15 Hyosung also chose the checkbox. Ma Guiying gasped when she saw it, the situation was more serious than she imagined.
After Bao Xiaoxing finished the test, he checked it and handed it over to the doctor after confirming it. The doctor looked at it, tilted his head and said, "According to the form, there is autism at present, and it is still a bit serious. Generally speaking, the child will not talk to the person who hit him, and if he wants to do it, he will also hit the person who hit him, not to everyone. Look at this table...... The child's psychological disorder is obvious. β
"Not everyone fights." Hyosung explained weakly.
The doctor obviously ignored it, he typed in front of the computer for a while, and after a few minutes, the printer came up with a few lists - a total of seven sheets of mental stress analysis, brain function test, attention test, etc., he sorted out the paper and handed it to the parents and said, "Let's do the test first!" See if there are any organic problems. β
After handing in the table and writing the medical records, Hyosung held the list and saw that the examination items were cold. After writing the medical record, the doctor looked up and said, "Let's check first, and then make a decision after the examination." β
Many questions were not solved, but he didn't know what to ask, Hyosung was stunned for a while, and Guiying opened the door of the consultation room when he saw this, and Hyosung got up in a daze and pulled the child out of the consultation room. Gui Ying took the order and went to pay the bill, and Hyosung pulled Hakseung to sit in a quiet corner to rest and wait. During the inspection, Bao Xiaoxing was worried, afraid that he would not speak and beat people after completing his studies, so he frowned. Fortunately, the nurses were very experienced, and Gui Ying was by her side, and the whole process of testing, filming, and analysis was barely smooth.
The examination was finally completed at four o'clock, and Hyosung saw the doctor again with the examination report in hand. The doctor looked through the reports and thought about it for a long time. Hyosung was suspicious and motioned for Gui Young to pull Xuecheng out, and he wanted to talk to the doctor for a while. Gui Ying pulled Xuecheng's hand a few times and couldn't take it away, so she squatted directly and hugged Xuecheng out.
"Is his autism serious?"
"There is no damage to the brain, it is not too serious."
"Is autism easy to treat? Do I need to take a leave of absence from school or go to school for treatment at the same time? β
"His condition has reached moderate, and he is currently unable to go to school, and several tests are not very good." The doctor replied with a frown and flipped through the results.
After a while, the doctor put down the report and said to the parents: "You have completed various examinations in less than two hours, which shows that the child is still relatively cooperative in the process." If someone touches him, he will hit someone, which shows that he is currently confrontational and resistant, and I am afraid that after a long time, his reflexive confrontation and beating will become an unconscious and natural behavioral reaction. If you parents communicated and counseled him as soon as he was beaten at the beginning, he probably wouldn't have been silent for so long. Now if he doesn't speak for half a month, if he doesn't interfere for a long time, and if he doesn't speak for half a year or even years, he may lose his language function and social function, and it will be too late to interfere at that time. β
"So how do you treat it now?"
"Physical therapy, behavioural training, sensory integration training, acupuncture and acupuncture point therapy, and of course medications. At present, the rehabilitation treatment for autism in China is like this, with drugs and external intervention, and a multi-pronged approach. β
"How long will it take?"
"Mild symptoms for three months, severe symptoms for three or five years. The environment in which the child is now is very important for treatment, and if the environment is unfavorable, not only will the treatment not be adjuvanted, but the treatment will be destroyed. In the original environment, if the child is injured a second time, a third injury, the situation is more serious. In conclusion, the sooner it is treated, the better. Now that the child is only eight years old, it is completely time to correct the behavior and development, and the treatment effect may not be so good if he is older. β
"Oh......" Bao Xiaoxing's teeth were frequently cold.
It all happened so fast, it was like a dream. Bao Xiaoxing sat dry for a long time, and there were so many questions that he forgot all about it. The woman stared at the young doctor, and in her heart she didn't trust the doctor very much, or that she didn't believe that her son had moderate autism. She thanked the doctor, asked for the examination report, and walked out of the consultation room with a grim expression.
"How?" Gui Ying put down Xuecheng in his arms and stood up and asked anxiously.
"I don't say much, it's autism." Hyosing didn't want to say more and couldn't say much, she handed the thing to Guiying, and then walked over to her son and hugged him in his arms.
"And now?" Gui Ying was a little dazed, according to the process, she had to prescribe medicine.
"I'll think about it again, let's go back first."
"Good, good."
Gui Ying packed her things, the two of them left the hospital, and Gui Ying sent Hyosung home. When he came, Hyosung was silent all the way, and when he went back, he was silent. Ma Guiying also returned home after sending Hyosung off, and when she got home, she didn't forget to send a message to Xiaotang, asking her to accompany her sister more.
At half past three in the afternoon, the finance department of the southwest corner of the fifth floor of the Hualian Building suddenly became noisy in the southwest corner of the Mojia Smart Home in Shenzhen. It turned out that today was Christmas Eve, and tomorrow Christmas the company held a social party, and Tang Zheng, as the department's external contact, came in with a large bag of apples.
"Oops! Let's rest for a while, today on Christmas Eve, the company will send us apples! Tang Zheng said as he put apples on the leaders' desks first. After putting the office area of Director Lin, Manager Su, and Sister He, Tang Zheng came to the accountant to continue sending. Seeing that it was time for afternoon tea again, Director Lin went out to smoke by himself to leave a relaxed atmosphere for his colleagues to eat and drink.
"Oops! Director Tang, why are the apples you gave to Xiaotang so big, and the ones you sent to us so small? Look at how small Sixuan is, how small Lu Na is, and mine, how did you get so big here in Xiaotang! Mai Yiyi joked with the apple in her hand, a little unrelenting.
"What do you say? The apple grows on the tree, and it is not up to me to decide! I'm only responsible for handing out apples one by one, how do I know who's big and who's small! I want to see how tired people are if they pick! I'm afraid I won't be able to post it here yet! β
Tang Zheng pretended to be confused, he preferred Xiaotang, and before entering the office, he put the big apple on the top for the leader, and then stuffed it for Xiaotang. Mai Yiyi is slippery, and he can see his thoughts about Xiaotang for a long time. Many of the courtship actions of single older men are caused by anxiety - anxiety from age, social anxiety, instinctive anxiety, and the words and deeds and tricks of pursuing girls seem to conform to the process and cater to the world, and only one heart is missing.
"I'll see!" Lu Na stood up and compared.
Xiaotang was embarrassed, held the apple and said, "Who wants to change me?" I have planted several acres of apples in my hometown, and my family doesn't want to send them to me. β
"Do you change it?" Tang Zheng asked Mai Yiyi with a smile.
"Forget it! Teasing you! An apple only, Happy Christmas Eve! Mai Yiyi made a sly expression after speaking.
"Okay, okay!"
Tang Zheng nodded when he saw that it was a joke, and went to the cashier with the apple to continue the distribution. After sending it, he shouted to everyone while nibbling on the apple: "Tomorrow Christmas, the company will organize a fraternity party, located in the lobby on the third floor of Yonghe Hotel, and the specific process has been sent to the company group, everyone is interested in taking a look." HR asked the people who participated in the statistics department, let me know if you want to go! β
"Good! Great! OKοΌ I'm going! Colleagues replied as they ate.
"Can anyone who has a partner go?" Mai Yiyi asked.
"Yes, it's not required to be single!" Tang Zheng replied.
"What about the married?" Su Shuanghong laughed and coaxed.
"Yes, Sister Su, I heard that you can also take children, and there are a few fun sports sessions where you can win gifts." Tang Zheng's face was bright.
"When?" Bao Xiaotang asked.
"From 5 p.m. to 9 p.m., you can leave at 4 o'clock. If you have nothing else to do, try to participate, and the faΓ§ade of our finance department must not be missing! Hahaha......" Tang laughed at Xiaotang.
Colleagues chatted for a while and continued to be busy with work, Xiaotang was thinking about whether to participate in the sorority, she felt that she couldn't bear to go out and play by herself in the situation of her sister and Xuecheng. Just as I was thinking about it, the small dialog sign on the computer was blinking and jumping. She clicked on it and saw that it was a conversation initiated by her colleague Mai Yiyi.
"Someone likes you!" This sentence is followed by three cute emojis.
Xiaotang pretended to be puzzled and sent a question mark expression.
"Please refer to the Apple incident!" This sentence is suffixed with a string of laughing expressions.
"Nothing! The office explicitly prohibits internal love, so you think too much. Xiaotang replied.
"There's a precedent! I used to have a colleague who was a little girl from the administration department and had a good relationship with me. He liked people first, chased for more than half a year, and after the two confirmed the relationship, the girl resigned for him, and on the last day of his resignation, he bought ninety-nine roses and openly proposed in the office, and the girl agreed, as a result! Because he was unwilling to pay a bride price of 100,000 yuan, the two broke up! That girl had been delayed on him for two and a half years in vain! I just broke up in September, and now I'm chasing you again! It's an office romance again! Mai Yiyi posted a long paragraph, followed by various terrifying expressions.
"Wow! What a twist! In fact, there is no chasing, Director Tang is just taking care of me, a newcomer! Think more, think more! Xiaotang also sent a string of funny GIFs after typing.
"Understood, simple friendship prompts, love needs to be cautious!" Mai Yiyi went straight into the knife with a single knife, and the ancient road was hot.
"Anyway, thank you darling!" Xiaotang was grateful to Mai Yiyi for the reminder, and after typing this sentence, he chose the cutest emoji among the collected expressions to express his gratitude.
At five o'clock in the afternoon, Bao Xiaotang received a message from Sister Yingying, and learned that Xuecheng was characterized as moderate autism, and her aunt immediately sank her heart. After getting off work, she left a few trivial tasks and hurried home, bought good vegetables and rushed to cook, and after the meal, she had a pot of lotus seed lily and duck soup to calm her sister and Xuecheng.
At nine o'clock in the evening, when the two sisters drank soup, Hyosung's cheeks were red and swollen, and he spat out a mouthful of cold air in a mouthful of hot soup, and his whole face was decayed and his whole body withered and contracted. Xiaotang wanted to be comforted, but she couldn't find a conversation for a while, and she didn't want to mention the matter of going to the hospital during the day.
"Eh, sister, didn't you want to go back to Baojiayuan some time ago? What do you think is the right time? You quit your job, take a break from school, and just go home to relax for a few days, and it's considered a tour. Bao Xiaotang knew that her sister was often distracted about going home, and now she brings up the old words again, just to divert attention.
"Huh?" Hyosung was sad and tired this day, and he was shocked when he heard this, and he was stunned for a long time, as if the skylight had opened on the door of his head, and he couldn't react for a while.
"I haven't been back to my hometown yet! Anyway, this semester is almost over, you take her home to live for a while, maybe he likes the village and wants to spend the New Year in the village! You two stay at our aunt's house, didn't you say that your aunt's house still has wheat? You live in the same house, and when the time comes, you will be busy working together for the New Year, and after the New Year, you will take your children to visit relatives, watch temple fairs, and go to play in the fields. When the spring is going to be busy, you have passed the Lantern Festival on the fifteenth day of the first month, and you just happened to go back to Shenzhen! β
A word woke up the person in the dream, Hyosung's expression changed drastically, and there was a light in his eyes, but he hesitated, and he didn't know why, and he only said: "I didn't quit my job at Malatang!" β
"Then quit! It's only a few hundred yuan for three hours of work a night, how much can I subsidize? Xiaotang doesn't want her sister to work hard, and she can't see her sister being depressed and sad.
"If I don't go to work, what about the debt? I still owe my credit card! Besides, I'm taking a break from school, but Meimei hasn't taken a break! Thinking of this, Bao Xiaoxing immediately dispelled the idea of going home, as if blowing out the secret fire and the hope of life, and his eyebrows suddenly lost his brilliance.
"I don't have it! My job is more than your two incomes, you take the children home to recuperate first, and I will take the account! You also know that in the past two years, my mind has been all on work and exams, and now I am alone, I don't have a partner and I don't want to talk about it, how do I make money and no one interferes, and it's just the right time to pay off the debt for you! Bao Xiaotang glared at his sister, his words were convincing, and his eyes were powerful.
Bao Xiaoxing lowered his head and pondered, speechless for a long time.
"You take Chengcheng back to live for a while, let the baby play in the village, watch the cows and sheep tease the chickens and dogs, recognize the wheat and dogtail grass, maybe stay in the natural environment of the hometown, the mental pressure is small, the vision is broad, and the baby will be fine if he is sick!"
Xiaotang just casually persuaded her sister, who wants to say it has no intention to listen. Bao Xiaoxing had already heard it, and couldn't believe that he would experience such a big change in middle age. That's right, she thinks far more ambitious than Xiaotang said about tourism. Temporary indecision, the woman is in chaos, and her words and deeds are slow. Yesterday she quit her job, and this morning she was still hesitating to take her child to a psychiatric examination, but in the afternoon, she didn't think about it and was sure that she was autistic, and in the evening Tang'er came with such a heavy suggestion - what ups and downs. After experiencing such two heavy blows in one day, Bao Xiaoxing couldn't react.
She didn't believe that her son had autism at the age of eight, and she didn't want to give up the life she had worked hard for 20 years in Shenzhen, but there was nowhere to go, what should she do. Tossing and turning, just to find a long-term plan, where can it be calculated? Insomnia at night, at one o'clock in the morning, she turned on the light to get her mobile phone, and made an appointment with the psychiatric department of another big hospital, and the woman wanted to make sure again whether the child's condition had reached the point of mental illness.
Gui Ying came back early today, and when she entered the house, she saw that there was something abnormal in the house, and she couldn't find anything abnormal, and she didn't realize that there were many fewer books on the shelves at eight o'clock in the evening. went to ask the old man, and when she learned that Zhiyuan went home to move books, the woman was unhappy, and went back to the room in annoyance, angry that Zhiyuan treated the outside as a home and coldly treated her coldly.
In the first half of the night, he was heavy and sweaty, and in the second half of the night, he finally felt sleepy but woke up from sleep, Bao Xiaoxing was really sad this night. Under the pressure, she guided herself to think of something light, and her brain couldn't help but play the clip of returning to her hometown some time ago, the person and the thing, the mountain and the valley, the winter and the snow, and the funeral...... Vividly. There is a fairyland outside the city, and it turns out to be a hometown.
The small flowers that my grandmother had planted in the corner of the backyard had long since been overrun by weeds. Blue bricks, white walls, wooden beams, cornices, wood doors...... Wild grass occupies her foundation in Baojiayuan, and behind the strong thick green, there is a fragile silence. Even if the grass is barren, the old house still does not make her feel strange and hesitant, which is the charm of home.
When he went home to clean his mother's old house, Bao Xiaoxing saw himself in a blurry mirror - a bald scalp on his forehead, yellow teeth, sparse hair, deep nasolabial folds, and a thin body...... I hate myself for not being a man, and I am afraid of two silences and three tears when I encounter something. Ordinary and helpless life, ordinary and helpless self, always full of joy and hope, but always ushered in loss and sadness.
Hyosung used to think that there was no other reason to return to her hometown than the funeral and the gray-haired homecoming, but today her sister Tang'a gave her a reason, and she was not sure if she could hold on to it. I miss my sister-in-law, the person who hides her grandmother and father on her face, and the person who still cares deeply about her in her hometown.
What to do? Can she go back after 20 years of traveling abroad? What do the people in the village think of going back like that? How do estranged relatives from home stitch up? Is the child adapting to his hometown and can he recover? What about the family's debts? Is it appropriate to spread the debt to a girl? Will she be able to live the life of a peasant in the second half of her life as she imagined? What about her marriage? Can Xuemei and the old man accept such a decision...... The more I thought about it, the more sleepless I became, and I saw that the sky was bright.