Lao Ma, who suddenly came to his daughter's house in the big city due to a foot injury, faces conflicts with every family member, conflicts between rural and urban people, and conflicts between the older generation and the new generation in his daily life...... In the midst of conflicts over habits, customs, ideas and beliefs, the core purpose of this book is how to persevere, compromise and change, how to learn equality, respect and tolerance, and how to carve out a very different life journey at the end of his life. The other side of the conflict, the daughter Ma Guiying's family, has all kinds of problems. The son-in-law's mid-life crisis, the daughter's career turmoil, the arrogance of the two grandsons, the confrontation between the two children, and the most fundamental family structure within the female protagonist and the male protagonist, how the family solves its own problems in the midst of Lao Ma's repeated doubts and denials is the second core content of this book. Gui Ying's best friend Bao Xiaoxing, she is facing a perennial marriage cold war and huge family pressure, her husband Zhong Neng is alcoholic, violent and depraved, daughter Xuemei is self-reliant, excellent but anxious, her son is depressed and timid, and the child's grandfather Zhong Neng is sad and powerless...... How this family recovers from paralysis is the third line. Bao Xiaotang is responsible for her appearance, her first relationship was someone else's junior, and she got pregnant after the breakup but had no choice but to have an abortion; After plastic surgery, she experienced a second relationship, which seemed romantic but was deceived and cheated of money; The third emotion is beautiful but quick to live and die...... How a desperate woman sews herself up and survives, this is the fourth line. The fifth line is about Lao Ma's hometown party in Shenzhen, and through various detailed descriptions, it focuses on describing the state of these rural elderly people in their old age in the city.